Lost attraction for my girlfriend after haircut?

[Anonymous]

So this is going to sound very shallow but I feel like I've lost attraction for my girlfriend ever since she cut her hair very short recently. When we first met she had very long beautiful hair that went down to her lower back. Now she cut it very short to where she almost looks boyish... HUGE turn off for me. What makes it worse is all her friends on Facebook saying stuff like "Omg short hair looks amazing on you!" and "Wow short hair looks so much better on you".

I mean I still love her because she is my girlfriend and we have great memories together but now it feels like she went from being a 9 to a 5. I don't feel nearly as turned on or aroused by her as I used to be :( ... Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

this happened to my daughter. she's way into blond guys and her boyfriend dyed his hair black. turns out that was what she found attractive about him, not his personality but just his looks. she ended up breaking up with him soon after because she realized she was being shallow staying with him just because she found him attractive. they're like best friends now but romantically they are over. his hair is back to blond but she realized it wasn't fair to him to date him because of his looks alone.

[Belleoftheball]

awww look at the lovely couple!

but anyways...

A) Wait for her to grow it out

B) Make her wear a wig when you two get your "freak" on! You can say you want to do roleplay ;

C)Confront her and encourage her to get extensions. ( Providing you pay for it)

[deannarose]

Wait for her hair to grow out, don't break up for something as replaceable as hair. Hair will grow back.

Tell her how much you loved her long hair. and how you can't wait until it grows back.

[lavalamp87]

its not shallow, its what you feel. Would she be shallow if you gained 50 lbs and she didn't like it?There's nothing wrong with telling her you like it long more.. and I would think she would respect your opinion a lot since she's your girlfriend and all

[mshaker]

Just wait for her to grow it back. She's still the same loving woman on the inside. Don't forget that.

[Distant]

Hang in there and strongly encourage her to grow it back out.