Questions: Flirting

So there's this girl I like and I don't want to text her too much. Don't want to scare her off.

I initiate most of the texts but she usually sends long detailed responses about her day and other things going on in her life. she also asks questions some times.

I just don't know if she's being nice.

Today for example, we texted pretty much all day but I started the convos for the most part and got detailed responses.

I put this in flirting because "dating" hasn't come up yet...

anyways this girl I know, she's attracted to me, I'm attracted to her...we talk, daily for the most part...she'll call me 3-4x a week before she goes to bed, especially if I haven't really talked to her all day. We talk about hanging out, yet I've tried to make 2-3 plans to hang out 1v1 and its either she wants to bring her friend along or she forgot and has plans...for example I get half days on fridays, so I asked when she worked...she said 11-2 then 4-9. I was like hey so let me take you out to java's on east ave for a quick lunch(this was Thursday morning). Thursday night I get a text, oh hey I just forgot until now I have plans I completely forgot lets plan for next friday!? :) well since this wasn't the first time soemthing weird like that has happened I assumed it was just a way to get out of the 1v1 thing. Its so confusing, I just don't get it...its like we are "phone dating" but she won't let me take her out for something quick. I told her I really just wanted to get to know her better and see what sehs about. she said that we can do it soon and then that's when "next friday" came up - no not the movie lol. she'll also post FB pics and ask me how I feel about them and if she's attractive and looks for my "approval" on certain things.

Am I reading the signs wrong here...do you think she's into me? we havn'et hooked up yet, she's always told me she's wanted to, should I just go for it and kiss her lol? We see each other every weekend at teh bar... Am I approaching the situation the wrong way. I wanted to do it as "ok I'm going to do this with you", like I'm taking charge and trying to make something happen, being a man and having confidence...even if it is only one time and I realize eh she's not what it hought...what can I do, what am I doing wrong? .is she just into me for attention? I don't know I'm just really confused and could use some advice.

i'd prefer written advice rather than the poll. Really just looking for the next step, what you think my options are and how to approach the situation.