Why do women DO that? (Page 2)

[Mar1na]

When a woman shows cleavage that doesn't mean she's looking for attention from men. We dont dress for men we dress for ourselves (at least me). If a woman has a nice cleavage why not show it? Same with the legs. Personally i rarely wear shorts cause i dont like my legs but i do like my breasts and waist so i wear clothes that will show off those parts. aren't we supposed to bring out our best feautures and "hide" our weakest ones? That's rather rational i think.

[GamerArtNerd]

Why show your breasts if you don't like when guys look at them?

[Mar1na]

well, that's another issue. personally i dont care if guys look, i kinda expect it but if they hit on me or make inappropriate comments-which has never happened to me so far- i'll be mad.

[Nicole9356]

I never can understand the last one, I want to say because people who do that are sluts but want to be sluts with power, they want to get the attention but they get decide who it's from. Hypocritical I know. But is a power thing I believe. It annoys the crap out of me though! They are making those of us with common sense decency look bad!

[Sex-Kitten]

Why does a girl show off her boobs but gets mad when you look at them? Probably because she's trying to show them off to her crush or just hot guys generally, not any random guys. I, for example, get the shits when ugly, drunk, old men check me out. But someone hot? No problems. I also like when other hot girls check me out.

[Creole_Flavor]

Lmao at the eyebrow thing I draw mine on because they are thin and you can barely see them so I don't have anything to pluck which is why I don't like to see when girls take their eyebrows for granted lol nothing wrong with shaping them but its ridiculous when they shave it off completely.

[Octavius]

"We know what your bad moods are about or why something is wrong"

In my experience this is definitely not true. They "think" they know what is wrong but usually they are way off. Then they try to handle it and only make it even worse for the guy than it already was.

[Ozanne]

When that fails, we ask you guys what's wrong. The difference between men and women is men will watch his girlfriend stomp around the house snarling that nothing is wrong, and then shrug it off and go back to watching TV which makes it worse. To women, we *want* you to care enough to ask us and get to the bottom of it, not ignore it. :)

[Octavius]

But communication is key in a relationship. People need to stop saying "nothing" when asked what's wrong if their partner does ask. That's their fault not the partners. Sometimes (my case most times) when people try to help they make the issue so much worse than it already was. Teamwork is essential but sometimes the best way a person can contribute to the team is by just staying out of the way.

[Ozanne]

Octavius, you know I love you to bits, and you know I don't disagree with anything you said whatsoever. But this was just about "why do we do that". It's just out there now. :) It's a silly thing just as some other things I mentioned, but at least it answers the question of what goes through our minds when we do the things we do.

[Octavius]

No I know. I'm just saying that the understanding (mostly on that issue) won't make it any easier for either person. Some issues between men and women just won't be solved because we on average just think they need to be solved in almost opposite ways.

Aww I love you too.

[Belgie]

There was some refreshing honesty there. But I notice that you don't make allowances for the fact that men are not psychic. You *expect* them to know what's wrong, because as a woman you intrinsically know. Well then how come you don't intrinsically know that men just are not that observant?

[YourFutureEx]

I have always questioned the god/nature that why they made girls more beautiful as compared to guys but now, I realised that there is no partiality.

And can you ladies really read minds?

And why girls are upvoting every opinion in which guys are saying that "if girls know that their cleavage will attract guys then why do they object?"

This post made me more confused then ever. 😖

[theCatcherintheRye]

How about just accepting them as they are instead of judging them all the time? How about they do that because they fucking want to? And they don't give a flying fuck what other people thinks? I don't do none of those but I'm sick of seeing this kind of takes... Be original, people.

[theCatcherintheRye]

oh and i know that you don't mean to judge, it was for whiny people it wasn't directed towards you, take owner.

[AleDeEurope]

I agree, but what's so wrong about asking why? Is it really that offensive that we wanna understand you girls more?

[Nuqood]

Yes, originality.. like all the takes you've written and questions you've asked.

That just inspired my own questions, @theCatcherintheRye @Ozanne Maybe you can answer this question for me: Why do women talk loads of smack about people with absolutely no substantial achievements to back up or justify their muck flinging?

Why do women just open their mouths and think that what they say should be respected and considered just because it was created in their mind instead of based around personal and indirect experiences?

Why don't women understand the words: respect, consequence, and humility?

[Ozanne]

@Nuqood Did I say something to piss you off? :(

[Ozanne]

@Nuqood Thanks for clearing this up in a private message. :) Made me smile.

[KidInk4]

For the last one. It's about looking, not staring. Girls know cleavage will attract men but, men take it too far by staring. You can look from time to time butttt do NOT stare

[Prof_Don]

Yup... glance here and there but no staring!

[LovesTVDx]

This is so right

[takemaru111111]

But... but if I try to look at something else, it feels like my eyeballs about to be ripped out of it's sockets and slam into the girl's cleavage!

[KidInk4]

Like I said, you can look, just don't stare. It's not appropriate to stare

[oddwaffle]

This take is truly informative. Now I would be armed against those confusion attacks.

... so there IS A CONSPIRACY about those boobs. I was convinced that my male eyes were like homing missiles focusing on them. This mytake finally confirms that it's the boobs that are like torpedoes locking in on my brain through my eyes.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Torpedo tits?

[dangerDoge]

Ahh an insight into life's great mysteries...
*takes notes*

[thotramus]

that is hilarious
cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...d-84aa-e943030da1d5.jpg

[GamerArtNerd]

So so true. Women are such irrational beings. (not all of them obviously)

[BaileyisDarcy]

HOW DARE YOU CALL ALL WOMEN IRRATIONAL!!! I SHOULD GO CALL THE ASDFGHJKL POLICE SO YOU WON'T EVER SAY THAT AGAIN!!! *RANT RANT RANT BLAH BLAH RANT RANT*

I so agree with you XD

One of my female friends has a habit of leaving the room the moment you even think about disagreeing with her. She doesn't even let you explain your stance, she just walks out.

I swear it's OCS (only child syndrome)

[LovelyyLaura]

You couldn't have explained or said it any better! This is right on! Very detailed and what not. Lol I always get asked about my eyebrows, why do you just take them out and color them in? I don't know go ask Ozanne.

[Justacatlady]

This was really great. I think women that show their boobs but don't want men to oogle them are trying (and failing) to show that you can be sexy and not be objectified. :-)

[FidemMeam]

So the one question that made me click on the Take... you don't know the answer to.

But the rest was pretty insightful.

[itsagirlthing900]

we show off our boobs to get you more interested. we tell you not to look at them to embarass you and wait until your mind starts wondering and fantasizing. because what's hotter than a little mystery? as frustrating as it is, nothing.

[heavensgift2girls]

That isn't hot to most guys, just like being slut shamed isn't hot to most women. It just makes guys think you are pervert shaming us for being a healthy male.

[DaveyYourFavey]

That's not hot. It just makes girls look bitchy, self-righteous, intimidating and disinterested. It makes me want to move on to the next girl because a) I feel like I blew it, b) I feel like she's too sure of herself and c) I feel like I had no chance in the first place.

Even it did work the way you wanted its pretty petty and manipulative.

[Bluemax]

"Why do you show off your boobs but get mad when we look at them?

That, I don't know."

To quote Jesus, "Thou sayest it."

[asdaven]

Most frustrating thing is when a girl is mad and won't tell the guy what's wrong. We don't always know. All this does is prolong the disagreement rather than working those indifferences out.

[puncakegirl]

Never worn anything that shows off my body or cleavage for that matter.
So iv never had to say the last one #justmuslimthings
I agree with the rest.

[tenchu11]

The old sien field analogy breast are like the sun you look at it and say "oh it's nice" but dint stare at the sun only bad can come from staring at the sun