Why gorgeous girls are usually the most self conscious (Page 2)

[godfatherfan]

the "pretty people" of the world have everything given to them.
the more gorgeous a woman is, the higher maintenance and bitchier she is.
also, she will have her pick of guy, so she will always be looking to dump you if a guy can get a date with her.
no thanks...

[Lynx122]

I heard somewhere that one reason why guys are intimidated by super beautiful women could be that: Back in the time where our instincts were evolving if you saw a beautiful girl she was probably already taken by a leader of a tribe or a strong warrior, so if you approached her you could die. I don't know if there's actually anything to that theory but I do feel like fear of rejection could be not the only thing that's keeping guys from asking girls out more often.

[Eternallylucky]

I find it doesn't matter if a girl is gorgeous or not but they will have insecurities from childhood, bad parents, and bad relationships. However I do find that if a girl totally relies on her looks or her nether region to secure a man, it won't last.

[Anonymous]

I really doubt that pretty girls don't get approached. They get constantly cat-called, hit on, flirted with unwantedly, etc. I see it everyday. In fact it's more guys who have that issue. Guys who girls may think are really cute, but he is too shy or intimidated to make a move, they're the ones who are insecure.

[Dylanguest1989]

I'm scared of Getting hurt. But I've never been in to " beautiful " girls. Katherine P, the hottest girl in my school in 2009, everyone wanted her I shook with Elvis nerves if she came near me. I think it turned me off that everyone wanted her that and sge picked a guy who was mean to date her. She cooulf of ffound someone wayyyyy better no neccasarily with me but with another guy.

[Matchmaker7072]

I can vouch that I avoid hitting on 9's and 10's mostly because I self continuously assume that I would always be paranoid about them leaving me down the road.

[mano90l]

I agree. but when you are considered pretty girl and you are mixedrace, its more confusing, living in 90% white society.
"Am i ignored because im too pretty they feel intimidation? or is it because im half black and even tho i look good, they still see me like an alien... hm."
#Story of my life

[skeptic007]

those are expensive heels good job

[skeptic007]

those are expensive heels hun do you have a pair

[mano90l]

lol
no I dont, by now I dont ;)

[mano90l]

how relevant it is to my comment, again?

[JustAnotherPassenger]

This take can pass as a ridiculous and superficial generalization, at best.

[ShaeNielson]

The world is superficial, get over it.

[RomansToPhilemon]

No, this is pretty true indeed. Pretty girls aren't scary boys. But you keep avoiding them, I'll keep dating them.

[CoolSky01]

its easy just like really good looking guys feel insecure too , when people stare at you all the time you start wondering what the hell is wrong with you ,

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Everyone is a prick, girls that are gorgeous have to maintain a standard... to me that is not beautiful, thats sad that your life has to revolve around the views of others. I have no qualms with pretty girls but its honestly a bane to deal with.

[DizzyAster]

" Well studies have shown that the prettier girls usually get approached less often. "

Good. More hotties for me. lol.
Seriously, though, that sucks. I would like all [hot] people to get more love.

[BackAgain]

:)

Also they may have been an ugly duckling or felt that way because kids teased them and guys never asked them out

[Cusco_Othriyas]

Well online dating says otherwise. The top 20% of girls get 80% of the messages. Well, online and real life dating works differently so, well... Yea...

[JSmuve]

"Well studies have shown that the prettier girls usually get approached less often"

I don't doubt the veracity of this statement but I'd love to see these studies.

[FlutteringFeelings]

Disagree. Pretty girls get approached oh soooo much like way too much. Not in a negative way i am saying this but they are approached a lot and many guys tend to want a chance.

[Punkin45]

Hahaha... I'll keep that in mind. I'm not ugly, I can't get a date cuz I'm hawt!

[KBob93]

When I was 20 I was at the peak of my beauty. I was also used as a one-night stand to the guys because I wasn't worth committing to.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

You allowed yourself to be used

[KBob93]

@T-shirtsandkneehighs I probably did.

[Anonymous]

It also happens that the pretty girls also happen to be the bitchiest type. 80% of them bully the 'ugly' girls or unpopular ones.

[FlutteringFeelings]

Noo it depends. Not saying you're wrong but not "all"

[Opinion Owner]

@FlutteringFeelings I never said 'all'.

[LittleSally]

I completely agree...
It's a psychology issue > and that's really sad... :(

[Minxxie]

this is probably accurate for a lot of people, so thanks for sharing the perspective.