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Men, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. So, what are you suppose to do? (Page 3)
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well there are girls like this out there but it's kind of annoying when we're all put into the same box because of the behaviour of a few... i think guys who feel like this just need to date different people and realise that you can't lump 3.5 billion people into the same category just because they have boobs. everybody is different and most girls really aren't that complicated
Lmao Dude idek what the fuck is up with these nerds on here but hell like most time I've approached a chick outta random, It ends with me scoring again lol But it's mostly in school but I am pretty sure it'd be same if I just approach them out too lol
Nerds? What nerds? You know what may come easy for some, may not come easy for others. So, that's great if it's easy for you to approach women and it works. That's wonderful but it's not like that for most guys (or even most girls who try there hand at approaching). It's kind of a hit or miss thing, ya know?
Well there's tinder for them? Lol
I suppose.
Cry me a river. You are not self-aware of what you do your con artist. Your attempted manipulation works on women with less intelligence keep on going you'll find somebody. You might even fall trip and wind up in the vaginae of somebody.
Um, you do realize I'm a woman right? And, I am very much self aware of everything I do especially the things I feel I do wrong because I don't have all that much confidence in myself. So, I'm not a con artist and I'm not manipulating anyone, that's not the kind of person I am. I'm not sure what lead this response but you sound angry, I didn't mean to anger anyone with what I wrote. It's just my opinion, that's all.
You sound like a wimpy guy and you're right I did mistake you for a guy because you sound like a wimpy guy. So I cut you down. Now I'm even more embarrassed that you're a wimpy girl sounding like a wimpy guy. Damn grow up
I just reread your entire take and you still sound like a wimpy guy
Okay, how I am wimpy? Because, I don't think it's right for a girl to be mad at her boyfriend when he complimented her when she was sad or because I'm not like all you other girls and don't agree with you and how you are to people and because I don't jump on the "girl power" band wagon, somehow I'm the bad guy. Which reason is it? Or, are you just another random person they decided it would be fun to hate me for no apparent reason, other than that fact that you can? Because, I'm not really getting why your mad.
Also, there may be a lot of things that I'm not and a lot of things I wish I could be. But, one thing I know I am is mature. That doesn't mean I don't have my immature moments, but everybody does. So, I don't need to grow up because I already am a grown up.
Just out of curiosity, are you a feminist "SexyStudent"?
@AdamThomas I have no idea what a feminist is in your eyes. If it's negative then am not. I'm a graduate student at Stanford University. I believe in equal rights but I don't burn bras run around and hate men.. And I don't put pictures of puppy dogs up to substantiate my opinion. What does this person want? Indeed she switches from the guy perspective to the girl perspective and back in such a tangential manner that one could postulate a schizoaffective disorder. . It is also interesting that she herself jumps from a male perspective to a female perspective in an almost Freudian slip stating, "somehow I'm the bad guy." It is so strange that when someone points out personality flaws right away they are called angry. I'm not angry at all. Remember, "loose associations," inappropriate affect," "an inability to be happy," ambivalence of feeling and being withdrawn are five symptoms of schizophrenia. You only need four of five to get that label. This has been a very strange post
Let me get this straight, without knowing anything about me (at all) and because I gave my perspective from a man and woman's point of view, that makes me schizophrenic? Did you ever think that maybe I can see things from both sides of the fence and my opinions aren't black or white, I actually allow for gray area? Also, I'm not sure why me putting up that puppy picture is a problem but other people on here have done stuff like that too. So, if that makes me crazy, I guess that makes all crazy, yes? Look, I don't care that you disagree with me, you're entitled to that but please don't sit here and tell me that I'm crazy, without knowing me. I don't appreciate that.
It sounds like something (or someone) is stuck up your butt at Stanford...
@schnipdip if that's what you think then go around thinking that way. I'm a free spirit. And I refuse to allow anyone's opinion to charter my life. I have no stick anywhere. I don't understand why you put me down. I think the guys who don't make it with girls make up reasons that blame everyone but themselves. And by the way, I believe the girls you don't get guys make up very similar reasons. I am not putting anyone down but rather letting everyone know that it is my opinion that the negativity towards the opposite sex is grounded within oneself. If you can't make it with girls look at what you doing. If you're trying to put on an act try being yourself. It works. Everyone is looking for companionship. That is the nature of life. I believe all living things want to be with other living things. No man is an island. But that applies to turtles also. They want to be with someone. I don't have a stick up my ass. But I understand the nature of human nature
"Cry me a river. You are not self-aware of what you do your con artist. Your attempted manipulation works on women with less intelligence keep on going you'll find somebody. You might even fall trip and wind up in the vaginae of somebody."
Yup you're definitely a free spirit...
*sarcasm*
@schnipdip I don't know if you are the person who asked the question that the person who did played both sides against each other. That way she could win no matter what or lose no matter what. I saw through her BS. That's why I said what I said. Her whole story is up and down guy versus girl girl versus guy. Never making a point. I reaffirm my original statement
No I'm not... Your beliefs and experiences aren't universal...
Last time I checked this was an opinion site, I wrote this take based on what I have observed, plain and simple. I wasn't pitting anybody against each other. I wasn't trying to be right, I was just writing based on what I've seen. If you choose to disagree, that's fine but please don't be rude about it or diagnosis me with mental illnesses I don't have or tell me what my intentions were when I wrote this. You don't know me, so please quit acting like you do.
This will be my last entry. Read what you wrote. Read about your insecurities. Read how you mix your self into the conversation and then step out of the dialogue. One not a bad person but I am telling you I stand by what I wrote goodbye
Here's the mindset of a man:
We don't care about your inner turmoil, that shit is your problem. Got enough to deal with. If you're too good to or think you are too good, that's fine, play your games with someone who can be bothered. I want a woman and not an indecisive little girl.
There are other things like this as well. If a guy buys a girl too few gifts he is a cheapskate too many and he is trying to buy her love. If a guy is always asking his wife for sex he is annoying and if he doesn't he is likely cheating. On the other hand there are similar things for women if a woman has too much sex she is a slut, too little and she is a prude, shows too much emotion she is a cry baby too little she is a cold bitch, ah well life is life I guess.
This is why you should just be you unapologetically with no fucks to give. If she is going to be a crazy bitch then just dump her and find someone sane, far to many men put up with shit they just don't need to.
this was a CUTE take and I agree thank you for writing this miss omg i love it when my boyfriend is always so sweet and romantic its the best thing ever its never too much!!!<333
You're welcome
You should teach a course on dating! Seriously, you are the only woman I have met, on here or irl that seems to get this. Thank you, and I hope more women realize what you have realized!
You're welcome.
"So, all of that made me think that everything a guy does be it right or be it wrong, somehow it just ends up being wrong in a womans eyes."
I don't believe that's true in most cases. Perhaps I have been lucky with the women I have known.
Mate, you have been lucky.
pretty good take, i find this is very true of my mother. when she gets in a mood there's very little you can do to make her feel better, and she is very hard to reason with and get any sympathy for screw ups.
My ex was a cold fish, emotionally unavailable macho wanna be. Then I met a guy who shared how he felt, asked me how I felt, read poetry, all while being guy's guy.
The trick is to be yourself. Both guys were being themselves but guess whom I preferred?
The trick is to be yourself. Only works if your good looking.
I'm gonna say u picked the macho wanna be come on
don't lie.
@Touglyforfemales yes initially. But guess what? I got older and wiser and moved on. Couldn't take the emotional unavailable guy. Never knew where I stood with him. The other guy? Let's just say I enjoyed while it lasted. Would love to be back with him abut maybe in another lifetime
Wow, I bet that guy was single a looong time before you decided to give a guy like that a chance.
WOMEN ARE GARBAGE LOL
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmP1ier3R30Never seen so many stuck up bitches in my life,
Not exactly scientific but proves a point I suppose
@Touglyforfemales where do you live? It must be nice.
@UtopianLobotomy The US lol why?
@Reflexy
lmao your 17 please shut up
@Touglyforfemales Because you've never seen so many stuck up bitches! Lol
@notenough just wow
And they wonder why some men are assholes... Exhibit A :v
at least you admit how unbalanced and crazy women can get. i dont care the slightest of what they think in their judgmental heads. i go on with my life woman-free, i dont hit on them, i dont flirt them, and have guaranteed my peace of mind. they can gay shame and clueless shame me all they want. i live my life nice and quiet... .
I wish i could give you a hug. Great mytake.
Thank you for writing this. I have experienced this myself and feel like i have no idea what else to do to make her happy.
You're welcome.
How incredibly reliant on outdated stereotypes. Are you sure that you're a woman?
These things really happen, quite frequently in fact
@Toad-1 only when you live in a C-movie.
You deny reality eh
@Toad-1 no, darling, I would never steal your shtick from you. That would just be cruel.
lol so condescending...
if most of the guys here are in agreement and even most of the girls... what does that tell you? probably that you are living in a bubble if you really don't think this shit happens. it happened to me.
Yes, I'm sure. Why do people keep questioning that lol? Just because I don't act or think like most women, doesn't mean I'm not actually a woman. It just means I differ from most, why is that a bad thing?
Because darling, something smells like an old rotten catfish, and it's coming from your direction.
Well, you're wrong. You can believe whatever you want but I am in fact a woman. If you want a picture, I can put up a picture but I have no reason to lie. I have nothing to hide and I'm not pretending to be someone I'm not.
I always used this in my favor. The girls that you're not interested in and drop hints they want you to approach, just act clueless and that's what she'll think lol.
Great post. Ill touch on one thing I see all the time. If a a guy who isn't attractive hits on a girl he is a perv or a creep or thirty, or even so far as called sexist etc. If a hot guy does the exact same its welcome and wanted.
The option is to get a girlfriend that is not a lunatic, and to not feel sorry for the men that do, because they can't be helped. They are deeply brainwashed, and will lash out.
When you're in a position where you're screwed bo matter what you do and you know it, you do what requires the least amount of effort.
Not give a fuck and just go about our business. It's all good if ya got good intentions and aren't line crossing