Why I Feel I'm Nothing Without My Body

[Anonymous]

So to start of I just want to say that this take is really just a rant. Need to get this out there somehow.

Even though I've been called pretty and beautiful all my life but I somehow feel that I'm not. The truth is I'm a horrible person. Yes I just said that and it's true. I'm selfish, manipulative, annoying, stubborn, rude, and crazy. (Sure I have some good sides but I'm just listing the bad ones) So somehow even though I'm attractive on the outside I feel like I need to make up a lot more then that to make up for what's on the inside. If that makes any sense at all.

I have huge daddy issues. I never talk to my father and whenever I try we it ends up in huge fights and arguments. So (maybe) this is why I strive for the attention of males. I crave a males attention. I love it when a guy stares at me while I'm walking by and compliments me. From just stares to compliments full on asking me to date him.

I want attention. Yes I'll admit it. I want attention. I crave it. And my body helps me with that a lot more then my "beautiful baby face"

Once I think I look pretty there's always that one think on my face whether it's a pimple, spot, etc that makes me question my beauty. So I make sure my body is showing to make up for it.

Yes I know I'm a horrible person. A hoe, a idiot, a bitch, crazy or whatever you want to call it. I've heard it all before and I know that but that's just the way I am.

[lushbomb]

i just think you are insecure. may i sugest running? it helps a lot. I too am called beautiful and what not. Everywhere i go i here "wow you're so pretty" and this one girl i didn't talk to straight up told me that when she first saw me she said i was the prettiest girl ever. i was like wow thanks. i am a humble person. anyway i dont feel pretty maybe it has to do with my body. i am not comfortable with it one bit... anyway back to you.. i think you should meet new people.. get a job... work out.. spend more time with family... hey why not even help out in charity? that will make you feel so much better about yourself. i helped out this one hospital once filled with kids who had cancer.. my heart broke into two! i figured that i was lucky to be who i am and im just glad I've never been in there situation.. see stuff like that. Just giving you ideas!!! CAN ANYONE ANSWER MY QUESTION PLEASE :

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2033257-does-he-actually-like-me-or-was-he-only-being-friendly

[Oram52]

Once you realize there is a problem and you acknowledge it you can fix it. You're still in HS or at least around that age. Its not too late. Google is your friend, if you work on your Self Esteam, try be more confident you will learn to love yourself. Think about it.. you'll be in control, more happier, live your life as you want. We all work to improve ourselves, to better ourselves. It affects every aspect of our lives. You do have control, you do have what it takes to change yourself. You can do it.

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[Mayamoon02]

This reminds me so much of myself a couple years back.
Ended up working as an escort because of it!

My advice I learnt through trial and error - is to focus on being good to others and you will find yourself shining from the inside.
Just force yourself to be kind and decent. It will be so much more fulfilling.
Surround yourself with people who have better personality than yourself so it rubs off on you. Honest people who will tell you the truth.

You are probably like your dad!
Too alike. He sees all his own flaws in you and can't stand it.
I only discovered this by talking to my grandma. Asking what he was like in his youth.
Try it if she is around. Or ask any other family member that would know.

It gave me such a liberating feeling and I started to judge myself less.
Parents can sometimes take it too far so its not your fault.

[Anonymous]

You are insecure... And you have to deal with this and improve yourself

Other wise end up alone for the rest of your life cause no guy would like you if you crave attention in a relationship... While in a relationship...

It's not funny or something to be proud of when you say ohh i use my body to get attention...

Every guy will just use your fire sex and then dump you... No guy would respect you...
Cause even we guys sense that ohh this girl is such a hoe... She wants attention.. So let's give it to her to get what we want...

So better improve yourself

[myTake Owner]

I'm anything but proud about it and I don't think it's funny.

[SirenDep]

The first step towards change is to admit your flaws, and you just did it, although you might be a tad too harsh on yourself. You are obviously dissatisfied with aspects of your character, and it's on you to improve.

[EllieLexis513]

This doesn't really explain why you feel like you're nothing without your body. Instead, you just say why you like it. But you don't explain why if you're body wasn't as good as you think it is it would have a horrible impact on you mentally.

[slimstiffy]

if you really wanted to , you can fix these things.
there are way worse people who fixed thenselves.
if you are looking for sympathy, or pity, i have run out. sorry but im not sorry

[myTake Owner]

I am not looking for pity. Like I said on this take this was just a rant. I wrote this for myself. Not for anybody to pity me. I do not want pity not sympathy.

[slimstiffy]

alright. cool. good luck if you want to turn sone things around

[Milhk]

I feel sorry for you. At such a young age you're using your body that way. You should try to work things out with your dad. And honey your body isn't the only thing you have respect your body and learn how to love yourself is all I can say.

[Milhk]

Learn how to love every flaw and imperfections you have. Learn how to deal with every mistake you have made.

[RomansToPhilemon]

Why do you think you are the way you say you are on the inside. What I mean is, why are you like that. What's causing it?

[Dimmu]

It's not all your fault
It's society forces girls to look pretty as if they are just meat with no brains

[Anonymous]

Yep I can relate to a lot of this hairline pores don't even know what nail beds is but i'm probably not happy with it.

[orphanedmind]

I'm assuming this is all sarcasm?

[Fearless_banana]

Dmn you sound like you got some issues lol

[myTake Owner]

That's actually funny coming from you. You're pretty well known on here... And not in a good way.

[Fearless_banana]

people love me lol

[myTake Owner]

I don't see why.

[Fearless_banana]

I don't know but I just keep working out and it seems like I can get away with anything lol blows my mind

[anonman32]

seek counseling jesus christ.

[koksss]

me and my girl wants to flirt with u now lol