When you are out on a date with a guy, these are sure fire ways to turn him off to ever wanting to be with you again
Turn Off Question 1.)
"Are you seeing or talking to any other girl from (OkCupid, Tinder, POF, Match, eHarmony or any other site you met him on)?"
Why? Because it's none of your bloody business who else I'm seeing, dating, fucking, or talking to. If we say we are seeing someone else, this raises red flags in you, if we say we aren't, it doesn't help raise our value in your eyes. So don't ask. And especially don't ask if you are not willing to reciprocate and share your private life details as well.
Turn Off Question 2.)
"What do you look for in a woman?"
Why? Answering this question can either make us look like we lower our standards (Just looking for a nice girl) Or like we are too petty or picky about who we will date (A long list of requirements) Just enjoy the moment and the date.
Turn Off Question 3.)
"How much money do you make/earn?"
Why? Asking what we do for a living is one thing, but actually going into details of what our paycheck is like just paints you as a possible gold digger or someone with no social tact whatsoever.
Turn Off Question 4.)
"Would you be willing to relocate to where I live?"
Why? Because you are getting too deep on the first date. First off, this isn't a fucking job interview and second, let's see if there is a connection first between us before we start discussing moving to another city or state.
Turn Off Question 5.)
"Can you tell me about your past girlfriends and former relationships?"
Why? If I start telling you about my ex girlfriends, if I say bad things, it makes me look bad. If I say good things, it makes it look like I'm still hung up on them. The past is the past and that's where it should be, no need to bring up sore topics and a Pandora's box of shit topics.
Turn Off Question 6.)
"Have you ever had a one night stand?"
Why? Because if we say we have, it makes us look superficial and like man whores and if we say we haven't you'll suspect we are lying or whatever. As mentioned earlier, don't discuss private details, especially if you won't share yourself.
Turn Off Question 7.)
"Will you be willing to convert to (Hinduism, Islam, Christianity, Judaism, Ba'haism, Sikhism, Jainism, Buddhism, Paganism, Satanism, Scientology, or any other ism) and/or, if we ever had kids, what religion will we raise them as?"
Why? Again, too heavy on the first date, and asking these questions will paint you as a potentially domineering woman that wants to keep a collection of testicles in your purse. Who cares what religion someone is, you shouldn't try to change someone's belief systems anyways.
Turn Off Question 8.)
"What do you think about me?" And/or "How do I look in the dress/shoes/makeup, etc.?"
Why? Fucking really? You are going to ask this? This makes you look insecure and no matter what we say it will backfire. If we say we like you, it makes it look like we are desperate to like someone quickly without fully knowing them first. And if we say anything else, it will make us look too critical. Also, don't go fishing for compliments, dress nice and take a compliment only if we give one.
Turn Off Question 9.)
"Can you buy me these (shoes, watch, sunglasses, etc.)?"
Why? First dates are reserved for - generally speaking - the guy buying food and drinks or paying for an outing like bowling or a comedy show. If we go window shopping afterwards, asking me to buy you shit just makes you look like a gold digger and like a cheap bitch who tries to use guys to get free stuff. Buying things for you should be reserved for after we are already in a relationship, and you've exerted effort in the relationship like paying for a date or two yourself.
Turn Off Question 10.)
"What are your political views/family ailments and illnesses/flaws and bad habits? Have you ever been in trouble with the law, DUI? etc."
Why? Because these are all awkward motherfucking questions that focus on negativity or touchy subjects. I don't want to get into heated debates on Trump and Hillary, my family history of lactose intolerance or my occasional road rage or the time I got caught in college drinking in the dorms.
There you have it, avoid this shit and set out to be the elegant woman you know you are on the inside. Did I miss a question? Let me know in the comments below! Thank you for reading.