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You're pretty spot on here. I find it's great practice to just get in the habit of talking to all kind of strangers, guys, girls, people in line at the grocery store. It gets you in the mood to talk and it also gets you prepared to deal with random jerks.
I want a woman who can talk at my level, be someone I readily see as an equal, and be passionate about her beliefs - ones I myself can get behind. Unfortunately, the only two I've met who meet all that criteria are also southern ladies who are incredibly puritanical about the men in their lives and whom they'll date. The first, after learning I was interested, gave the "not my type" excuse. The other said I was a "nice guy," but she's "no respecter of persons." I can't win.
...what the writer of this blog failed to mention is that if you put on a mask of attitude and confidence that the woman is going to be attracted to THAT and not YOU. So eventually when she gets to know the real you, she won't want you anymore. Trust me, this has happened to me twice with two exes and they both broke my heart. I got good sex, which was fun while it lasted, but eventually I wanted something more and these girls only liked my attitude and not ME. So good luck with this guys.
Women date 40 year old fat, balding men because they're RICH. Women want money, a hot alpha male, and everyone in their friend and family group to love them. Too bad they are all whores who can't be faithful unless the man looks like Brad Pitt and owns Microsoft. Our generation is F***ED as far as women goes. Yes this type of "man up" sh*t advice works. I've done it before. Be allusive, aloof, calm, confident, cocky, funny, and don't chase and girls will fall for you...
Honestly I could not be happier you posted this! I recently discovered the greatest guys out there are the shy quiet ones, but they are so hard to get to open up. Maybe have any advice for women who is seeing an extremely shy guy? Would be awesome! :)
@JanJan good info for the guys out there - a lot of the guys I give advice to think that girls are magically totally in control of their social lives...it's good to get confirmation from a girl that you guys are just as nervous and scared as most of the guys out there.
Just read your article and I found it accurate but not entirely helpful. I will try your suggestions
but what should I do about this
I'd like to flirt with girls, I don't think I'm bad at it, but I can't turn it on the way most of my friends can, and that's really slowing me down. Tips from guys and girls would be awesome
@shyguy the article isn't specifically about "getting laid", in fact early in the article I say the key is to NOT be an out and out jerk. However, you're kidding yourself if you approach a girl and try to tell yourself you have no sexual interest in her. You know it, she knows it. That doesn't mean you have to stroll over and hump her leg, or be boorish about it. Sex is a natural extension of being completely attracted to someone, both body and intellect.
This article is very generic everything I've heard before. The Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt examples are pointless. Rejection is not the only thing that keeps people from meeting someone. I wanna ask is this article about getting laid or about finding someone who you really like because all you talk about is getting laid I thought you said you don't have to be a jerk or a douche bag to get the girl of your dreams and you have just gone ahead and contradicted yourself.
"That's just one example. The main goal is to pick something ABOUT HER (not something random) and get her talking about it. This isn't "fake" or a "trick". "
actually yes that is a trick.. its called manipulation. You are making a fake conversation about something your not genuinely interested in to talk to her.. this guy is a f***ing fraud, don't believe him guys
asking for an email vs phone number is extremely stupid.. I'm glad many morons out there will take this advice.
also , trying to pamper guys to get over a fear instead of being rough on them is a contradiction. the reason they are scared little sissies is because theyve been TOO pampered their whole life.. and here you are pampering them more. Your patronizing guys as if they are scared little boys when I bet anything you aren't any better than the average guy at talking to women..
@adur2000 when you deign to point out the "obvious generalizations" that you so generally refer to (irony?), I'll address them. That, or go write your own Master's-thesis-level article, and see how many people care to read it.
The game. I agree with this.
You can be Mr. Prince charming all you want but if you don't have what it takes to find something and take what you want your gunna be stuck at the bottom forever. Very well written article.
@TheManInBlack
It's really not that much! Walking over and talking to someone, starting a conversation, that's "too much"? I think it's totally worth it. I've met some amazing people by just walking up and talking to people.
OMG! THANK YOU FOR PUTTING THIS OUT THERE! EXACTLY WHAT GUYS NEEED!
I am tired of chasing guys because they are afraid of being who they are. I want a man who has a bit of attitude and says I am a man and deal with it!
Good article. I've never heard of the email one before.
I promise, guys... We are just as afraid of rejection as you are! But we want you to talk to us! Even a conversation that doesn't go anywhere can make a girl's day. Just try it!
@lyulf0
Thanks for the kind words. Glad you liked the article.
@socalgamehater2006
Message me privately and I'll share a few of my insights into the "dating game" with you.
I know that rejection is a part of life, but how do I find out what it specifically is that I am doing wrong to make women not attracted to me? how do I learn from my mistakes because they are obviously not going to tell me what I did wrong
This just shows what a loser you are! These site censors favor your opinions over mine, so everything you post gets published! They hate what I post. So, other than my first two posts, they have thoroughly censored me! Yet, even with THEIR help, you STILL can't handle me! The giant majority of members that have read my posts and compared them to yours, agree with me! Almost everyone siding with YOU, has either been deeply brainwashed to accept the way things are, or benefits from the status quo.
@diabloknk I really hope you're being satirical. I wouldn't imagine that anyone with a diagnosed mental condition is using girlsaskguys.com to treat that condition.