Women represent the future of all people. They raise the children, teach morality, and define the behavior of men. Women's natural instincts have been used against them to make them into consumers who have loose morals, have less kids, and don't expect anything from men. I hope this myTake will help women realize the power they have and the responsibility that comes with it.
SEX IS NOT LIBERATING
Sex is one of the most powerful experience two people can share. In previous times, women and their sexuality was seen as something that needed constant guarding. Women generally only had one sexual partner their whole life. However this began to change as psycho-analysis and sexual liberation began infiltrating American Campuses in the late 60's. A woman should be in control of her sexuality, however that does not mean being a libertine. Instead libertine behavior makes women(And men) become slaves to their passions and desires. Since the 60's women experience higher rates of single mother-hood, STDs, and unhappiness. So don't have sex whenever you feel an urge or stimulation. Harness that energy and use it to be productive. Save that sexual energy for a man who deserves it and has worked for it.
WORK IS GREAT, BUT NOT EVERYTHING
Women are more talented multi-taskers than men. It makes them great workers for a variety of fields. Women have been sold this idea that a career and independence is the ultimate goal. Although careers are fulfilling and independence is desirable, it is not the ultimate goal. People are dependent on each other. We are animals who have existed in groups. Women should focus on building a family early in life and a career later. However the opposite is promoted. Women are rushed to establish a career and a family before there mid thirties. This is a huge task for women. It shortens women's time table for both and causes them stress. Imagine starting a family in your early twenties, raising them until your early forties, and then building a career for the next thirty years of your life. You can have it all, but not all at once. This is why harnessing your sexual energy and finding a man to provide in your child raising years is essential. Also it will keep you out of debt when you do decide to take classes, learn skills, or establish a business later on.
YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR LOOKS
The first two points I made are intimately connected with the sexual attraction. Women are sold the idea that their value lies within their sexuality and their ability to work. That is not true. Its a gimmick meant for women to obsess about their appearance and status. This forces them to buy products which would make them improve both. Make up, dresses, suits, heels, dinners, vacations, etc.
All these things are nice and make us feel good, however women spend a lot of money on these things. Men are less pressured to do so, allowing them to save money. If women saved all the money they would normally spend on trivial, material things, they would have more money to invest on things which are long term, like stocks, property, and family. This system is designed to make women into the ultimate consumer. All that hard-work wasted on clothes and make up. Many women have an over abundance of clothes and make-up. This may attract men, but it won't keep them around. These problems have been exacerbated by social media, and the need to share your life with the world.
HARNESS YOUR TRUE POWER
Women tend to be more organized and better multi-taskers than men. They also have a lot of sexual power and can use this to attract the right man to help them achieve their goals. If a woman uses her natural advantages to find a good husband, build a healthy family, and invest, she can be happy. Instead women are sold products, sold an idea of unhealthy sexuality and social interactions, and not told to invest or save. So ladies, don't worry about what they are selling you, or are telling you what to think, whats right or wrong. Follow logic and you will find happiness.
CONCLUSION
These are my observations on the state of womanhood in the West. I understand my observations are made from the perspective of a man, however, they are based around logic. I am not telling women to never wear make up, or to never buy nice things, nothing should be done in absolutes. I hope this take helps women reflect on some harmful behavior they partake in and makes them adjust their lives for the better. Also, I will be writing a take about the need for men to MAN UP! WAKE UP! AND START BEING RESPECTABLE. Women shouldn't be investing and sacrificing for losers, which so many men are nowadays. We need to stand up so our ladies can stand with us.
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