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Awww. I'm surprised she'd want a dessert with you! By how sweet you sound lol
What is surprising about that?
@OlderAndWiser she's being sarcastic.. you sound like you don't know what you're talking about..
U have a great experience back there, hopefully I got a gut for a woman😂... Eventually, my every sec try to court a girl, I been rejected, maybe cause I'm overdo and my type was overqualified my standards 🤣🤣... But it was naughty moment... Seriously, just a few times. Fortunately I got a bad one every time🤣🤣
I like fighting in an octagon. I’m an anomaly 😞 😠 🥊 😊 🤗
You don't really look like a fighter! :) :) :)
And EVERY woman is an anomaly!
😮 😜 😊 lol I’m little but mighty
You are too pretty to be a fighter! :)
Looks can be deceiving, @OlderAndWiser! @1828avaava1828 fought off an entire army of gorillas 🦍 in the Congo fighting for her survival after her siblings turned their back on her!
That's all TRUTH.
1. don't believe what they say, because they are affraid of being honest
2. make it known socially she is admired
3. FINE means she is really really mad.
That dessert trick is good, I knew she wants one, but did not knew how to get it in her...
Flowers bit you just made sense to me as I did not understod it before, why can't he send it home, why she needs to carry it home, I forgot about jealousy bit between women.
About 'its fine' you forgot sigh in the end and it is never FINE.
I send my girlfriend flowers on Valentine's Day every year. This year and last year they were on a weekday so I had them delivered to her work. She loved it.
That's what I'm talkin' 'bout!
Me: ordering desert instead of food, than order two more brownies and a chocolate fudge cake with ice-cream as desert. If that won't make a woman comfortable to eat around me, I'm sorry, but number 3 applies.
Hint: “Everything is fine” usually implies that she’s either wanting you to comfort her or it’s sorta like a “leave me alone, I’ll do it myself” sort of attitude.. for me it’s the latter lol
I see the second one to be very common with females.
Has anyone ever gotten through it and was able to help?
@Syrian_survivor Of course lol I don't know how it works for guys but eventually yeah
Is it non-creepy persistance that gets you to open up?
Like you'd tell a guy you're fine for the first couple of times and "reject him" but after that you start feeling more comfortable because he's still there and trying?
@Syrian_survivor It’s not really an emotional thing per se, to an extent—it’s more of a longing for solitude and sometimes we just need our space.. but ofc if she feels comfortable enough instead of coerced then she’ll probably feel more inclined to open up about it. Sometimes it’s easier to dismiss the person and internalize your issues to sort through yourself rather than explain and present said issues to the person. I’m guilty of this myself so I understand lol.
I enjoyed reading this. However I’ve heard that most women would just laugh in your face if you gave them flowers nowadays. 😔
That sounds like what the guys say who are too cheap to send flowers to their girl. Let's see what women say on this issue.
Girls, do you want to receive flowers from a guy/romantic interest? ↗
Ok! I’ll be keeping an eye out! 👍
Honestly, he's got it down. Most women would deny the third one, but I think that's incredibly accurate.
in my view Valentine's day is just a celebration and anniversary of the Valentine's day massacre that happened in the
In the past
But to each their own Valentine's day is just a normal everyday regular day to me but it is an anniversary and celebration of an historical event that happened
On this day
Back in 1929
The celebration of Valentine'a Day started long before the massacre!
Whoa i didn't really know that about Valentine's day i thought it was about the massacre but i guess I learned something new about Valentine's day
I get the point of your sarcasm (and I don't mind sarcasm at all,) but I was just responding to your initial statement: "in my view Valentine's day is just a celebration and anniversary of the Valentine's day massacre that happened in the past."
Hhahahhahahaha I saw the title and clicked this expecting to see a blank post and was not disappointed! hahaha well played sir!
Ok I'm going to read it now
But seriously though. I actually understand women better than I understand men, so here goes:
1)
The reason she is saying that she doesn't want desert might be because she doesn't want to spend your money (which is a noble trait in a woman and should make you feel good about her), or she doesn't want to appear to be a woman who is going to pig out and get fat, but it's probably the former.
Your responses to make her feel comfortable ordering desert seem solid.
Side note: I realize you didn't intend this, but that shadowy picture of a woman with "NO" on her hand with the caption "don't believe it" sends the wrong message. It sounds like sex... and that's rapey, but I realize that you didn't intend to send that message and I'm not calling you a rapist. Just know that a woman might very well interpret that in that way.
2)
Correct "she has increased her standing among the other ladies. And she is happy!"
A man has cared enough about her to send this to her and that makes her look good.
3)
I have learned to take 0 guesses because it will only make things worse as I come up with all the things that she might be mad at me for that she didn't realize that she should be haha. ohh...
I try to create a space for her to feel comfortable telling me what is wrong, but if she doesn't then, well, I have a saying:
If you're not going to tell me why, then you're not allowed to be mad at me :P
As an aside, there is no 3 things to know about women. There aren't 10,000. There's millions. And every woman is different, but there are lots of patterns.. I don't know everything and I never will. Nobody will.. but that's ok. Getting to know each individual is part of the fun
I don't want her leaving the restaurant stuffed. I would assume that, like me, eating too much leaves her in no mood for physical activity, of any sort.
I'm pretty late for this my take, but I loved every second of reading it!
I am a woman and after reading your text I don’t feel like you know anything about me.
I know a little...
Maybe you know something or a little about some specific women but definitely not about women in general.
I know some things about women. This doesn't apply to ALL women, but I never said it applied to all women. One of the other things that I know about women is that MANY of them will get irate when you suggest that they are like other women. Right?
I definitely don't know about women in general? Just about everybody on the face of this Earth that can comprehend anything knows SOMETHING about women in general because it would be general knowledge. How can you say I DEFINITELY don't know anything? Kinda reachin' aren't ya?
i know a lot about women. and in some things, better than women themselves
Ah okay, so you're the man women should trust because they know nothing about themselfs.
I have to tell all women that we have finally found someone who can tell us what we want because we cannot do it ourselves.😆 Hahaha!!!
The fact that you think that you know everything better proves that you actually don't know anything. Nobody knows better than someone himself/herself what he/she wants, thinks, wants etc. doesn't matter if male or female.
@Alex_988_2 True, dat!
The last part is true because like I told you, you can't tell me that I DEFINITLY don't know anything about women in general, but you did just that. I said I know a little, not everything so you are wrong there, too. What you can do is tell all the women you know that you have found someone that knows more about most things than you do because the points you are making contradict the reason for the discussion. Also the answer to what I know is not binary, meaning that I either know everything or I know nothing. There is an entire gray area where I can know all kinds of things about women and barely scratch the surface. But that's still knowing a lot and far from knowing nothing at all. Are you still with me, or is your head spinning? You're a feisty little thing, I'd like to get to know YOU better. The first thing we'll work on together is your grammar. 😉
First of all; I'm not a
feisty little thing and I'm
definitely not interested in knowing you better!
Oh no, I'm deeply sorry that my grammar is a thorn in your eye. Just for your information, I've been learning English for 6 months by now and I KNOW for such a short period of time it's extremely good! I would like to have a discussion or conversation with you where you have to speak my mother tongue after you taught it yourself. I don't think you would be able to.
One of those love-hate relationships in the making! :) :) :)
lol...
Feisty, feisty! Chef's kiss... mwah!!👨🍳
by the way friend, I didn't say your grammar is bad, just that we'd work on it. That's another non binary thing. Your language skills can be anywhere from non existent, to expert. You take things and exaggerate the meaning and response. If I don't know it all, I don't know it at all. That's another thing I know about you just from what little we've been chatting. Destiny has brought us together. Stick with me and you'll know more about women than everyone else!
Stay away from my woman, guys!! 🤣
wow this dumbnonymous is so insecure that she reported my rightful reply to her dumbness lmao
@Alex_988_2 Well, she just can't handle that we know more about her than she knows about herself. 🤷♂️
Believe whatever you want. That's really too stupid, mediocre and childish for me. I'm not interested in wasting my time with little boys. Nobody knows better than someone herself/himself what she/he things or wants!
But you are wasting your time every time you reply. Wrong again, hon. Damn, It's like we've known each other for years. You're so predictable! 😁
@DUMNONYMOUS then why the fuck you reported my previous reply if you were so confidant? now tell me who is childish and dumb?
"Nobody knows better than someone himself/herself what he/she wants, thinks, wants"? then what do parents do for their children, fuckwit? and its just one example.
and i thought i wouldn't be needing to explain it but i guess just are so low in iq.
and please get some schooling
*confident lol my bad
@Alex_988_2 I like how you just ripped her a new one and still felt you needed to correct *confident. 🤣🙋♂️
Not on topic, but I sure hope you aren't "pro free speech" cause I got blocked by one or more of your buddies on that abortion stuff. Can we agree NOT to be a bunch of cowardly commies here? Thanks.
Are you suggesting that I am a cowardly commie?
Not you, cause apparently, you at least are not the one that blocked. But one or more of your "pro life" friends seem to be, so may want to reevaluate that.
Always putting out good content. Thanks for the post.
Here is everything I know about women:
They are all bat shit crazy.
Yeah all true, and pretty good move with the dessert though, I’ll try to remember that one 👍
everything I KNOW ABOUT WOMEN: they don't want me and they ruin lives.