1. Sometimes you’re very emotional.
At times like these, you don’t follow your
common sense; it’s your feelings that guide you. Like when you’re with a guy, you don’t think with your mind; you don’t think rationally. Instead, you listen to your
emotions and what your heart says about him.
2. On the other hand,
you have a wild side as well. Sometimes you’re into adventures,
challenges, doing wild things. You can even surprise yourself by doing something you never would have thought of.
3. In your relationships,
you usually stay passive and expect the man to lead. You want
a real man who can do it. On a first date or in a longer relationship, you don’t like to
decide where to go. You like it when the man chooses the theater, the film and
arranges everything — even when he tells you where to sit.
4. You like surprises.
Most of your relationships become boring as time goes by. You
get used to the same routines, places and boring sex. You want variety and changes.
You want your man to surprise you sometimes and keep you on your toes, to feel the
excitement of something new and unknown happening. You want a man who is creative enough to surprise you.
5. Little details are important to you.
You always take a look at a man’s hands or shoes
to see if they’re clean. Sometimes romantic moments, like holding your boyfriend’s
hand, hugging and kissing, or just receiving a little, thoughtful something, are much
more important than big, expensive gifts. Getting a postcard or a phone call and knowing that your boyfriend, or someone you care for, is thinking about you can make you really happy. Such small details can mean more to you than a big bank account or an expensive car.
6. You are oftentimes mildly critical of yourself.
You stand in front of the mirror,
looking here and there and noticing if something isn’t right. You’re looking for minor
flaws or imperfections on your body. You hate to admit it, but sometimes you might
even enjoy this. At times like this, you need a little validation. A compliment about
your looks or an inquiring glance from a man can increase your self-esteem.
7. You also have very difficult, self-critical periods.
When this happens, it’s not easy to tolerate you, and sometimes you wish that everybody would go away and leave you alone. You might be rude to people and guys even when you don’t intend to be.
(Note: Women have periods. While periods don’t directly control men, women’s
menstruation cycles play an important role in their lives. They sometimes get out of
bed on the wrong side and are influenced too much by their emotions. A woman is
more likely to brush you off on a bad day or when she’s having her period.)
8. Deep inside,
you still believe in love at first sight. But it never really happened to
you. You have a picture of the ideal man in your head, your Prince Charming, who
will sweep you off your feet, put you on his white horse and rescue you from the
castle. In each of your new relationships, you fantasize about it being perfect, but it
never is. Your boyfriends might measure up to 60–70 percent of your ideal guy, but
something is always missing.
9. When dating a new guy,
it usually takes four to five dates before you say you’re going
out with him. You want the man to initiate the first kiss, and you usually test a man.
You set up hoops and expect him to jump through them. Sometimes you test men too much.
10. About sex:
You like it when it “just happens.” You don’t like to plan anything in
advance whether it’s the first time or the 100th. You like to be swept away by the
moment. In bed, you stay passive, but take control when your wild side comes out. You like to experiment and try out new things.
Thanks for reading. #ThingsILoveAboutWomen
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