Have you dealt w/ the 3 E's of female behavior yet?

[Vegasrunner]

Men who don't understand this are rarely successful with women, and no being successful with women doesn't mean finding one girl and giving her all your time resources and attention.

When women don't like information they react in one of 3 ways

1. Equality - They will typically try to make the excise that "someone else does it too" Well remember if someone else does it that means their admitting they they indeed committ the original act.

2. Exceptions - This is a female and beta make favorite. They will claim "not all" All is not a pre-requisite for a fact. Everyone does not vote yet we still have elected officials. Women who do this are more interested in creating an unprovabal metric vs finding the truth.

3. Emotion - The most common. Women will typically use random qualifiers to justify their position. They will claim that only "good" or "insecure" or some other intangible metric is the type of person that does this. This is another form of a shaming tactic designed to make inexperienced men question their devesions.

Hope this helps. GL out there!

[Anonymous]

I've had them defend bad behavior as "girl stuff."

For example if she goes through your phone. It's not OK for you to fo through her phone without permission. But it's OK for her to do it. Because "girls NEED to do these kinds of things."

The justification is that women are harmless and men are horrible. Girls have to do things in order to protect themselves from physically and emotionally dangerous men.

Women see all men as merely manipulators. Everything we do is for sex and nothing else. So a woman must continously test a man for "true love."

They believe the man is faking everything. That's why they must do continual tests. Snooping. Anything is justified in verifying a man's genuine interest vs desire for sex.

And in my head that pretty much explains like 95% of bad behavior from them in relationships. It's them being insecure basically.

It's them being used in the past and assuming all men are the same.

Even if you did love her, if you break up with her because she's a psychopath, in her head, you never loved her and you only used her because that's all men do is use women according to them.

So basically, in her head, everything is a double standard and they are all perfectly justified in her head.

[Greenbins]

This is sooo freaking true!! Dude you nailed it

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you =D

[DarkLegacy]

Yes spot on, women will always try and find ways to justify things that they slate men for.

[Masterodd]

GOLD STAR!

[Singing_Hollow]

FACTS! Great answer!

[Johnagain]

And... cue the Mission Impossible music. Face to credits... That's got to be posted everywhere!
(So, I would need a secure, mature woman, even in an open relationship to be rid of most of this BS behavior?)

[Johnagain]

*Fade to credits...*

[Libidononexistenteww]

No limpy lemme help u. Ur negative not attractive inside which makes it worse and u went 18 mos w our having sex best sex of ur life wildest cuz of burn out u act like u eat mad pussy I wore outfits watch porn let u do ur dumb stuff and no I always admit my faults but not to u lol u taught
Me well sex is important u said it wasn’t for heats but duh ur a weirdo porn addicted a sexual and ur ex was 400 lbs lol I’m too pretty. I don’t hate. I laugh. I can’t wait to have sex u can’t dream of even it’s so wild ima feel liberated to basically do stuff not cheating and these ur words but I trunk it’s time U look at underwear and why? I have to look. U wanted to buy bed restraints but u can’t fuck ever lol how many men would have oh wait three years same shit u way u gonna do waiting. He’s angry because I said no sex for two months cuz ur such a loser lol I am gonna have sex n says u can’t dream. And I miss wild wet bjs I want it n my mouth him I mean the toy! So people the deal
W this one is he had it made according to him but he’s liked 7 times day he failed a polygraph

[strateguy632]

that would explain much problematic dialog between the couple. noticing the phrase "not all" helped with one lady.

[Vegasrunner]

@strateguy632 That's great to hear. A lot of women are more interested in being right to let the truth get in the way.

[Anonymous]

You sound very dumb

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Tbat would fall under #3

[soulOnDisplay]

And that's actually not an argument for anything.

[Vegasrunner]

@soulOnDisplay No but that's one of the only ways some women can express a thought.

[DarkLegacy]

@Vegasrunner Loving the comebacks here, this OP is just a dumb feminist troll.

[Vegasrunner]

@DarkLegacy TY for the kind words, but TBH I don't want to insult anyone, however so few woman are able to hold an intelligent conversation when they are faced with information that challenges their beliefs.

[tempton]

My thoughts exactly

[tempton]

That he is dumb

[Vegasrunner]

@tempton That falls under #3

[TameBunny]

I have to admit this is not wrong. However I have never justified my psychotic behavior as "girl stuff". I take accountability for my crazy 🤣 Will I go through your phone for no good reason, no. Will I go through your phone after I find a note with a girls social media contact info is written down in your hand writing while doing your laundry- yes! I've had exes fo through my phone, found out, and laughed about it with them, why? I had nothing to hide.

I will say this as a woman it is so exhausting going out of my way to word things delicately, go out of my way not to hurt your feelings, and then not have that same courtesy returned! I understand men generally are more direct and to the point but can y'all admit our communication styles are different?

I realize sounds like it's under the "emotion" category so allow me to give an example. If you're coming home from the gym smelling like a** I'm buying you new deodorant and soap in a new gym bag and saying "I got you a gift". However, when I'm home from the gym you just say "You smell like a**" and it hurts Sir!!!

[Djaay]

Equality (same authority as a man ) that way they don't have to listen to a man.

Exceptions ( entitlement) .

Emotions ( weasel) using they're emotional state of feelings to manipulate a man or others.

The three N'S... No , Never and Not

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't waste my time on women that do that.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep Every woman does that.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
The majority, yes. The first time they are told that is the fasttrack to the door. The second time they are shown the door. Life is too short for emotional games.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep in my opinion you're making a mistake if you know this then you should use it to your advantage. Have you ever heard the saying a wise man learns from his mistake while a genius learns from the mistakes of others?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
Indeed I have, but I've led a life of great stress, I'm not going to suffer unnecessary amounts of it at home. I'm open to persuasion though, what's your strategy here?

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep More of a philosophy. If you understand how a woman behaves you're better off using that to your advantage For instance, since women crave equality make them pay for half the date, since they are looking for exceptions, it's easy to convince them you are one. If you know they're going to be emotional make the emotion passion. It's actually pretty easy and if done correct should result in less stress.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I hear you, but I've no interest in playing manipulation games with a potential partner. I've also never met a woman who doesn't think she's going to be paying for the date when she asks me out, so it's sort of a solution to a problem that doesn't exist

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep I think that's the mindset that dooms most guys especially inexperienced ones. You've been trained to believe that having standards for yourself is "manipulative" How many women have you slept with?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner No one would ever accuse me of being inexperienced ;)

Having standards isn't manipulative, it's having standards, what are you on about?

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep I don't no anyone you no so I can only go by your words and actions. How many women have you slept w/?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner i stopped counting in my early 20s when I realized it was irrelevant, but as a highly decorated vet of 9 combat deployments who hasn't made below 6 figures in over 20 years, a member of mensa and a heavy philanthropist, I do well for myself in that department.

Are you flirting with me? I'm not sure why you keep asking about who I've slept with. I'm sorry. It's flattering, but I'm not interested in guys or online things.

All this because I don't have patience for head games with little girls?

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep What number did you stop counting at?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
My early 20s was a quarter century ago. Most of the women I sleep with aren't as interested in my sexual history as you are. Are you okay? I know some people on here who could be helpful to talk to, if you're interested.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep I can't speak for the naivety of the women you claim to have slept w/. My question is how many have you slept w/?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
Answer is the same as it was 20 years ago. I don't know. Why don't we fast forward to whatever point you're trying to make. Let me guess, you're a pick-up artist and you want to flex on how awesome you are? That narrative got boring 30 years ago, so what actual point are you trying to make?

[m33ladEmjay]

90% of guys today are pure L0ZZZZZERS!! The flash their D's at girls and beg them.. and keep giving them fake compliments in pure desperation.
Thats their method.

[Vegasrunner]

@m33lademjay I would say closer to 80% but that's why so few understand these concepts.

[Snakeyes7]

Stop making this shit gendered. The best thing to do is to recognize shitty behavior no matter who does it and deal with it the same no matter who does it.

[Vegasrunner]

@Snakeyes7 This would fall under #1

[Snakeyes7]

Dude, the gender is not the problem. It is the fact that we allow the shitty behavior to take place. If no one faces consequences for their actions, they will just keep doing it.

[Vegasrunner]

@Snakeyes7 TY for sharing. This is a perfect example of #1. It's an attempt to use equality to deflect from woman's failures. Anytime woman's nature is put under a microscope the default is to attempt to make an equality argument. Reality these actions are exclusive to female behavior.

[Snakeyes7]

Maybe it is women who are more likely to do these things but only going after the women will still not solve the whole problem.

I think the problem is that the culture we live under (feminist) is telling women that this behavior is ok because they are victims by default, even if there was never anything that victimized that particular woman.

[DarkLegacy]

@Vegasrunner The equality argument always used by women.

[Vegasrunner]

@Snakeyes7 I'm not "going after" anyone. Simply pointing out a fact of female nature that some men may have recognized but not understood. A man has every right to live his life the way he chooses, hiding the truth from him does not provide him with that opportunity.

[Libidononexistenteww]

I wish it was for sex more hahahahaah introverted pussy mamas boy I got
Lol

[Libidononexistenteww]

Omg 3 now ago and years ago same issues w u! U should fuck a fat girl member how ugly ur ex is? Also u don’t go on forums rite? I am so liberated ur passed out and I think the icing on the cake is u can’t come this week I wanna have sex rite after and using ur phone is funny cuz I see the lies through security then I eee em guys he’s so polite n scum my he smashed mine and had pulled my hair and said get on ur knees and suck it b…. So! (10 out of 12 times at a bear two. My bday I look so hot etc he promised sex and passed out. He lied for 18 now sbkht sex and now when he had chances and still 8:a he’s sickening lot annoying when he wants and begs me for sex like 4 times a month max this dude is weird he was a maniac but he lies now cheats who knows that’s why I am so excited and I have this amazing scene a pool not shower and have to keep a diff of one cuz he can’t see any he hasn’t earned it

Gabe I just wanted to let people know the truth

I have 0 insecurities too secure. U r insecure that’s why u don’t make moves ur lame etc

[DarkLegacy]

Yes i think we all have, all part of their manipulative, self entitled act. Most women are like this im afraid.

[msc545]

Good summary of what women often do.