Why I friend-zoned you (Page 2)

[john2]

That's why you can be nice, but not pushover nice them. I mean of course always be a gentleman to them, but like she said showing all of your emotions to them if something went wrong in your day and bringing them gifts all the time like you actually go out with them... can't be doing that brah

[Anonymous]

These are the most honest reasons why women friend zone guys. If he wants a relationship with her, then he needs to act like a man, and not act like one of her girl friends. Also he needs to treat her like a woman, not a goddess, nor like one of the guys.

[thecd1979]

Amen, my brother, the problem is that these kind of guys refuse to believe that their behaviors are the problem and think that their “niceness” entitles women to be romantically interested in them

[DanteSparda]

And when a jerk/douche leaves you after having advantage of your body ;you say "Why I can't get a nice guy?"

Kinda ironic, isn't it?

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

Be honest... girls in their 20's are superficial and only date men who are wealthy. THAT is why they get friend-zoned.

[nemer26]

Nope...

[blackeagle007]

I agree. Women in general only care about looks and money.

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

@nemer26 It's true for most girls in their 20's.

@blackeagle007 It's not so much looks as it is money.

[nemer26]

Maybe some but not most... depending on where they're at in their 20s I suppose.

[cl_517]

That is so not true!

[Watermelonoma]

lol... and girls are constantly going on about how the friendzone doesn't exist/is a figment of the male imagination

[choochoostew]

Holy cow, everything makes so much more sense now!
Thanks for posting!
As for the too sweet thing, I think what the OP was trying to get across is that some males, are too much of a gentleman, they aren't rugged and a bit rough around the edges.
OP, please correct me if I'm wrong here.

[myTake Owner]

Too much of a gentleman is correct. Look I love a great sweet guy like any other girl, but if I don't ever feel like I have to fight a little bit to be with him, it's kinda boring.
Rough edges are indeed attractive. Not the same as being a jerk or douche bag though

I've had this guy who thought I was the only right woman in the world. That's just scary.
Why would I want a doormat? I want someone who wants to be treated with equal respect and wants to feel wanted too. If you can do anything to them and they still want you, that's just not a healthy attitude to have.

[Insignis]

Point 1. That's not being fun, that's being stupid. Is this an experience you had with someone?

Guys, if someone dares to friendzone you then never speak to them again. Find other women.

[Anonymous]

Or you could've just said "I'm not interested in you romantically" lol

Now because of this, there will be 50-100 more takes and questions posted talking about this silly friendzone bullshit. Thanks anon :\

[Anonymous]

Wow, now funny guys are part of the "lame guys" that girls don't want.

*Yawn* trying to find a perfect guy is really looking for a needle in a haystack. If girls seriously don't like anyone within personalities 1-5 you listed, then no one is good for them.

Which I'm happy with. No competition between me and other guys over an ultra-picky girl.

[ShaeNielson]

You can be funny in other ways, than burping and mooing old people..

[The_Empty]

Basically, I wasn't attracted to you because you were too good? Common, be honest, the real answer is, "because the douchebag was hotter and cooler and richer than you'".

[myTake Owner]

The message is: Too much of anything is never a good thing.

For me 'the friendzone' mostly happens without other guys being in the game
But if you like your take on it better, go ahead :-)

[ComDom]

I hope for your sake that you have enough options to be putting people in the friend zone.

[I_M_LEGEND]

i friendzone girls. you dont friendzone me since i never wanted you. you work for the D ok? ok good

[Creole_Flavor]

I've never worked for no D but I've been a slave to it lol

[I_M_LEGEND]

i love the V myself.

[LittleSally]

Nope, it's not satire - and I concur.
=)

Being fun (the way you described it meant childish) isn't the same as being funny...

[YourFutureEx]

Say what? These are the factors? What should I become now?

[Jersey1]

To me, Friendzome would mean move on quickly and forget about her unless I actually wanted her as a friend, which would be unlikely.

[RationalMale]

this is a good take... it shows what women want. and why smart guys are kinda assholes to woman. 'treat em mean, keep em keen'

[MaskedSanity]

No, this is s bullshit take by a stupid woman, who only represents herself and her own stupidity.

[RationalMale]

ehh, I don't know, @maskedsanity. i believe her.

[MaskedSanity]

So... because one dumb tart made a claim you already subscribed to, that makes it cool and appies to all women everywhere?

Alrighty then.

Note the number of women on here telling take owner her post is retarded, though.

[ManuelMarquez]

You were too sweet? You want a guy that treats you like dirt then? It seems like you have low self esteem

[myTake Owner]

Yes. Life is that black and white: I want 0 or a 100. Heaven or hell. The best or the worst.
Or maybe the extremes aren't all that interesting.

[ManuelMarquez]

Are you being sarcastic?

[myTake Owner]

Yes :)
Maybe if you guys imagined a girl that's too sweet: always calling, always wanting to know your feelings, always wanting to be together, ...
If it sounds good in theory, try it in real life. You'll run screaming I'm sure

[nikiroxs]

i guess the word isn't sweet, its clingy

[ManuelMarquez]

@nikiroxs, yes!!

[Anonymous]

rephrasing the guy below. young girls are superficial adrenaline junkies that go far the bad boy d. thats all there is to it. dont try to make lame ass excuses and pseudo-rationalizations...

[Bob5555]

My name is Bob and I approve of this message. Guys? MAN the fuck up

[Anonymous]

The guy who doesn't have to deal with your strange emotions will be lucky in the long run.