Obsessed with someone that you met once? Am I crazy?

[Livelyserenity]

Damn I kept missing him and someone says that this is called obsession. Am I crazy?

[Chappie020]

NO! You are not! Listen, sometimes a first vibe can be a turn on! Maybe a next time you will change your opinion or maybe even like him more! Remember that love at first sight excist! You should just meet him often talk a lot and see how it develops! This is a lovely feeling to have and nothing weird about it !!! Don't add him on Facebook though.. guys find that weird after 1 meeting lol. But definetely try to get to know him a bit better :)!!

[Livelyserenity]

I'm trying but I couldn't find him. I keep going to the place where we first met but he wasn't there. Some says that maybe I'm just a girl who he just met there. They said that It means nothing :(

[allnite69withme]

it is the "what if" syndrome. IF you only met once, you know little about him. If you want to know him - find him and find out more. IF you can't, move on.

[Livelyserenity]

I tried but I couldn't find him. The school is so huge how can I find him? :(

[emmabee11]

Don't worry i was the same way about a guy once, it's just very intense infactuation, if it helps don't be around him and i assure you it will fade away, some people just have that intense effect on all of us sometimes for unknown reasons, you will be fine don't worry just don't get youself overly worked up about it like i did.

[Livelyserenity]

I wanted to see him but I couldn't find him. It's like he disappear into thin air :( I keep goin to the place whee we first met but he wasn't there. :(((

[emmabee11]

Yikes! i would tell you to back away now and try to have some self control especially if he doesn't like you back, you will end up getting yourself really hurt like i did because i got really obsessed, i even went swimming around the same time he did hoping to catch him and i ended up even buying him something on holiday (which then he said he apparently "accidently broke" it but i know he probably just threw it away), indeed i was acting really creepy. I felt the same way as you about the guy i was obsessed with from the second i met him but it was just crazy. Of course in my case he turned out to be a giant asshole, he would say things to lead me on sometimes too and when i was out he made an ass of himself when drunk lol. I say keep yourself busy and don't think about him or it will get out of hand, trust me on this.

[Livelyserenity]

Okay i will.. Thank you for telling me. :) so if he come and find me should I react to him? Just if.. Haha

[emmabee11]

I had that thought too lol but he just kept telling everyone i was a psycho stalker :\ lol don't blame him really... but was pretty crap he went around telling everyone... i would honestly stay away unless he talks to you but any contact is going to send you crazy again and get you thinking about what ifs and then if it gets worse you will start thinking he does like you and he's just hiding it haha even if he doesn't like you the same. Just keep cool and hang out with your friends or you will drive yourself mad.

[eatyourheartout]

Nopes im the same, but i haven't seen him only once, I've seen him quite a few times and talked to him only a bit, and now i haven't seen him for nearly two weeks and i miss him a lot and think about him a lot, but im not in a relationship with him or anything, just have a lotta feelings for him

[Livelyserenity]

At least you had a chance to talk to him. I'm envious of you. I don't even have the chance to meet him and talk to him :'(

[eatyourheartout]

I've only talked to him like three or four times, i only see him at work sometimes and now he's left don't know if he'll come back, he doesn't even know i like him :( hopefully you'll see him again!

[Livelyserenity]

Thank you. And I hope u can meet him soon and tell him how u feel about him :D

[kylah]

No your'e not crazy. its' just a crush. Eventually it will blow over and you will be thinking about another guy. ^-^

[Livelyserenity]

I hope so :)

[PeopleLie]

if you are not stalking him or thinking of him every second of your life, i think you are fine

[Livelyserenity]

Then I'm not that kind. i just miss him if I've nothing to do and I pass by his school and when I'm in the library the place where we first met

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You aren't crazy, but this is unhealthy behavior.

[Livelyserenity]

Why is it a bad behavior?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Because it's never good to obsess over anyone. The real person rarely meets your expectations

[Livelyserenity]

I guess you are right... I should stop now. More over I couldn't find him anywhere in school. It's over