What attracts fat girls to skinny guys?

[Anonymous]

Why do skinny guys go out with fat girls I mean what attraction is there? I'm not exactly shallow but like the thing is the guys are cute/hott but the thing is they can do way better then with a fat girl an deff not with me either I'm a high standard kinda girl so this didn't happen to me or nothing but I'm just curious as I do see it in school and all the time whenever I'm out in town. it can't be a physical bond could it? or maybe a emotional bond? but like I don't get why skinny guys wouldn't like a girl you know around there own physical fitness level or even remotely close.

[Random_1]

Why do skinny guys go out with fat girls? There could be a number of reasons. Here are some:

1. Some guys may not want a "skinny" girl with no softness or curves. They may find a curvy girl more sexy. In Brazil, for instance, that is standard.

2. Fat girls tend to have bigger breasts. Is bigger important? What's important is that a girl a) has breasts, and b) gives the guy access to them! Bigger ones just draw more attention and fascination initially. They may be just a little bit more fun to play with, but let's face it, that's usually only about 5% to 25% involved when it comes time to play, anyway.

3. Fat girls generally don't get as much attention from guys, so when they do, they are more appreciative. ("Fat girls need love too!") This means:

A. Better chance they will be nice, friendly, not stuck-up, not bitchy, will laugh at the guy's jokes, etc.

B. Less chance of rejection, and if they do reject the guy, it doesn't sting as much ("Oh well, she was fat anyway.") I know that may sound mean, but it's true.

C. More likely to want to do something sexual, since she probably doesn't get to as often. Or, less likely to resist sexual advances. Is this due to a lower self esteem? I don't know, and again, I know this may sound mean, but it's true.

4. A girl can be fat and still have a pretty face. In fact, she could have an extremely pretty face. But because she is fat, other guys may pass her over. A guy who normally could never get such a pretty girl suddenly can, and adores looking at her beauty.

5. Just because a guy is skinny doesn't mean he is good looking, or funny, or nice, or has a good personality. Maybe thin girls don't like him for other reasons, but a fat girl is willing to go out with him because she is not getting better offers.

A couple of other thoughts. I think people have lots of traits that make them desirable, or undesirable; "fat" is just one of many. Who would a guy choose, a thin bald girl, or a fat girl with great hair? A thin bitchy girl or a nice fat girl? And on and on. Also, "fat" is a relative term. How much overweight? Is the girl body proportional, toned or flabby, healthy or out of shape?

Also, I've seen girls responding defensively, "That's not true; I'm fat and my boyfriend loves me," etc. Well, you aren't a guy, you aren't in his mind. He obviously noticed you were fat but chose to pursue you. It's also obvious that there were reasons he stayed with you, and you with him; clearly you both have good traits.

[jbone79]

" they can do way better then with a fat girl an deff not with me either I'm a high standard kinda girl" - You guessed it.

I'm a great looking guy and I'd rather spend my time with a chubby chick who makes life fun instead of some skinny bitch who thinks she is god's gift to man. High Standards is another way to say shallow bitch with an empty head who judges people on vanity. If that's the best you have to offer others, then that be suffice to explain why the bigger girls are with guys and your not.

Fuck your "high standards" love everyone the same until they give you a reason not to. -j

[the_black_mask]

Well put, guy. I agree, she's totally shallow.

[aGHOSTa]

2 thumbs Up!!!

[open_your_mind]

You people need to calm down, she was just curious. This is because physical characteristics AND personality play a big role in attraction. If 2 people like each other solely because of their personality it is called being friends. In a lot of cases girls' personalities could make them appear more attractive. You don't need to bash her opinions just to credit yours. It is your opinion that you like your bitches to have personality and it is her opinion that physical characteristics are most important but you both are wrong. It is a blend of both and truthfully none of you seem that attractive to me because you are both bringing down certain groups of people.

[musicislife9095]

I'm not exactly skinny but that girl is just mean. I'm not skinny and I like skinny guys. What so you're saying that I'm not good enough?

[musicislife9095]

by the way it's meant for the girl not the guy

[bags2019]

Well said

[Hawkes_Lady]

Thank you for standing up for the nice fat girls out there in the world!

[Samsamiam]

Hi I'm a bigger girl first off what you said was little offensive my boyfriend is as skinny as they come and we love each other with all are hearts he thinks I beautiful and he is handsome. He loves that my heart and soul is the most beautiful thing about me that I was made bigger the hold all this kindness and love that I have he loves that he can grab me for days and cuddle in the winter and never be cold he loves my big butt and big up top that comes with it he loves me for my for everything about me and not just my size and maybe you find someone if you looked more the skin deep and big girl need love to ya know you think your the only one who deserves it and honestly from what you said I know I deserve my skinny handsome man more then you would and I can keep him way happier as well it all about heart sweetie word from the wise and wide

[BeCreateLove]

If you have to say "I'm not shallow" then insinuate that someone is worth less than another person based on their appearance, I have news for you.

I'm fat, and well aware of that. I'm also engaged to a soldier in the army. We've been in a serious, committed relationship for far longer than any relationship based on appearances will go. The weight has fluctuated on and off me, and yet he's always been supportive and actually prefers the fatter me to the skinnier me.

Don't tell people how to love, or that they can "do better" than the person they're in love with, because I can assure you that I could say your "high standards" man deserves far better than shallow arm candy whose looks will inevitably fade and cause her to be depressed. Get off your pedestal.

[GallifreyianRefugee]

Firstly as a bigger girl I find the fact you think you are a BETTER option to men purely because your thinner incredibly offensive also don't start by saying I'm not shallow then follow it up with I have high standards your just chilling contradicting yourself these men date bigger women because they are attracted to bigger women and vice versa vit's as simple as that besides shallow and arrogant are NOT attractive qualities I'm a size 20 I'm confident and happy with my size so why shouldn't my boyfriend be happy with my size even if he does have a body like Benedict Cumberbatch confidence is one thing thinking you're all that totally different

[koloblicin]

As a very skinny and short guy, its simple, most girls want a tall guy and don't pay attention to guys like me. typically unattractive girls are the only ones who pay any mind to guys like me. While I usually do well at find attractive girls the fact of the matter is simple.

Unattractive girls are more likely to date a average guy

Hot girls ONLY date HOT guys

average girls mostly date HOT guys, and sometimes give average guys a chance when they mature.

So it only makes sense that average guys are gonna date unattractive girls as they are less shallow and usually more fun...however ugly guys completely get the short end of the stick...

My friends and I have all concluded its easier for an unattractive girl to get a hot guy, than it is for an unattractive guy to get a hot girl...and they say guys are shallow...

[mammamia]

Hot girls do not only date hot guys!

(haha--the problem is YOU!) average-looking nice guys assume that hot girls will only go out with hot guys. but really, the hot girl is sitting there saying "why can't I get any nice guys? even if they're average looking only the jerks come up to me and ask me out!"

I think if you were to know a girl better and talk to her a little bit, you would see. don't be afraid to go for it, as long as she's nice (because there are exceptions).

[koloblicin]

I HAVE! I have talked to girls like the ones your talking about. she even told me she needs to find a nice guy. We got quite close. I asked her out, SHE SAID NO! a week later she was dating yet another douchebag who used her and abused her. But he was a hell of a lot more attractive than me and that's what mattered...

[april3525]

I'm about average I like hot, average, and thickems.

[abzence]

That's like saying "why do guys like short girls when they can have a tall one?"

It's all a matter of personal preference. Don't assume that everybody else find the same things attractive as you do. Some guys like other guys. Some girls like both. Some like skinny, some like fat. Doesn't matter...

Personally I prefer an athletic brunette, but that's just me...

[Asker]

If you lived around where I live you would understand its not something you do in a small town area.

ive had a few guys tell me that they do like fat girls but the thing is when you live in a small town you try to keep ur standards to somewhat a high to medium standard.

[abzence]

I come from a town with about 5000 residents.

Besides, your standards isn't everybody elses standards.

[Anonymous]

It's a shame this girl can't ask a question without being attacked. Since when does having standards, and thinking that you're attractive make you shallow? I can't answer her question since I'm not a chubby chaser, but I can say that this can apply to any preference someone has for the targeted interest. Just like how some girls only date bikers or how some guys only date blondes. Anyone who says physical features don't attract them to someone is a liar. The persons looks pull you in and the personality keeps you there.

Also to the girls and guys saying skinny girls are mean, shallow, lack self-esteem, and have no personality you need to get out more. I've met lots of chubby/fat chicks and guys who cheat, get involved with someone who has a significant other, are back stabbers, attack others self esteem because they lack there own, and criticize there significant other if they gain weight. So don't pretend it's skinny girl or guy thing. Humans in general do this. Not all but some.

[Korrina]

Well said thank you. I am a thin and pretty, women, and a Christian. Just because I'm thin doesn't mean that your shallow lack personality and are mean or not good in bed. I am a very attractive woman I am very nice to people and am God in bed. I have self esteem tell people nick me down. And I do have standards and I think everybody should have standards and care about their weight and health and self. Not all skinny women are the same and not all fat women are the same either. On the other hand I can't see myself having sex with a guy that is fat or overweight that's just a turn-off for me from the beginning but that's my preference. So I'm not going to date anyone that is fat or overweight either giving them false hope.

[Stoner710]

Shit she got a point fat girls are unattractive they can't with you the things you want to do I do a lot of hiking with a fat chick she wouldn't be able to do the hikes I do they crush the shit out of you went they want to be on top and there's nothing but a fat belly which bends in with there tits I'd rather have a this girl who's high high maintenance than a fat ass

[Anonymous]

Lol you sound like a complete desperate jealous asshole! Big girls tend to have beautiful faces, and amazing personalities. They actually LIVE. They can just easily lose weight if they wanted to, but you my desperate friend , you don't sound mind blowing, If you say you have high standards and all that crap, please show us your confidence because clearly that's one of the things that you're lacking.

[Anonymous]

Ummm I am a "fat chick". And honestly, I have some questions. However, I really don't care. It's about who you are as a person. If you're hot and thin and a bitch, you're ugly. Period. I have a been dating recently and I am always worried about my weight on a first date. It's usually not as big of a deal as I think it is. They're attractive and smart and fun to be around. If you're the same way it's not a problem. Also, bigger girls tend to be less shallow and self righteous. And we guve better head. Just sayin.

[Korrina]

Not true. and that's very one sided and judgmental. Not all skinny girls or fat girls are the same. Everyones sex life and personality is different. It's the individual.

[SotiCoto]

That kinda sounds like "why is water wet?" to me. Guys would be attracted to fat girls because all secondary female sexual characteristics involve the accumulation of fat in particular places. Being curvy is a prerequisite for being sexy. Skinny girls are basically no different to children.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

I believe it falls into one of three camps:

no observable options, they pick what they feel they deserve, or they are in love with the idea of a girl and not the girl herself.

Who knows though, maybe they're just have a giantess fetish?

[Anonymous]

You want total honesty. The main reason I dated girls that were in less good physical shape than me is I figured they would be less likely to be hit on by other guys and easier to get in their panties. More often than not I was successful. Like I told a few friends, some of the best sexual experiences I had were with girls you wouldn’t think I’d ever give the time of day. They get very few opportunities so took the ones they had was my theory.

[gravygirl]

Guys typically pursue the hottest girl they think they can get. Honestly, if there's a better looking girl who wants a fat girl's boyfriend, she usually has a pretty good chance.

[flight_chick85]

That's total bullsh*t I'm not exactly skinny and my boyfriend's really skinny. But good luck competing with my personality, intelligence, and skills in the bedroom. And trying to "steal" another girl's man is a sign of serious insecurity and immaturity issues. Any man with an ounce of intelligence won't go near a petty bitch like that that obviously has baggage. You're dellusional.

[Savannah_banana]

Yeah, happened to me and got pissed the fuck off.

[red324]

@Savannah_banana The girl assumes if he's good enough for her, he's good enough for me.

[nastyb]

from my experience, a woman's weight isn't important to a man unless she is obese or super chunky. There are plenty of overweight chubby girls who can still manage to look good.

[Lolomon]

Lol, have you noticed a lot of fat girls got amazing faces. Just cause your fit don't mean you ain't no butterface.

[JacobJordan]

I am thin at least based on average weight for my height and age and fat girls are not even remotely attractive.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm going to take a stab in the dark and say you aren't 30-35.

[Anonymous]

you probably have a warped idea of fat. you probably think anything larger than a size 6 is fat.

[Asker]

Not at all I'm talking about the kinda fat that it makes pregnant girls look small.

[AnnieNotTheOrphan]

ok this asker is rude as hell...

[Savannah_banana]

@AnnieNotTheOrphan omg yes. And I look pregnant myself. Got probs with it asker? Well I sure don't. People tell me to diet allllllll the time. But do I? Nope. I like the way I look. Thank you, case closed bye✌ :)

[Slimshadylp2]

I weigh 150 lbs and I would def go out with a thin girl not because I am shallow it's because I love to sweep them off their feet.

[april3525]

That means nothing really because you can do that with a chubby girl to like in between. That's my opinion.

[Hungryghostwriter]

I'm a skinny guy who has been with a few fat girls. The sex hits different. I don't have a fetish. I just got along with them and we hooked up. Why is it such a big deal to you?

[Joker_]

I have to wingman @Worst in order for the fatties to take a liking to him

[Worst]

not true lawl

[Joker_]

oh ok lol

[Worst]

i dont remember typing out lawl lol

[Joker_]

lom 󠀡󠀡

[Nikki1989]

Bigger women are hotter to many people.

[Worst]

@4ngelic