Girls, why do you want to be skinny?

[Anonymous]

Many guys love slim girls. Many guys, like me, love curvy girls. But only a small minority, a minority comparable to the amount of guys who are attracted to fat and bodybuilder girls, actually like skinny girls.

So why on earth do so many women want to be super skinny? Isn't the whole point of having a nice body to look attractive? So why do these girls want so badly to look like those disgustingly thin Victoria's Secret models?

Honestly, girls that skinny are a complete turn off. It's not only unattractive but its really unhealthy. I just wanna give them a hotdog. Why would girls put themselves through that to be even less attractive?

Why do girls still let themselves be brainwashed by the media? Why do they want to be super skinny when they are constantly told, guys like curves or a slim body. Why don't they listen to the the very people they're doing all this dieting for, instead of some bullsh*t in a magazine thats completely false?

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People are taking this the wrong way. I want girls to be happy and healthy. It's perfectly fine to be naturally skinny, but forcing yourself to look like some super skinny model because the media says so isn't good. I know not all girls want to be skinny and its fine as long as you're healthy. Super skinny is neither hot nor healthy so why would any girl want to look that way?

[Anonymous]

Thank you! Thank you for making slim girls feel like crap :)
I don't understand why so many people cannot find the way to make one girl feel good about her body without putting down another. But C+ for effort.

FYI. Just cuz you got your likes, doesn't mean everyone likes what you want. Some guys like thin, some like big.
And honestly, not all girls are trying to lose weight. I actually was trying to gain weight, desperately, before I joined USMC boottcamp. I have a fast metabolism that doesn't allow me to lose nor gain weight. It's good and bad. Good, cuz I can eat all the time (despite idiots being convinced I MUST starve myself just cuz I'm thin). And bad cuz I have to work extra harder to either gain or lose weight.
Bur of course, if you and so many other people saw my body, you'd think I starved myself to look this way. No. I'm naturally thin and petite. Would I like to be a little meatier sometimes? Yes. I would. But that's not how my body was built.

You do realize that many models now don't starve themselves? They eat healthy and work out.
I find it HILARIOUS how people say shit like "Ewww. She looks so thin and unhealthy. I just wanna give her a hotdog or McDs."
Really? You're soooo concerned about her health yet you wanna give her overly fat, overly salted, overly processed shit that shouldn't even be considered food like hotdogs or McDs? You don't sound too concerned about her health, only her looks cuz she looks "too thin".

And your last paragraph is just icing to the cake! LMAO. Ok so we shouldn't listen to the media's standards huh? Cool. We should listen to your standards instead? Which is as you said, to eat hotdogs, to be healthier. Yea. We are so much better listening to you huh?
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I hope you realize how silly you sound, and how hypocritical you are.

[maria_botero]

he said guys like slim girls , what he doent like is supper skinny girls so calm the down this is a site to state opinions dont be mad about the answer

[Opinion Owner]

@Maria_botero well, not every "supper" skinny girl is anorexic. There are plenty who look like that, but are actually healthy.
And calm down?
This is a site to state opinions, just like my "un calm" one. It odes not state anywhere here that all opinions have to be candycoated with rainbows and lollipops for sensitive fucks.

[Asker]

I don't want anyone listening to my standards. I hope I didn't come across this way. All I want is for girls to be happy and healthy and not trying to be super skinny, going on ridiculous diets and feeling really self conscious about their weight when they are a perfect weight. Its perfectly fine to be naturally skinny but its when girls start forcing it I dont understand why they do that to themselves.

[Asker]

Also the whole hotdog thing, that was sort of a joking metaphor, and most people would have gotten that. Its a metaphor for they look like they need to eat a bit more. But I don't mind if girls are naturally skinny, I just don't want them trying to be that way when they are perfectly fine and an attractive weight.

[Opinion Owner]

You want girls to be happy and healthy. Yet you shame thin women. Sounds like you want big girls to be happy. I want them to be happy too, but not at the expense of other women.

That is another problem. I cannot even count how many people assume I MUST starve myself cuz I'm thin. No. I eat, a lot. When people see the amount I eat, they're always wondering why I'm so thin. I have a pretty fast metabolism. Just cuz you see a thin woman, it doesn't mean she MUST have starved herself to look that way.

I understand it's a "joking metaphor" but it still is overused. And it shows that you aren't concerned about her health. Eating hotdogs and McDs will bring a thin girl to a healthy weight, but it IS NOT a healthy way to do it.
So clearly, even if you were joking, it shows that you're more concerned about her looks than overall health.

[Asker]

The joke includes the fact that its a hotdog. I obviously wouldn't try and get a skinny with crappy food like that, that's ridiculous. And I've already mentioned so many times, on nearly every opinion, that naturally skinny is fine and I wasn't trying to shame thin women. I just don't want girls trying so hard to be really skinny when they are already a perfect weight. This is all a big misunderstanding so please stop hating.

[MegaOmega]

Hi I’m new on here. I just read your post. I am trying to lose weight and get skinny like you. However my body just wants to keep getting fat. I don’t think this guy meant to offensive. It’s hard and challenging for us who have trouble staying skinny. I remember at one point, I could only maintain 5’2 100 lbs if I was drinking just slim fast shakes and I was walking a lot! My point being is that some us have to work at it extremely hard just to be an average weight, to a point we would never be able to get thin. He’s just sharing for us to all be positive and consider ourselves as beautiful even though we aren’t as thin as a Victoria Secret model. I understand you probably just want a bit more of curves.

[MegaOmega]

I would love to be super skinny. However my metabolism would never allow it.

[BlueEyedHipsta]

Not every girl wants to be super skinny.

I would like to have a slim body but even if I had a flat stomach I would still be curvy as I have big hips and breasts.

Reasons why?
1. It's more healthy.
2. It'll make me feel confident and good about myself.
3. More variety of clothing that will actually look good.

It has nothing to do with guys.
I told my ex that I wanted to lose some weight and tone up my stomach, you wanna know what he said "if you become skinny we are breaking up".

Same kinda thing happened with him when I went on the contraception Jadelle. He didn't want me to get it because i would gain weight, again he said "if you get fat I'm breaking up with you". I still got it, I gained a little weight, he didn't break up with me. But obviously I broke up with him because he's an asshole.

What I'm trying to say is, guys really shouldn't have a body preference because weight fluctuates and people want to change all the time, and they should be allowed to, weather it's to gain weight or lose weight. Heck I've heard of boyfriends with anorexic girlfriends in recovery that don't want them to gain weight, it's disgusting. The size and shape of your girlfriend or boyfriend shouldn't stop you from liking/loving them.

[Asker]

Good answer. But I actually said that slim was good. When I say skinny I mean the kind, ribs showing, breasts get smaller and limbs that look like sticks. You're body sounds perfect. And you are very right about how a persons weight shouldn't affect how you feel about them

[BlueEyedHipsta]

So you mean skinny to the point where it's on the verge of being unhealthy?

[Asker]

I mean skinny to the point that it is unhealthy, and their stupid diets are seriously restricting their quality of life. I just want girls to be happy and healthy and not feel like they have to be super skinny.

[KBob93]

It's constant comparison we face, with each other. It's all about being delicate & petite, as to how femininity is viewed.

[Tokana]

"So why on earth do so many women want to be super skinny? Isn't the whole point of having a nice body to look attractive? So why do these girls want so badly to look like those disgustingly thin Victoria's Secret models? "

This is where your bias came into play. The level of skinniness is subjective. To quote @GirlseatGirls shut the fuck up.

[Asker]

Wow, didn't realise I was coming across this way at all :O

[meatballs21]

"t only a small minority, a minority comparable to the amount of guys who are attracted to fat and bodybuilder girls, actually like skinny girls."

So why not just be quiet and let that small minority of us like our skinny girls in peace?

[Asker]

Good point. I apologize

[udolipixie]

Girls, why do you want to be skinny?
I find it attractive.

So why on earth do so many women want to be super skinny?
Likely because they find it attractive.

Isn't the whole point of having a nice body to look attractive?
It is attractive to them. It's possibly an uncommon notion for a gal to do something to please herself rather than kowtow to male desires but some gals do that.

So why do these girls want so badly to look like those disgustingly thin Victoria's Secret models?
Probably because it's their ideal.

Why would girls put themselves through that to be even less attractive?
Probably because they don't view it as being lees attractive.

Why do girls still let themselves be brainwashed by the media?
In brainwashing cases I find those are the gals with EDs/BDs in which case upbringing, environment, and self-esteem come into play.

Why do they want to be super skinny when they are constantly told, guys like curves or a slim body. Why don't they listen to the the very people they're doing all this dieting for, instead of some bullsh*t in a magazine thats completely false?
Likely because for many they aren't doing it for guys but for themselves.

[xuewu]

can I just say, quite a lot of girls are naturally skinny and speaking from that perspective it's quite offensive that we're being told that our body type can't be loved like "curvy" or "slim" girls. there are also more body types than just those categories shall we say, and so this question is extremely naïve and quite offensive that apparently it's "unattractive" and "unhealthy" to have a slender body type. maybe some girls love the body they have, and maybe not all girls do it for the boys. bit opinionated, isn't it, to think an entire gender bases their self worth on the others opinion of their appearence. maybe do some research before you ask such a prejudiced question.

also you could say the same about men, not just women.

[Asker]

I don't mind if a girl is naturally skinny. I'm sorry if it sounded like I do. Whatever her natural physique is its fine. But what I don't understand, and am trying to understand, is why any girl would try to become so skinny It's unhealthy and bordering on anorexic. If she does it for herself why would she want to be unhealthy. If she does it to be attractive, then why would she continue when guys say its not.

[xuewu]

it's okay, I guess that's just how twisted society is.

[lumos]

"Why do they want to be super skinny when they are constantly told, guys like curves or a slim body"
because maybe, they're actually not doing it for guys.

"Why don't they listen to the the very people they're doing all this dieting for"
because maybe, they're actually dieting for themselves.
Not everything is about you and your preferences. Not everything we do is because of you. Talk about being narcissistic.

[Asker]

I didn't mean it like that. Maybe I came across that way. But if girls do it for themselves, then why do they take it to unhealthy levels?

[lumos]

Because that's what they think is attractive.

[Asker]

And that is the root of my question

[lumos]

That's like asking someone why they like chocolate. They just do?

[Asker]

And I thought you said they don't do it for guys? How are they doing it only for themselves, if they're doing it to be attractive?

[been_waiting]

Asker- its the girls perception of attractive.

[lumos]

Don't you ever do stuff for yourself because YOU think it's attractive, and not because you think everyone else might think it's attractive?

[spuitkaas]

This is the best answer

[Asker]

No... thats weird

[shynessisntnice]

I think that being skinny is more attractive. You can wear somthing tight, you can wear something baggy, you can wear anything you want! And I'm not skinny because I'm not eating... I eat a lot but still don't gain weight. I eat more than all of my friends together. I hate it when everyone says that skinny girls don't eat, it's just like saying skinny boys don't eat or that all fat people are fat because they eat a lot. Come on... And if guys didn't like skinny girls than all the models wouldn't be there and would be single. dude come on... not everyone likes what you like.

[Asker]

Never said they did but you have good points. I was talking moreso about the girls who thrive to be skinny and actually do go on all those ridiculous diets even though it seriously restricts her quality of life. I just wondered why, because its unhealthy and because super skinny is unattractive. Naturally slim or even naturally skinny is perfectly fine I just don't like girls trying so hard to be perfect when its not as perfect as they think.

[shynessisntnice]

It's okay then. I think that they have really low confidence and are trying to be accepted somewhere. It's sad, really. I was really chubby before and I wasn't accepted that way, now I lost weight I'm not accepted this way either cause I'm skinny. Nobody can be perfect, but for someone you can be the definition of perfect. But they just can't see it.

[YoliiCupeles]

Why are you bothered by them? If that makes them happy then let them. Guys like all types of girls curvy or not. If a girl decides to be 'that skinny' then why not? Maybe you find it disgusting but if it makes them feel good then you shouldn't worry about it. If a girl gets to the point where it's consider anorexic or bulimic then that's a problem and if you know someone like that maybe you should help. All I'm saying is that a girl shouldn't have to feel aware of her body side whether you find it disgustingly skinny or not curvy. If you like your body that's great, but don't comment anything negative about others body because maybe you find it disgustingly skinny but someone else may not. Yolii be out!

[Asker]

I just don't know why some girls try so hard to unhealthily skinny. I mean, it takes over so many girls' lives, they feel really self conscious about it and they're always worrying that they're too fat even when they are a perfect weight. That's not good.

[Guysvsgirls]

This is interesting indeed. I guess it's because guys always look at the small legs and waist, big boob and butt girls on the social media. Girl's want to have that body that guys look at and love. They also do it for their girl peers. Whenever a girl looks at another, they to give them a once over, observing her body type, and facial features. I to want to be thin. It's just how I would feel confident about my body. I like how it looks on the other "skinnier" girls, and want to keep healthy, and fit. But thanks for this question. It helps me see that being skinny won't catch you the guy.

[Taywallee16]

I've struggled with my weight my whole life and I've had a lot of people tell me to lose weight but instead of losing weight I gained a lot of muscle and guys told me they didn't like that I had toned muscles because it was a turn off that a girl would be more muscular. So it's kind of confusing what the perfect body is when no matter what you do you get criticized

[Asker]

I'm sorry you've had a hard time. Where did you gain the muscle. I mean, if it was anywhere but your legs ass or back then yes guys generally wouldn't like that.

[Taywallee16]

It was mostly my legs and stomach. I had very little definition in my arms but this random guy told me my arms were too big. I didn't even try to gain muscle there it just sorta happened

[Asker]

Yea I get how that could have happened. But just so you know muscular ass, thighs, calves and a toned stomach are very hot. But you are right, people will criticize you no matter what

[OuOJulietOuO]

I have always been a bit larger not fat and I am unconfident and wanna lose weight but I don't wanna be that skinny, I really don't. but I worry for one of my friends especially because she almost cut herself the other day because she thinks she is fat and she is super skinny- she weighs 103 pounds and thinks she is fat :( this is so horrible all of this and I don't understand why this trend even started, though women can do what they want they shouldn't do it so they look like other people they should it because they want to be comfortable in their own skin.

[sugarvenomx]

I prefer it aesthetically. I'm not put on this earth to attract every single guy I can. That's impossible... no girl is EVERY guys type.

I attract guys who are attracted to me... and that's who I'm interested in. I get plenty of attention and its all I need and I'm more confident being thin so that's all that matters.

[Asker]

That's fine, confidence is what really matters. I was jut wondering as iv heard of girls wanting to be thin so much. I know you're not meant to attract every guy, sorry if it seemed like I was asking you to be prefect :(

[Anonymous]

Well most guys say Victoria's secret models are perfect so no wonder why girls want to look like that.

Also skinny has been for a long time the body type that media supports. Fashion industry mostly uses skinny models and they are all over TV and magazines. Many people see skinny as the "normal" body type.

[Asker]

Every guy I know thinks they're too skinny. Never heard anyone call them perfect and I certainly never will. But yea you're right about the media, but I don't get how unhealthily skinny became the new sexy :/

[Opinion Owner]

No they don't you know they ate too skinny but actually most guys think they look great and all girls could look like thst if they worked out a bit.

I have heard multiple times how perfect they are and it's all over the internet. Did you grow up inside a bubble?

What is difficult to acheive always becomes the new trend. Back in the days when people were poor and there wasn't enough food, the overweight super curvy female body was the "ideal" bodytype. Now we have more food we can and should eat, it's difficult to resist. So those who can are though to be beautiful. Self-discipline is a trait people seem tp appreciate nowadays. That is one reason muscular and fit female body is now "in".

[Asker]

Haha no I didn't grow up in a bubble. I'm sure if you googled "victoria secret's models are too skinny" you'll find many people agree.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, and if you google 'victoria's secret models are perfect' you'll also find many people agree.

You see, not everyone thinks same way you do.

[Asker]

Yes, I've been enlightened. And now you know not everyone thinks like you either :) if I googled "hitler was actually a good man" I'm sure I'd find a few agreeing. Look, everyones going to have a different opinion. So maybe we should accept that and stop arguing?

[Opinion Owner]

I never talked about my opinions. My whole comment was about some other people thinking something.
It was you all the time that couldn't see past your opinion. I never said what my opinion about this is.

Lol, thought you could snap me after me totally owning this argument.

[Asker]

Never said anything about your opinion. I was referring to mine and those 'guys' you talked about. And no I was actually trying to end this sh*t. Its a pointless argument. You think you are 'owning' this argument when I think the exact opposite. We're never going to see eye to eye and I hope you know I was being sarcastic when I said "enlightened". We should just stop, no one is beifitting from this.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you obviously meant in your previous comment that I'm unable to realize that people have different opnions. While I was the only one who clearly knew about that. I knew people who like skinny women and people who don't, like you right here.

I owned this. No denying it. Look at all the up votes.

[Asker]

Wow, you have an ego I'll give you that. And yet I still feel like I owned this :/ I'm gone bye! :)
Have fun with your life as you take your happiness from a false sense of achievement from online, pointless arguments :) Bye!!!

[Opinion Owner]

I'm here to have fun and obviouslymaking other people realize things. I did both. I made you realize your opinion isn't the only one. And again you should realize this. Your opinions aren't facts.

But the facts, yes. Well from the beginning you were wrong. You were certain no guy likes Victoria's secret models or thought they were perfect. I proved you wrong. I made you realize there are other opinions.
I from the very beginning knew people had different opinions and just wanted you to see the both. You didn't make me realize anything.

So I obviously owned this. And for me this was not pointless. It's your ego that doesn't like losing and tries to make you jelieve you won something when you didn't. You don't know how arguments work.

Don't speak about things you don't know anything about. You already did it twice. Have a nice day

[Asker]

Just one last thing :) I kno I said I'm done but... didn't realize anything, I had already said that some guys like skinny girls, I never said no guys like vict. s models, I said I don't know any guys that do. I learned nothin from this. Of course there are different opinions, I already knew that I never said every guy is like me. I didn't even imply it. Yet you insist that you are some kind of teacher?

[Opinion Owner]

Accept that you did, since first you were sure nobody would say they are perfect. Saying you will certainly never hear anyone say that. Funny how sure you were about that. And you said every guy knows they are too skinny. That wasn't true either.

Lol never said I'm a teacher. I said I'm here to have fun and maybe make people realize something. Not teaching, helping. That is why this site exists.

[Asker]

I think you're getting the wrong idea from what I'm saying. I meant that by "I never will" that I will never think that. I never said no one liked them I just said that no guys i know like them, they think they're too skinny. Of course some people love them I already knew that. In my question I said some guys like them

[Opinion Owner]

I know you didn't say no one likes them.

Then why would you say "Never heard anyone call them perfect and I certainly never will. " Doesn't male any sense. You certainly made it sound like you don't believe anyone thinks they are perfect. If you didn't mean that, rephrase your words better.

Funny how you made it clear you are not going to comment anymore, yet you have done it twice after that.

[Asker]

Yes funny haha. I guess its jut too tempting to keep coming back:)

I know that some people like vs models but I have never heard anyone call them perfect and I never will (as in I will never call them perfect) How does that not make sense? For instance, I know that some people are attracted to objects, yet I do not know anyone who is and have never heard anyone say: for example "damn! Look at that hot fridge!" I know about it from conversations with others or articles online.
Yes maybe I should have rephrased it. I should have rephrased the entire question because I didn't mean any of it in the way most people are taking it.

[Opinion Owner]

Alright. So most of this is just a misunderstanding. I dud get from your question tgat you really meant good. But yeah, people see your text in very different ways

[Asker]

Yea, I really had no idea there'd be such a negative reaction :/

[kellogg022458]

It's because of society and how people think of us and mostly how society views body image or how women should look like which I think is total bullshit. Women (and men) should just be themselves and not care of what society has taught us through the years of what beauty is and how it should look like.

[LonerGirlBree3]

I'm not trying to be skinny, nor do I want to be. I like the little curves that I have. I just want to be fit for personal reasons, none of which have to do with guys. Not all girls want to be skinny. Every girl is different. We all have our own reasons and preferences for things like this.

[G3186]

A recent class mate of mine stated "I don't do fat girls" "thats gross" this is an example of why girls don't want to be fat.

[Asker]

Yes, people have made such a massive deal about fat girls over the years. This could be one of the reasons that skinny came into style. People always talking about fat, girls would have wanted to keep as far away from that category as possible.

[Izzex3]

"So why do these girls want so badly to look like those disgustingly thin Victoria's Secret models?"
Body shaming.
Nice.
& I don't care about your preferences.

[Asker]

I was watching Terminator 2 when I was writing this question, maybe the atmosphere gave my question an aggressive tone. Haha I don't know, but truth be told, I honestly didn't mean to sound like such a dickhead I really didn't mean it to come across that way. All I really want if for girls to be happy and healthy and not trying so hard to be super skinny when its unhealthy to do so and its not as hot as they think. Being naturally skinny is pectly fine, I just dont want any girl feeling fhelike they have to be that way.

[Oddhonesty]

I don't want to be skinny, I honestly don't give a f**k, I hate the weight discrimination and the conception that one woman is beautiful at a certain size compared to another. Discrimination in any way is ridiculous, we're all humans and can live our lives the way we wish.

[Asker]

I wish I could change MHO. The best answers are coming in only now. Does this have anything to do with my other question?

[Oddhonesty]

Which one?

[sammy_31]

I don't want to be skinny I want to be healthy. I want to be toned and fit but have some curves. The thing is that women's bodies do come in different shapes and sizes but we are compared too often. We should look like this have that be this way and blah blah blah ahhhh sooooo annoying. Most of stop caring what we look like and just love and accept the way we are.

[Asker]

Those are the kind of girls I want. But unfortunately it takes a long time usually before they accept who they are.

[sammy_31]

Its not easy let me tell you but yeah everyone has a choice to change their mindset you know.

[ihopeinus]

^Sighs^ it's a constant battle in our brains. I know this a lot 1) I'm a girl 2) I have an eating disorder, but recovering and weight restored. In my mind, I see many other girls around me who are thin things which really triggers me a lot! I grew up hearing skinny is good and fat is bad. Since that is wired into my brain, it's hard to think otherwise. Also we don't want to be skinny for just guys, we do it for self-confidence and other reasons. I know many people say curvy is the new skinny or whatever, but it's hard when you're being taught differently.

[Asker]

Yea, I know where you're coming from :/

[Kyndra]

Thumbs up for more body bashing.
Some skinny girls are skinny because of health problems. Not because they want to look better for men.
Way to go though.

[Asker]

I honestly didn't mean it to come across this way. really just want girls to be happy and healthy and not feeling as if they need to be super skinny to be hot. You can't really start going on about health problems, as far more girls are trying to be skinny for other reasons. That's like you asking "why do guys care about penis size" and me answering "some guys have no penis so shut up"

[Kyndra]

"Really just want girls to be happy."
I'm sure your post made a looot of girls happy. What you're doing is not encouraging or helpful, it IS body bashing. Want to be helpful? Try making girls accept themselves as they are instead of putting down some of them to lift the others up.
By the way, penis size and body type are really not remotely similar so that wasn't a very good example.

[Asker]

That's your opinion. I think its an okay example but I'm not going to search for a better one just for you. They are "remotely similar" if you think about it, in terms of people's attitudes. I know I really worded question wrong. I didn't mean it to come across the way it did, I definitely should be more careful with what I'm saying. I'm sorry that I seemed like such a dick :(

[fun-weird-guy]

@Asker Why bash skinny women when not all can help it since some women are naturally skinny. That's like you asking "why do guys care about penis size" and me answering "some guys have no penis so shut up. Actually that is not the same.

[Asker]

Whatever, thats a bit of a pointless argument. But anyways, I don't mind if women are naturally skinny what I don't understand is why so many want to be incredibly skinny when they already have a perfect body. Its neither healthy or attractive, in fact its bordering on anorexic.

[ElectricGIRL]

Why? Because when I was skinny, I was healthier, had more energy, my facial features were more defined, it was easier to do pushups lol, however I believe in achieving it through working out & eating healthy my goal is to feel good & healthy again

[Asker]

You're probably talking about a slim body. But even if your not, its great you do eat healthy and you work out to achieve it. I asked this question because I hate that some girls feel they have to be super skinny to be perfect. The girls who actually go on those ridiculous diets that seriously limit their quality of life. I just want girls to be happy nd healthy and not feel like they must be a certain way because of the media.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

Fuck you man, I hate people that try to shame skinny girls. I can't help being skinny, I can't help that my hip bones stick out, I can't help the fact that my collar bones stick out and I can't seem to seal my thigh gap.

I'm so sorry for not fitting your preference

[Asker]

I've already explained this in the update. I'm not trying to shame anyone. At first everyone misunderstood what I was trying to say, they thought i was trying to body bash skinny girls. I'm not, read the update. I thought we were done with the hating.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

"Honestly, girls that skinny are a complete turn off. It's not only unattractive but its really unhealthy. I just wanna give them a hotdog. Why would girls put themselves through that to be even less attractive?" I don't care what your intentions were, this is offensive

[Asker]

You do know I'm talking about girls so skinny, and unnaturally so, that they're bordering on anorexic. I'm talking about girls who choose to be that skinny (and no not the ones with mental health problems)

[miserybusiness]

I agree with you, t-shirt lady. I don't want to be skinny, I am skinny. I've always been skinny, and I always will BE skinny. Nothing we can do about it.

Asker, you may not have realized it but you were unintentionally insulting skinny girls.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

A Victoria's Secret model is not borderline anorexic. You can't talk your way out of this, just think about what you're saying next time

[Asker]

I have realized it and I'm sorry. But as I told you I'm talking about girls who are really skinny, not anorexic, but bordering on it.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

So why are you saying Victoria's Secret models are disgustingly skinny? Stop changing your point

[Asker]

Excuse me, but most vs models are very skeletal. They're all boney. You can see their ribs, their arms are like sticks. Most girls don't realise how skinny and unappealing they look. And I know many girls don't do it for the guys but still its unhealthily thin.

[Asker]

Sorry if it looked like I was trying to change the point but your comments take a while to appear on my phone and I have to reload the page every time for them to come up

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

"Most girls don't realise how skinny and unappealing they look." You mean how unappealing they look to YOU. Plenty of guys find those girls extremely attractive.

" but still its unhealthily thin." That's just bullshit

[Asker]

Every guy I've ever talked to about them thinks they're too skinny. But yes your right it is my opinion too. But "that's just bullsh*t"? Wow, good luck with that.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

It is bullshit man, I'm as skinny as most of them if not skinnier and I am healthy

[Asker]

Just from looking at your profile pic, you are quite skinny, but certainly not as skinny as they are. (not an insult) You're either delusional or simply trying to pile up some evidence against me. What are you going to say next? You took that ages ago and now you're much skinnier? Save your bullshit.

The Victoria's Secret fashion show is a lie. It's a lie that women around the world accept as truth.

[Asker]

Sorry, hold on I wasn't finished.

[Asker]

The Victoria's Secret fashion show is a lie. Its a lie that women around the world accept as truth. Its a lie that propagates eating disorders, poor body image and unhealthy views on femininity and sexuality. Also, losing that much weight, maintaining that pattern of eating and exercising is extremely unhealthy.

That's not bullshit

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

You're acting like the only way to be skinny is by starving yourself and exercising day and night. Just shut up. Nobody cares about your preference, girls will be skinny if they want to be skinny and you cannot change that with your little rant. You cannot dictate how we view our bodies and what we find attractive so stop.

[Asker]

I know. Of course I can't change that. I don't expect anyone to care, I'm only talking to you. I was only talking about extreme dieting and constant exercising because thats what vs models do. I mean, do you know anything about them? They do high intensity exercise for long periods twice a day and they're on crazy diets. That is not the only way to get slimmer but to get THAT skinny, thats what people do, they starve themselves, basically.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

I've modelled for a lot of brands and modelling agencies always ensure that we're healthy and safe in the way we maintain our weight.

[Asker]

Good for you. You're a much healthier weight than they are anyways.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

You don't even know my weight

[Asker]

I know what you look like. And you're not as skinny as you seem to think you are, you're not vs model skinny. You probably think thats an insult but its actually a good thing.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

Seeing one picture of me doesn't mean you know what my body looks like. I know how skinny I am and how skinny I'm not.
You can't say it's a good thing, that's your OPINION not fact. You need to understand that not everyone agrees with you ffs