What does it mean when a girl says she's conflicted about me but still not willing to enter a relationship?

[Anonymous]

She says her feelings are conflicted and not sure about being in a relationship with me.

What does that mean?

[goflipaburger]

I think it means that she likes you but she doesn't want a relationship because she has some serious doubts about the feelings she has for you.
My ex had conflicting feelings about me but never said anything until the end, I wish he had because in the end I got my heart broken and he was never really into me 😕
Proceed with a lot of caution, it's not impossible to change how she feels but it's just a very slim chance and not always worth it 😦

[mooky06]

I associated that "being conflicted" part as in she is sitting on the fence about you. She likes you then she doesn't want to physically involve herself in a relationship with you? She could just be scared about involving herself into a relationship? Probably previous relationships kind of scarred her and she is just trying to protect herself

[lumos]

That she's conflicted and doesn't want to be with you. There's a small chance she'll change her mind but I wouldn't waste time sticking around to find put. You deserve to be with someone who has no hesitations about you.

[lumos]

Find out*

[slatyb]

TL;DR: no hope, find another girl.

"Conflicted" means she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you but she doesn't want to say it directly. When someone says they are "confuse" or "conflicted" or "not ready" it basically means "I'm confused about how to get you to go away" or "I'm not going to stay with you but I don't want to be alone right now" They won't be the least bit confused when the right one comes along.

[Anonymous]

She likes you a lot, but maybe a relationship isn't what she needs. Hence the confusion. She want to be yours just not with the pressure of a relationship

[Asker]

Do you think what slatyb says has merit too?

[Opinion Owner]

Well in certain circumstances yes, what if she working out old issues, "baggage " so to speak. What if she's making the necessary space she needs so she could fit you in her life.
Maybe her conflict is liking you but can't tell you what you want to hear exactly, I think it responsible and considerate, maybe even honest if I trust person. Maybe she's a little scared of commitment.

Also consider priority. If she's studying, practicing in some field that deserves her attention, maybe a relationship will be distracting