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Why don't any girls give a damn about guys' feelings? (Page 2)
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I'm sorry to hear that your dealings with girls have been so unpleasant. My own experiences with girls were very different. In fact girls found many devious ways to reject me while sparing my feelings. But that was a different age and society as a whole has become much less caring.
Then you've been friends with/gone out with the wrong sort of girls.
I care about my fiance's feelings and any guy friends I have I care about same as I do with girl friends.
Ultimately, everyone cares about their own feelings. If you're not happy yourself, how will keep anyone else happy? So I think this is a selfish question. The only who needs to give a damn about your feelings is you.
Women are designed to care about offspring the most. You the male exist to protect, provide and give her your sperm. Men care about women, women care about children, children care about toys and animals.
Evolution is a bitch
This makes me sad because I really do care about guys feelings and I know there are girls that do treat boys badly, lead them on and all sorts but honestly not all girls I like that I promise you
I care about anyone's feelings no matter what gender , just some women and even men don't care you just meet the wrong people making you think this badly of women but there's lots of us who care , my boyfriend feelings matter to me , if he's sad I would run to his house cup his face and say "honey bun what's wrong?" So not everyone women don't care about men's feelings because hella lot of us do
I do agree I believe there is a bit of a double standard where guys are supposed to be above emotions, when that is not humanly possible really, whereas females are able to indulge in every possible emotion because its so-called feminine.
Feminism culture. They get to be selfish. They feel depressed right? Every guy goes out there to help her. A dude is depressed? No girl wants to be around him
Actually scientifically, there are more male psychopaths in the world than females :)
Well, there are 1.07 men in the world for every female, so that'd be obvious.
There are more females than men in the world... So no that's not obvious.
That's not true. I can speak for myself i always care about the guys feelings that i date or talk to.
Not everyyyyy girl. It could be the ones you're dealing with thats causing headaches for you.
Most of us do... but there are some people (guys and girls) who just don't...
Nothing you can do about that. Those people just don't feel.
Damnn! Chill out I swear not all women are like that but I do agree most of them are but maybe look at other type of girls, or it just the way you act with her you know; acting like a flirt or you are just not doing it right you know?
You're being really dramatic lol
Proof men's issues aren't taken seiously
You're being really flippant. Straightface.
noooo i love emotional/sensitive men I'm dating one right now!!!<3 they're so cute!
So many people just arguing. I'm just sad and want a hug... www.clipartbest.com/cliparts/jcx/Egz/jcxEgzjcE.png
Because guys don't give a damn about our feelings. Most girls don't care that guys don't care about our feelings, they'll kiss your butt til the end. But girls like me, don't
And guys like me do care about your feelings. But because you tar us all with the same brush, you assume that we don't, and that any attempt to form an emotional connection with you must be an twisted, insidious plot by those evil men to mind-control you, turn you into his puppet through your emotional strings, and get you into the sack. Believe it or not, there are plenty of guys out there who are actually interested in having friendly chats with girls, without the underlying motive of wanting to have sex with them afterward- and news flash, most of us AREN'T gay. We just aren't ruled by our dicks, any more than you girls are ruled by your wombs and menstrual cycles.
What you assumed of me is wrong. I treat everyone the same unless they mess me over. When I get messed over, I become cautious but I don't just treat guys wrong. I find guys that show their feelings hot. I'm a Capricorn, we are fair people
My elder brother's a Capricorn as well, and he's the least 'fair', most Machiavellian person I've ever known in my life.
You obviously dont know me than
You should read the Manipulated Man by Esther Villar. She talks a lot about this type of woman in her book.
Some women are like that. Women that like to tear down men for their own enjoyment and doesn't care what happens to them; or how they feel. But, not every girl is like that. They are women out there who aren't as mean as they women that you've met before. One day, you're going to find a girl who isn't that way. It may take a while or it may not, but you will. Don't keep that mindset that every single girl in the world is like this; because many of them are not.
Why don't any guys give a damn about girls' feelings?
This is a true statement and is more so true than OP's post.
This is a negative way of going about your answer to his question.
@SweetHomicidalQueen
I'm glad it looks like I care, but I don't.
Can you please remove the hostility from the way you talk to me?
I did nothing wrong and would like to avoid any arguments.
@SweetHomicidalQueen
Can you please remove your unwanted opinions from my post?
I didn't ask for it. I turned what he said back around, as I do with ALL generalizations I see, never said I believed it.
Well, I do. Every girl I've ever approached in person, numbering more than a few hundred, has tossed it back in my face, often explicitly telling me exactly what you've just told me- fuck you, fuck your feelings, I don't give a fuck, because you're less than nothing in my eyes. I've heard it all before- it's no surprise. What I want to know is why- why are you filled with such unabated hatred towards me, and towards men? Why are our emotions and feelings worthless in your eyes?
I understand that, and I was simply stating my opinion as I do on all opinions that I deem unnecessary.
@SweetHomicidalQueen
Well I think you commenting, still, about it is unnecessary. You really want to avoid an argument? Then bye, waste someone else's time.
@TigerDK16 how is it more true than the OP? WTF
@lacorine197 Not sure what the "WTF" was for. This is almost like someone stating 2+2=4, we both agree, and then you said "NO! What are you talking about?"... it doesn't make sense.
@TigerDK16 wrong it's a disagree, you said the this post that says men don't care more that you agreed with I DISAGREED with which is why the WTF is there.
The real question is, do we truly care about theirs? The answer, of course, is no. We just want to get laid. So, really, men and women both play each other.
You cannot just say that every Woman does this because you don't know and neither do I, But I do understand where your coming from and a lot of Girls might be like this but you can't just say all of them are.
All the pretty women I've dated seemed to not care about my feelings. They are expected to be handed things more easily and demand much more from a partner. I've been treated better by the less attractive girls.
I only don't give a fuck AFTER he didn't give a fuck about my feelings. Two way street.
You're meeting the wrong type of women.
Some do, some don't... just like with men. Although you are definitely reaching there... No, not all anyone is like something, since everyone is different.
Some do and some don't boy I do though any guy can show their feelings to me even cry if you want it's okay
Thing is, I don't want to be allowed to cry- I get to do that in secrecy and solitude into the small hours of every night anyway, and I'm sick and tired of it. I want to be allowed to smile, laugh and just be friendly to people, without instantly facing rejection and social isolation for doing so. And it isn't socially acceptable for a lone male to do any of these things unless he can use "being under the influence" as his excuse. According to so many of the women I've tried to approach romantically (and as a 29yr old who's been actively searching for his first date for the last 13yrs, I've approached several hundred by now), doing any of these things- smiling, laughing, joking, asking them how they are, and going out of my way to talk to them politely and ask them if I can do anything for them- makes me "too emotional", "too nice", and thus "not manly enough".
Personally I know a handful of women that care about mens fellings.
No this is not true at all don't generalize all women by the few you've met
I'm mainly commenting so I can read the answers later
Girls who don't give a shit about your feelings. Really aren't worth your time. Girls who really care about you, will care to ask you how you feel.
Hey sweetie. You need an innocent sweet girl who's naive and doesn't know right from wrong. That way you won't be hurt. I suggest you go to India and Bangladesh to pick up a shy sweet virgin girl.
women are like that , they care when they care can't help it
don't generalize girls. There will always be girls who care
i'm really sad that no one has made a "frankly, my dear, i don't give a damn" reference. y'all suck!
I was kinda waiting for that one, myself.
I think someone is having a bad day (or week, month, maybe year)
A bad decade and a half, actually.
I hear ya. I truly consider myself a nice guy who cares a lot of people, and I've been kicked around by women I like my whole life.
I always care and I encorage guys to share there emotions I feel it makes them stronger as they know how to deal with them
Your not any less of a man for expressing feelings.. all men have them. I am not sure but I think most women are instinctualy attracted to the alpha that shows no feelings, no fear, no worries.
Chill dude.
Just sit back for a moment and observe how women treat each other.
I don't know personally because I avoid women due to my own hang ups but you shouldn't lump all women in the same category
Some girls do care, like me. But I think some girls get tired of being mistreated by a few guys to where they mentally shut down and can't accept a good one.
Your picking the wrong girls to talk to and value yourself on! Not everyone out there is llike that!
We're to busy worrying about our own feelings and trying to make sure guys don't break our hearts, that we forget guys have feelings swell.
I care about my boyfriends feelings more than anything in the world. Whenever he's sad I'm sad. Not everyones like that.
A majority of women are natural sociopaths in varying degrees.
This may be true. Most of the true crazy people I know are women. Now, that may be becauseen are better at hiding it, I don't know. It may be hormonal? But I trust men more than I do women. At the very least, they are slightly more predictable.
Maybe if guys truly gave a shit about a girl's well-being instead of how easily she gives up her ass...
I do give a shit about girls' well-being. Plenty of other guys don't, but I do. So what do you girls want me to do? The right thing (continuing to give a shit, showing that I do care about their feelings and well-being through my actions, and being rejected for coming across as 'desperate') or the thing that works (pretending not to give a shit, and that I don't give a fuck about anything except getting girls to do my bidding, and getting the girls tossing themselves at me for being 'manly' and 'powerful')?
I am implying that if guys showed that they cared about a girl's feelings rather than her body, maybe they would reciprocate their feelings.
That's exactly what I've always done, and what I've been rejected, mocked and taunted by girls for doing, time and again. Try to show a girl that you care about her feelings, and she'll tear into you for being 'weak', 'desperate', calling you a 'wuss', a 'pussy' and 'not a Real Man', or accusing you of being a 'creep', 'stalker' or 'perv' for having the temerity to ask her how she feels. When a guy shows that he cares about a girl's feelings, a girl with your mentality will assume that he only cares BECAUSE he wants to manipulate her into having his way with her and her body. No girls EVER reciprocates- instead, they'll typically over-react to that guy as though they're fending off an attempt to mind-control them, often equating the guy's attempt to connect with them emotionally to an attempt by a guy to force himself upon them sexually.
There are definitely girls that care. My girlfriend, nobody has cared about me as she does, and vice versa. You just have to find the good ones.
Simple
Most of men don't care bout women feelings
So why we do?
So you're just butthurt, petty and resorting to sexist stereotyping of all men?
"any girls"? This is so not true, you just have been attracting horrible women... like there are horrible men.
Its just the way they are man. I don't understand it either.
Why should I care they never care about my feelings. That is a double standard if you ask me.
The thing with an eye for an eye is that everyone ends up blind. Girls say, "Why should we care about guys' feelings? They never care about girls' feelings!" Guys say, "Why should we care about girls' feelings? They never care about guys' feelings!" And in the end, when everyone follows that line of thought, neither girls nor guys give a damn about each others' feelings any more- everyone becomes a user and abuser, and/or used and abused. Is that what you want? Because it's not what I want. It'd be so much easier for me if I didn't care about girls' feelings- if I didn't, then I wouldn't care whether they cared about my own feelings or not. In a fight, you have to be able to take what you're dishing out. But I'm not looking for a fight, not looking to assert dominance- call me naive and imbecilic, but I'm still looking for romance, for love. I care that they won't give a damn about my feelings, because I still refuse to stop giving a damn about theirs.
Whatever I still do not think guys have feelings. I am not in a position where I have to care about a guy's feelings luckily. And they treat me like I have no feelings too.
Maybe that's because you yourself just admitted that you don't care about any of their feelings? Why should they believe that you have any feelings when you voice the opinion that none of them have any feelings?
"Woman is a tool of Satan, and the pathway to hell"
Because they got so many feelings inside their bodies? and too busy to give a fuck about other guys feelings?
Wow! Bitter much dude?
Perfect case in point. Because we guys aren't allowed to care when our feelings get hurt- it's all fun and games for you. Why the hell do you think that the suicide rate for young, single men is higher than that of any other group, more than twenty times the suicide rate for young, single women? Because of people like you. Classic reflex response- oh, look, the guy's UPSET! WOW, That's SO hilarious- what a wimp, what a pussy! Quick, let's kick him again, and again, and again! Aww, he's getting back up. You gonna cry, pussy? You gonna cry? Ooh, no, he isn't crying- damn. But he isn't smiling either. Ooh, he's SAD! SAD, SAD, SAAAD! Bitter much, huh? Bitter much?
That was not a rant. That was the expanded version of exactly what you said in your original post, reading through the lines and filling in the blanks to get the gist of the abrasive, dismissive, mocking and hurtful message which you clearly intended to get across. And I am not angry. I am bitter- I don't deny that I am. But your reply didn't make me angry- it merely left me feeling bitterly resentful, after you did your bit to further erode my belief in the nature of womankind. I assure you, my everyday life is nothing like that- typically, my everyday life involves total seclusion, and I don't get to talk to anyone at all. When I do venture out, which I do less and less, I try to express myself to people, and get them to express themselves to me. I never display anger unless it's on others' behalf, because nothing that happens to me is worth getting emotional about any more- I've got the message already, I'M NOT WORTH IT. But other people are still worth caring about, in my eyes.
Have you sought help to get to the root of your bitterness? And possibly find ways to overcome it?
Do you really feel that way? :(
I do. I feel as though every women finds my ability to feel, and my desire to care about people, inherently repulsive and unmanly. Because I've heard from several girls and women over the years that any display of emotion means that "I'm not a real man". And let's make this clear- I'm not talking about wild outbursts of emotion, like crying or tossing tantrums. I'm talking about tiny things. Like enjoying music=displaying emotion="you're not manly enough". Laughing at a joke=displaying emotion="you're not a manly enough". Showing a flicker of a smile=displaying emotion="you're not manly enough". Asking them their name=displaying emotion (a sign that I care)="you're not manly enough". The list goes on. In fact, I can't recall the last time when I was able to show any emotion at all in public without instantly being alienated by every female observer in my presence over the age of 11 for doing so. And yes, that does include smiling and/or frowning.
Well, then... I'm very sorry. Honestly, I find a man that can show emotions like that to be extremely manly and attractive. It's such a turn off when guys try to be all macho and tough, like nothing hurts them. I'd much rather see a man who can be open and honest, with himself in front of others.
I sincerely hope you meet a woman who can appreciate your incredible sensitivity. Never lose it. It's a gift. :)
I have proof recently that men also care very little about a girls' feelings, as well. So, women aren't the only culprits... :(
I've been there and done that, it's because they expect you to treat them the same way. But most women will get over it eventually and won't be so scared to care.
Most girls I've met aren't like that though.
I think it depends on the girls you meet. I know a lot of women and girls, myself included that care about their feelings.
you're just saying cuz ur not fucking anyone. which is exactly why girls ignore this.
I'm saying this because I'm NOT JUST interested in girls' feelings exclusively for the purposes of fucking them. Clearly, you don't feel the same way about guys- to you, a guy has no purpose other than to be a lustworthy and available dick. Which is why you, and other girls like you, only care about guys who ARE dicks. I, on the other hand, see women as more than merely lustworthy and available pussies, booties and tits. Girls are PEOPLE. And guys are people too, even if you refuse to acknowledge it.
what's so bad about fucking? it doesn't have to be hardcore. I really like sensual sex... I think when you have that it's caring about someone's feelings...
And ur right. I do like dominant guys, but ones that are good with emotions and sex together are hot as hell.
even what ur doing now is a little hot. Ur trying to appeal to girls with emotions because you know how emotional we can be... It's mean. but hot too. we like it when guys know what they're doing.