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Be selective like be nice to people who are nice to you
when the niceness goes overboard it stems from neediness
You need to more of an alpha male it seems, not all sweet and stuff but not really a jerk either, but kind of a backhanded insult or comment to catch them off guard , pick at them a little and joke about it, you can be nice later once you have them
None extremism is good. Find a balance between being nice and respect yourself.
Besides, I think the strenuous efforts being nice can cover your personality.
women are horrible.. too nice=no pussy
being an asshole= you're a misogynist
you women are not realistic
why dont u just treat them like human beings u fuckwad
@idkwtftoputhere whats wrong with being nice?
nothing but there's a difference between being genuinely nice and being a pushover/placing someone on a pedestal and for some reason so many dudes dont get this
@idkwtftoputhere i dont put anybody on a pedestal.. were all human beings and were all on the same level.. i get rejected all the time for doing this too.. so if im nice (not SUPER nice, just nice) i get rejected, and if im too aggressive, i get rejected.. its really a no win situation for guys because women expect this perfect storybook romance all the time.. the real world doesn't work like that
yeah there are defs tons of women with unrealistic expectations especially those "I want to be treated princess" expectations which I think is fucking stupid. I'm sorry you've dealt with some pretty shit girls
@idkwtftoputhere its all good.. its not your fault
Girls suck, I hate them. Gay people never reject nice guys.
Start being yourself and stop trying to be nice for reason
Don't be there for them as much, don't offer your help to any of them anymore.
Next time one asks you for a favor or for you to do something, tell her to fuck off. That should do it.
Bro, read your last paragraph. You answered your own question.
I know that'd be an answer. But I'm asking if there are any other answers, whereby I could avoid becoming a jerk, asshole and a womanizing player and still get girls to be attracted to me?
Well you could just be yourself, and have only a tiny portion of girls be attracted to you according to your traits. e. g you might be naturally funny and so attract girls that like funny guys etc.
You sound perfect. Perhaps you just aren't dating the right girls... because you seriously sound amazing 😊
Hands down, you'd never end up with such a guy.
just be who you were before you started changing your behaviour to meet her needs, stop putting her needs before your own girls like guys who are focused on life and his work or goals and not her
The truth is, they're probably rejecting you because you are Indian.
Don't put them on a pedestal.
Put yourself first.
Stop being a gentleman to all of them and only be a gentleman to your girlfriend.
You need to find a well adjusted girl who isn't afraid of being treated nice.
then why are there so many girls having that "rush of hormones" which come from being treated like shit?
Don't be "all give little/no get". Have self-respect. The rest is trivial.
Being nice is fine, just don't let them walk over you
Don't change who you are. I'd recommend being a bit more up front and assertive?
I wish I could meet a guy that was too nice to me- i'd treat him like gold
calling ur bluff
*cough*bullshit*cough*
Oh god i'm sorry i just caught a whiff of that bullshit you were spewing out and some of it got caught in my throat. that IS potent.
that isn't bullshit at all--you people are crazy and sick. This is the reason men have such a bad rep--so many psychopaths like you out there...
and yes i'd love to meet a nice guy- not garbage shit like u two inbred faggots.. jump off a cliff
@Melissajones9928 and how many weeks would you stay with him for?
If your too nice then they aren't right for you man
Easy, fuck women and go MGTOW. Women are hoes nowadays.
Find a balance. Maybe do some of those nice things less.
You will find a woman one day man. Just be yourself and you will find her.
Most women are evil so there for they are attracted to evil trust me I'm 19
Be polite but desist from being a doormat
Haha 'desist' made my day!
@Soconfused2018 okay! :)
Bitch you will take me out to dinner, then if you're lucky we will fuck.
Stop elevating us in your mind to some delusional and totally impossible fantasy.
Oh, rest assured that I'm not. But I have this thing about treating others the way I'd like to be treated, being chivalrous enough to do the right thing, making an effort to offer everyone I who I meet a clean slate and give them a chance instead of just being prejudiced and discriminatory against certain groups because of bad experiences I've had with members of those groups in the past, and just generally offering people common courtesy. Is that delusional, fantastical and impossible? I don't think so. I'm not elevating you in my mind, not by a long shot. I'm simply not relegating you in my mind on the basis of the actions, words and general demeanors of the vast majority of the girls I've personally met. Or at the very least, I haven't. Should I stop thinking the way that I've been thinking, abandon those lofty ideals, and adopt a more realist mindset instead, along with a new approach which would have been more successful with those girls I attempted approaching in the past?
There is no such thing as the magical-one-size-fits-all-approach as people will either be attracted to you or they won't.
Stop caring about us and start caring about U... first and always!!!
That last line needs rewording.
@mostwomenshouldstfu How so?
You really want guys to stop caring about you? Be careful with your wording.
People change, tastes included.
@mostwomenshouldstfu
I want men to care about themselves first and MORE than they care about me, NOT vice versa.
Think timing is a key. Time for caring more for yourself and time for caring for others, or both, or not at all. Some would argue how can you care about others if you don't care about yourself? <-Which wasn't explicitly meant, but absolutes are used to bear emphasis on their opinion. Confusing. But I'd agree people need to operate independently, and when you ask for something or help from others, try to be aware of not asking for
so much to their (and your) detriment and try to give something in return, or people become reluctant to exchange anything. And don't EXPECT something in return if help wasn't asked for in the first place (although I see this time and again people will fight tooth and nail against help when they need it the most. Also see some people exploit the good will of others). Compromise.
Dont be a suck up, just be a gentleman
Women are attracted to evil...
They DO NOT want you, good sir!!
Don't stop being yourself. If she's turning you down, she's the wrong type of girl for you
My god the amount of answers you got for this! !
Don't change yourself for any 🙄
That's what you all say and yet when the nice guy comes he gets kicked to the curb.
Maybe because when you are too nice , it could look like you don't have your own opinion on anything. And that could lead to girls getting bored.. I guess 😁😁
learn to say "no" more often.
Stop putting them on pedestals. Simple as that.
Are you a naturally nice person?
Man... You got it back wards
Put em in wedgie lmao
STAY BEING NICE
Not if he wants results. 4 other guys agree.
Please give me a break no woman wants a nice guy they want jerks.
Opinion owner. Look at all those blue down votes ... They're hatters... Your right about your opinion
@Ms_Sadness you have 12 downvotes. There might be something wrong with your comment.
@dontknow12 It's too bad I don't give a shit about other people's opinion :D
Or maybe being "nice" doesn't get you anywhere.
@dontknow12 Sometimes it matters :)
@dontknow12 Everyone's different
I don't think too nice is really a thing
By thinking of bad things about them
one girl will teach you
play with yourself, stay away from them!
Read "No More Mr. Nice-guy"
Tbh its better to be the nice guy than the jerk.
Sorry I disagree, times a girl likes a guy to be a jerk ones and a while. It shows you are not perfect. It means you are a man, not a boy.
@Men86 if you are being jerk, you are not being manly. Girls can like jerks, but they can't truly fall in love with them. If you think that being jerk to girls makes you a man, then you act like a little boy. by the way, do you mean being honest, not jerk? Because strong women do not like jerks. Maybe only teenage girls.
Not a jerk to her, just being a jerk, it show confidence and a strength. Women like that. Don't have your head up her ass, learn to give them foot rubs, women love foot rub.
@Men86 Then maybe
If he wanted to take a break of having sex, then yes, that's a great plan.
how long did it take you to write all this lol
stop being a little bitch
Shut up
Focus on u
You can't be too nice
Say No