I always get slutty when I get drunk and my whole class saw me making out with boys last night, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

So whenever I drink a lot or fast I get super loud and slutty. I make out with strangers and even do them sometimes. The worst part is that the last time I did this there was a lot of my friends from school and class there, they saw me make out with many and now everyone kind of talks and laughs about it. I feel awful, some of friends act really cold, what do I do now?
Ps I know I should cut off the drinking but the damage is done now, no one in my class ever knew this side of me and I am afraid that everyone is going to take me for a whore all the time, how do I act now?
*** my crush wasn't at the party but he's friend was and he told him a little and since my friends told everything I did when he was also around he knows it all now.
He doesn't know that I have a crush on him, he flirted with me since the beginning of the term. I'm worried that this is going to push him away.

[xsashax]

If you laugh about it and act like its nothing, people are going to take you as a whore because people are going to think that you think there's nothing wrong with making out with a bunch of people when you drink. I think the best way to change it, is to put the spot light on someone else. Know anyone else that drinks a lot? Maybe they only kiss 1-2 people but try and over exaggerate it so the spot light moves to that person instead. Everyone will forget about your moves that night. (and other nights)! Hope it helps
Another tip: know your limit. Start drinking at 9pm and stop at 11pm even if someone offers. If they insist just say "give me a couple minutes, I'm still digesting the last 2 shots I took! :(" or something like that

[xsashax]

If you laugh about it and act like its nothing to make out with others, people are going to take you as a whore because 1) doing that in general is being a whore and 2) your acting like it's fine cause your laughing about it making it seem like it's fine to do

[Anonymous]

It already has stop drinking or at least no your limits. Two cups and that's it. If you know you act like a slut drunk why are you still getting drunk? You can catch something and there have been people who catch HIV or herpes drunk because they are aware of what's going on. As you get older even now guys don't like women who get drunk. Women don't get drunk girls do. And the people who you call your friends aren't because they would stick with you even if you're a whore. Get new friends and don't get drunk.

[Cmasterson]

I think you should think about what you feel you need this constant attention from others as self validation when you get drunk? How do you act? Like an adult acknowledge what you did wasn't the way you want to be thought of and steer clear of that from now on. He may be turned doff and thats something you can't control and thats okay.

[madhatters4]

i don't think you do anything. i mean i don't think there is really anything you can do.

[jman46241]

Stop getting drunk!