Girls, How long does the timer to the friend zone last?

[sociallyawkwardguy]

Again, very simple question, but in two parts. First, how long does a guy need to be friends with you before they can ask you on a date? And, how long does it take for you to loose feelings for a guy ie) Friendzone a guy.

[SarahsSummer]

I don't think it's a set timeline for any of that. There are so many variables. All I can say is if you are romantically attracted to a girl, let her know as soon as you do. Don't become friends out of fear of being rejected for more. If you are afraid to ask her out but appear as "just" a friend to us, you will be just a friend to us. I know I didn't answer your question but I hope I did give you some insight.

[sociallyawkwardguy]

How can you not be friends with the person, but still get them to agree to go on a date?

[SarahsSummer]

Waht I'm saying is dont establish yourself as only a friend. If you are attracted to her, tell her sooner than later. Dont wait for her to ask your opinion of another guy she's interested in. If that does come up from her, tell her immediately "Hey, Im attracted to you!"

[sociallyawkwardguy]

Thanks I'll bear that in mind.

[snowangle]

It doesn't really work like that but alright...

I would definitely ask her out within a month of hanging out with her.

[Lua_Raye]

I can't answer the first question... for some long, others take less.
How long does it take to lose feelings? 2 seconds. If I'm not interested, I'm not interested