Should you be blatant when asking a girl for a hook up?

[Anonymous]

I'm recently single as is a girl that I've been friends with for years. We're both attracted to eachother and I'm wondering what approach I should use to ask her for casual sex. Neither of us are looking for a relationship so I would be upfront that I just wanna hook up. Do I bring it up before we hang out and ask if she wants to hook up or should I do it in person? She wants to go for a drive so do I just randomly park somewhere and if so then where do I go from there? I look forward to hearing your guys thoughts!

[Megabeauty]

this is what you do.. ask her if she wants to chill. that's it. Netflix and chill.. make your move but never bring up any topic of dating or going into a relationship. don't make her feel disrespected by saying "wanna f***?" just say, wanted to kno if you wanted to hang tonight. if she has any brains she'll kno what you mean. one guy texted me this..."hey did you want to come over, have a drink and stay the night? I have to work in the morning so we'd have to leave super early and it would only be for the, you kno". I said "sure". lol! that was back in march

[Flurr]

If you mention making dinner will she think it's a date?

[Asker]

So she said she likes to go for drives what would be a text I could send in that situation to make my motive clear without being disrespectful?

[Megabeauty]

no, the dinner will just be a nice gesture. plus you're being respectful without actually taking her out. you still gotta be nice even if it's just casual or she won't keep coming. asker, your text, make it playful. say id like to kno if you wanted to go for a ride. we could talk and maybe you'll ride something more than my car? I'd like to get you alone." make her laugh, no pressure, very casual. "if your up for it I got a great place we could drive to to talk and see what happens".

[Flurr]

Good to know... sooo, uhh, Ms. Megabeauty, have any plans tonight? Want to come over, have dinner and watch a movie? :-P

[Megabeauty]

lol, my boyfriend asked the same thing. if you lived closer...

[Flurr]

Lmfao!

[redeyemindtricks]

"hey did you want to come over, have a drink and stay the night? I have to work in the morning so we'd have to leave super early and it would only be for the, you kno"

^^ He should have stopped after "super early". What was the point of explicitly *saying* the last part?
I mean... if this was a boy I just HAD to have, then, yeah, ok. But if it was on the borderline, that last part would have killed the vibe.

[deezfieryhands]

You could try to make a move, see where it takes you and then talk about it after and say "i don't want a relationship, please be honest to me and yourself if you feel the same way because if you secretly want a relationship ill end up hurting you (emotionally)" lol something along those lines but it not so many words

[Selliebeanz]

Just ask her. Tell her you're attracted to her and ask her if she would like to share the fun.

[Teded]

Hangout, enjoy your time, treat her nice, get her slightly drunk, take her to somewhere rather secluded and make her horny... drive to a motel, wash her, fuck her, leave her.

[stonerboner]

Just ask her. But, I'm betting she'll want more from you.

[Anonymous]

I'd go the make some kind of suggestive statement see what she says and then say "you won't". if you know how to play the same it usually works.

[Flurr]

Good question, I wonder what women think

[RationalMale]

Noooo that's not how you do it!

[Asker]

Then how would you do it?

[RationalMale]

The same way you would treat any other girl. You don't ask her to fuck. You wait until the moment seems good and you go for a kiss and take things from there.