Why do tall women hate men shorter than them approaching them and at the same time feel sad for not being in a relationship like other girls?

[Anonymous]

I hear a lot of girls who claim to be really (6'0 and over) say that guys shorter than them don't give them a chance or men have an aversion to dating taller women and it's so difficult for them to get a date. However, from talking to many men in my life of average height, what I've found is that it's not that they have an aversion for dating taller women but that really tall women give them a look of disgust for even attempting to show romantic interest in them most of the time.

So i'm trying to figure out if tall girls are holding out for 6'0+ guys and making themselves single voluntarily but at the same time want someone to be with it, why get pissed at a shorter male attempting to do give you said relationship?

[Ceanel]

I am a "tall girl", too and personally I don't really care if they guy is shorter than me (except if it's about like 3 heads shorter).
but I guess some girls may act like you said because society says that your boyfriend has to be taller than you and those who care about society will also care about the height of the man
also I guess it's sometimes weird if you are taller than your boyfriend, because it kind of makes you the... person who got the pants on, the "stronger one", especially since guys have their pride, too. It would be kind of strange for both if the man had to call for their girlfriends to put something out of the top shelf because he can't reach it.

[JHAYES317]

Not really. I don’t associate manliness with people able to reach things…and you may not care if the guy is shorter than you…but are you less attracted to shorter guys than taller guys? Because if so, the shorter guy is gonna feel like you settled for him just fyi

[truuhly]

And i have always said that tall women love shorter men based on what i am actually seeing

[DrTruth]

Because other women will judge her if she were to date shorter men. Tall men are a status symbol to her. Once her looks fade in her 30's, she'll have to settle for shorter men or else she'll end up on old bitter cat lady.

[coachTanthony]

They believe short men are of lower value. It changes though once you get up in your 30's and 40's. They realize that height is nothing compared to dating a tall asshole.

[ChocEyes1]

Why does it bother you?

[Asker]

It doesn't just a question because its a paradox. You want a relationship yet get offended by someone trying to fulfil that role.

[ChocEyes1]

I suppose they want someone to fill that role but also to have some requirements.

[Anonymous]

Maybe shorter guys look younger to them?