Girls, Spankings/Disciplining: Survey for anyone who was spanked growing up? (Page 9)

Question

Hey! OK so this is a big (and sometimes controversial) debate that came up in a class and its a topic thats come up in conversations with friends on how they were brought up. It's interesting to see how so many people view spankings as necessary discipline and a normal part of growing up, whereas others see it as a bad thing! Would be interesting to hear from the experiences of everyone here. This survey's probably not relevant if you weren't spanked growing up but if you were, copy and paste the questions and please share your views: 1) Do you believe spankings are an effective form of discipline? 2) How often were you spanked growing up (rarely, often or very often)? 3) Who did the discipline in your house? Did you ever get spanked by anyone other than your parents? 4) What offences did your parents consider deserving of a spanking? 5) Was it effective in making you stop doing whatever you were doing wrong? 6) When your parents spanked you would they make you go over their knee or bend over a bed etc, or would it just spank on the spot while you were standing? 7) What age did you get your last spanking and what did you do? 8 ) What did your butt feel like after a spanking? 9) Did your parents ever use an object to discipline you or was it just with their hand? 10) When you were spanked, was it done on the bare butt or over your clothes? 11) Did you cry every time? 12) Did you find getting spanked embarrassing or painful, or both? Was there any other emotion you felt? 13) How did your parents know you learned your lesson? 14) What other discipline methods did your parents use on you? 15) Now that you're older, what is your opinion on the use of spanking as a last resort? Do you feel it was abuse or at times necessary discipline? 16) Do you believe that spanking may have led to anger and/or trust issues with your parents? 17) If you have children would you spank them as a last resort? If so, is there anything you would do differently compared to your parents?

ZaraHadid · Answer

My parents never used violence of any form towards me or my siblings so I wouldn't know. I wouldn't spank my kids - its unnecessary and creates rifts between parent and child.

yasii · Answer

Spanking is only for parents who have no idea how to properly discipline a child

AnnasiaB · Answer

1) its less harsh than beating someone with a belt 2) often 3) parents mostly 4) stealing, stomping feet after disagreeing with them, lying 5) nope 6) spank me on the spot 7) have no idea tbh😁

StarsInTheEyes · Answer

These were not just a few questions... 17 questions...  But anyway the post has been closed before I woke up at 6:30 AM...

Bonitaermosa · Answer

Spanking for dissapline is fine, that's how I learned not to do it again the second time. But just to spank for abuse and no reason... absolutely not!

Po-ta-to · Answer

Used to get spanked with a very, very large wooden spoon that was the same time as me. It was definitely affective.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

My Mum would punch me in my spine, and hit me with shoes... I would be happier if she spanked me instead. :-/

Laurette · Answer

No, spanking will still encourage the child to misbehave as often as before, and I'm glad I never got any. The other questions, to me, are inapplicable.

marshamarshmallow · Answer

Yes, spankings work. They worked on me. They still do, but now I'm naughty on purpose. :)

pinkesweet · Answer

It's the embarrassment part that bugs me. What if my friends find out? I won't be able to show my face in school.

_Tou24che_l · Answer

Parents who spank their children should be punched and hit back (by an adult)

Ally100percent · Answer

These always start out and seem legit and then get creepy.

DinaM · Answer

Spanking children is in fact illegal in my country and has been since the 1970s.

Longlegs1979 · Answer

I was spanked with a plastic flip flop a hard plastic to. I think that’s problem with the world today.

CubsterShura · Answer

I never got spanked but I got slapped, beaten in the back with a cane, broom or shoe.

ladydoor · Answer

since i've never been spangled as a child i won't answer all that, but i don't believe in spanking/hitting a child. i don't spank/hit grown people when they misbehave/or are being disrespectful.

QueenOfBaku · Answer

My parents never spanked me. I think it is so inappropriate and the kid will have weird sexual behaviors when he/she grows up

Pinky_what_why · Answer

lol be back really quick i have to do this when i have time

-sunflowersss- · Answer

I wasn't spanked lmao I wish. I was hit with belts, shoes, cooking utensils etc

mroberts · Answer

My parents didn't spank me. My dad is a Family Therapist.

BipBipLeddus · Answer

If anything we were coddled. We did do labor and grounding as punishment but that's about it.

collie22 · Answer

i don't think its necessary to teach a kid by spanking. i remember getting spanked when i was little kid and i peed my pants. i think that was the last time i was spanked.

BonnieBunny · Answer

Lol, I'm not answering all that To keep it brief, I was spanked, but it raised me to not be such an annoying little twerp.  I'd say I turned out fine.

zoe2187 · Answer

I was never spanked. What we went threw wasn’t right.

momforfun · Answer

Yes
Rarely i was a good girl
Dad
Breaking antiques
Yes
No standing up
18 i was striping
Just hand
Bare butt
Nope sometimes I was angry
Embarrasing
When I stoped doing it
Grounding?
I spank my daughter
Nope
When they get me mad.

abundantlyrich · Answer

I got cane lashings. It's worse than spanking. I often bled. Lots of bruises.

SamanthaGG · Answer

Spanking by parents? No, never.  I spanked from my boyfriends while xxx , they are crazy and i don't like...

kimberleylove · Answer

Never been spanked, my parents only needed to shout and i would start crying (which i did on purpose lol)

Tanisha69 · Answer

I'm not answering a long-ass survey but I am in favor of spanking. I got it and thats part of how my mom raised me right.

IvoirianGirl20 · Answer

I'm tired of questions like these. My past doesn't concern anybody and discipline is a subjective subject

Girls, Spankings/Disciplining: Survey for anyone who was spanked growing up? (Page 9)

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