Whether it be the mall, restraint, bar anything women seem to never give me eye contact and seem like they are purposely trying to ignore me.. I'm a down to earth talented, and love fitness, I've been told I'm good looking a lot by men and women:.. I still have insecurities though and am pretty humble.. when I talked to them they can't look me in the eyes or hold a conversation or are very brief in responding.. what is causing women to shy away from me? Here's a picture of me too.. since I'm sure il be asked
0 to do with looks. More so you seeking attention. A lot of girls despite what you've heard are NOT looking for a guy. And don't plan on it. Your seeking attention from girls who just aren't interested in that or just specifically you. You may say you're good at things, but what does any of that have to do with women?
Here's what many of you have to realize when seeking out a woman:
1. WHY are you looking for a woman? We have to know. Many were used before, mostly sexually and other are just not comfortable in looking for a guy.
2. Perhaps you come off as intimidating. If you're constantly looking at women, we'll pick it up and it makes us either want to vomit out of nervousness or uncomfortable. It's not just your body language, it's just your intense nature.
3. From your description, it could be that they have already passed judgments about you that seem's unfair. But at the same time, they still feel uncomfortable with you. And it's more than just your insecurities. They may sense things about you, and about your habits, they can pick up. I avoided plenty of men because I already knew and sensed things a lot about them that I can tell I wouldn't like or agree with. This is more and likely what he case is.
The reality is simply this. You can't just seek out women because you want to, or because you feel you need to. You have to have a purpose. A driven purpose as to why you're looking to pursue a relationship. If this issue isn't dating related, then this is simply that you may not have much experience with having females around you at all, such as having female friends. And I believe this is where your problem lay at. You don't know how to communicate with woman on a personal level.
then why don't you talk to them and make yourself present to them? I've learned this the hard way but the world doesn't owe you or I anything. Gotta do things yourself sometimes
No I do that.. it just seems like they're already put off before I say anything and like I mentioned I know as I've been told I'm a good looking guy.. and I wouldn't consider myself arrogant.. I just feel like women hide their initial interest in me and their shyness makes them seem uninterested.. I'd be more likely to approach if I got positive signals
hahaha654, i completely understand you man.. I'm the same.. i have great pictures etc and i upload them on dating sites but they never sent me message or answer my messages.. like out of 1000 only 10 answer ahaha and here @ReformedBetaCuck is your turn you said they dont like to chase so they dont be identified as hoe? xd i got a friend many girls chase him like when i say many i mean it and not only him trust me its wrong what you said, at least in England it is wrong what. you said
@4golden2 to be completely honest a few weeks ago this gir"I don't like giving out numbers in reference to attractiveness but she was a model.. when I started messaging her she was responsive and flirty. Any other time the girl is less attractive they act resistant and on interested.. maybe because better looking girls have more confidence "sometimes"
Well maybe she was a good girl and had good mood that why but in my opinion i think we have extremely bad luck with girls we always catch them with their bad mood or something.. my friend yeah he is i won't say friendly but ability to be loved from many people of the way he acts its not because he trained or confident its just natural and he got that ability from god i believe to be loved from people. like i was thinking the other day why i like my friend? sometimes he is boring etc and i have uglier friends than him and they are funny smart etc so why i like him and not them? why he is loved and not them? so my friend i strongly believe we were born with a dick in our ass.. we will never get a pussy easily
i wrote a lot i know sorry but yeah man, nobody can understand life.. gotta accept it.. but my advice go to night clubs there u can find girls and might end up in a good relationship cuz of your penis size eh ;)
Well I'm happy for you. It's just odd being a nice quality and good looking guy and women try to hide their interest. I'm a catch so I don't know what the issue is.. nobody has ever referred me as an arrogant or a douche and I've always been complimented on my looks.. I guess time will tell
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