Why do women act like I don't exist?

[Hahaha654]

Whether it be the mall, restraint, bar anything women seem to never give me eye contact and seem like they are purposely trying to ignore me.. I'm a down to earth talented, and love fitness, I've been told I'm good looking a lot by men and women:.. I still have insecurities though and am pretty humble.. when I talked to them they can't look me in the eyes or hold a conversation or are very brief in responding.. what is causing women to shy away from me? Here's a picture of me too.. since I'm sure il be asked

[btbc92]

0 to do with looks. More so you seeking attention. A lot of girls despite what you've heard are NOT looking for a guy. And don't plan on it. Your seeking attention from girls who just aren't interested in that or just specifically you. You may say you're good at things, but what does any of that have to do with women?

Here's what many of you have to realize when seeking out a woman:

1. WHY are you looking for a woman? We have to know. Many were used before, mostly sexually and other are just not comfortable in looking for a guy.

2. Perhaps you come off as intimidating. If you're constantly looking at women, we'll pick it up and it makes us either want to vomit out of nervousness or uncomfortable. It's not just your body language, it's just your intense nature.

3. From your description, it could be that they have already passed judgments about you that seem's unfair. But at the same time, they still feel uncomfortable with you. And it's more than just your insecurities. They may sense things about you, and about your habits, they can pick up. I avoided plenty of men because I already knew and sensed things a lot about them that I can tell I wouldn't like or agree with. This is more and likely what he case is.

The reality is simply this. You can't just seek out women because you want to, or because you feel you need to. You have to have a purpose. A driven purpose as to why you're looking to pursue a relationship. If this issue isn't dating related, then this is simply that you may not have much experience with having females around you at all, such as having female friends. And I believe this is where your problem lay at. You don't know how to communicate with woman on a personal level.

[mermaid175]

have you ever playfully called a girl out when she does this? that might help ease her nerves and show her you are a normal person too

[Anonymous]

You're pretty attractive, but I really hope that's not the face you usually make. It ruins your look quite a lot.

[Hahaha654]

I suffer from resting bitch face lmao

[Barrabus_the_Free]

You're one of the 80% of men that they don't see any more than they see the furniture in the corner of the bar.

You want them to notice you, become one of the other 20%. Easiest way is to be a thug.

[ReformedBetaCuck]

then why don't you talk to them and make yourself present to them? I've learned this the hard way but the world doesn't owe you or I anything. Gotta do things yourself sometimes

[Hahaha654]

No I do that.. it just seems like they're already put off before I say anything and like I mentioned I know as I've been told I'm a good looking guy.. and I wouldn't consider myself arrogant.. I just feel like women hide their initial interest in me and their shyness makes them seem uninterested.. I'd be more likely to approach if I got positive signals

[ReformedBetaCuck]

Women are taught not to chase and to be chased as they don't want to be identified as a hoe etc.

[Hahaha654]

that maybe true but I can't stand not being able to read women if they fear rejection from me and play it cool.. no flirting or anything

[4golden2]

hahaha654, i completely understand you man.. I'm the same.. i have great pictures etc and i upload them on dating sites but they never sent me message or answer my messages.. like out of 1000 only 10 answer ahaha and here @ReformedBetaCuck is your turn you said they dont like to chase so they dont be identified as hoe? xd i got a friend many girls chase him like when i say many i mean it and not only him trust me its wrong what you said, at least in England it is wrong what. you said

[Hahaha654]

@4golden2 to be completely honest a few weeks ago this gir"I don't like giving out numbers in reference to attractiveness but she was a model.. when I started messaging her she was responsive and flirty. Any other time the girl is less attractive they act resistant and on interested.. maybe because better looking girls have more confidence "sometimes"

[4golden2]

Well maybe she was a good girl and had good mood that why but in my opinion i think we have extremely bad luck with girls we always catch them with their bad mood or something.. my friend yeah he is i won't say friendly but ability to be loved from many people of the way he acts its not because he trained or confident its just natural and he got that ability from god i believe to be loved from people. like i was thinking the other day why i like my friend? sometimes he is boring etc and i have uglier friends than him and they are funny smart etc so why i like him and not them? why he is loved and not them? so my friend i strongly believe we were born with a dick in our ass.. we will never get a pussy easily

[4golden2]

i wrote a lot i know sorry but yeah man, nobody can understand life.. gotta accept it.. but my advice go to night clubs there u can find girls and might end up in a good relationship cuz of your penis size eh ;)

[Dr_megabiker]

join the club I've been in for 50 years. I hope you can find a solution. I never have. I instead married a homely woman who loves me to death.

[Hahaha654]

Well I'm happy for you. It's just odd being a nice quality and good looking guy and women try to hide their interest. I'm a catch so I don't know what the issue is.. nobody has ever referred me as an arrogant or a douche and I've always been complimented on my looks.. I guess time will tell

[Anonymous]

Maybe they feel intimidated by you, but you are good looking.

[Hahaha654]

What's a good way to ease their nerves? is it normal for women to try to ignore attractive men because of fear of rejection?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe smile more and yes because its scary to talk to someone only to get rejected by that person.

[Hahaha654]

I do tend to have a serious look on my face.. why so serious XD

[callmedarthrevan]

If that's the look you have on your face all the time, I can understand why. You actually look kind of scary. Hot, but scary.

[Cola7248]

you are handsome. someone is checking you out. ypu might not be looking in the right places. keep looking you will find your Mrs Right o believe it.

[Anonymous]

ya man, that face makes you look like you have criminal intent, like fr u needa chill.

[Hahaha654]

Lmao no chill

[Paxikon]

You look like Mr bean with that face, please just don't make that face ever again and go on tinder and find some girls there.

[ushagomez]

Who doesn't exist?

[Anonymous]

u look fine indeed