Hm, it's not a bad thing. Thank god you're not one of those girls who have a bunch of male friends solely because they find the females "dramatic". Anyway, I don't see what's wrong with having mostly male friends. I have more male friends because I relate to guys a lot more than I relate to girls. At the same time though, I need my girlfriends. Guys can't do the shopping and boi talking like girls can
Depends on the situation really! No need for name calling or shaming because it's down to the individuals position. How bout if the shoe on the other foot for example I've a lot of friendships with women it doesn't mean that I am a queer or what not it just means I find it easier to make friends with the opposite sex that being for example like myself a man who has no brothers just sisters find it easier to make friends with women due to the fact I've been brought up around the consistency of my sisters and therefore It's easier making friends with them. So in actuality there's nothing fundamentally wrong about having more friends in the opposite gender!
No special opinion on it. Girls can be really bitchy and nasty and guys tend to be more chill so I get it. Just realize if this trend continues future boyfriends may have issues with you hanging out with your guy "friends" all the time.
Also consider at your age many of the guys even though friendzoned by you probably are interested in you more than you think. It is really hard for a guy and a girl to just be friends usually one of them will have more feelings but not let on to it.
I just don't really get along with other women. The mind games, the constant need to backstab and one up, the polite rudeness, the false courtesy. Women are mental!
I'm a straight thinking logical person. I say exactly what I mean, and get straight to what I need. I'm more like a man than a woman, so I get along with men better.
I feel exactly the same way! I mostly only have guy friends but it is nice to be reminded sometimes that there are females in the world who I could potentially be friends with too!
I honestly prefer to have guy friends, just because there can be less gossip. The only thing I have had an issue with is girls getting jealous that you talk to the guy, because they my like that guy and may try and hurt that friendship.
I'm the same way. I just think people like us get better along with guys, not in a romantic way. I just feel closer to them somehow, and that most of my friends understand me better. All my guy friends have lasted longer than my girlfriends tbh...
I know a lot of girls call us sluts or attention seekers but that's not me at least lol. I don't want their attention, I just wanna be their friend. Guess they are jealous?
Maybe she just gets along better with guys or just has a lot in common with guys.
I tend to have more close female friends than guy friends at the current moment. Not that I don't get along with guys it's also just happened like that. I tend to be a bit more introverted and spend more time alone and my female friends came by because they always just wanted to talk and hang out.
I find them to be cool... I myself have a lott of girl friends and when i say lot it is on a really big scale. but it all vome downs to what type of guys she chooses as her companion. boys can be really dicks you know right.
Hanging out with a guy is a kind of less drama... You can be yourself and there will not be any king of show off and moreover guys usually don't have the habit of gossiping... But the way you carry out yourself is purely depends on u and ur guy friends and if any of ur guy friend is trying to get over you it spoils the other relationships... Be careful and have fun girl
Girls with mostly male friends are just regular girls who just choose to have guys as friends! There is no problem there. They just prefer spending time with guys, or maybe the girls where they are from are scarce, or girls just aren't what they really like to befriend.
I know some girls find it easier to be friends with guys because they're less drama. I don't think it's a bad thing, when it comes to having a boyfriend it can be difficult having many male friends. Some may feel threatened by it but as long as you let your bf/future boyfriend know where you stand with them, it should end up okay.
Cool, she is often down to earth more so i could care less about her having guy friends. Being friends and being sexually active are two entirely different things.
there's probly some at least subconscious flirting going on. Its also probly a slightly different environment when ever my female flatmates invited me out / I was brought along as a bodyguard. They talked faster I got more attention than normal yet also less able to relate to a lot of the conversation and they seemed to get a lot more personal. More than I was at the time entirely comfortable talking about. I guess if you have mostly guy friends you get more attention but less personal conversations?
I don't know why anyone would have a problem with it. Friends are friends. Almost all my friends are women. It doesn't mean anything, it's just about who you happen to get along with
All depends on the girl and how she is as a person. Because there are girls with a lot of guy friends who are just comfortable around guys. Then there are girls with a lot of guy friends who flirts with every guy. So depends on the girl. Like if it's a 50/50 shot that another one of her guy friends is gonna ask her out today, then she's either supremely hot or she's the 2nd type of girl who flirts with a lot of dudes and thus has a lot of guys around.
It's a major red flag for me. Especially when a girl says, "I prefer having guy friends. I hate being around girls because they are so much drama." Translation: They are attention seekers that other women can't stand to be around. Some are sociopaths that have orbiting beta males they use as apaths to accomplish their agenda. Nothing wrong with having a few platonic friendships. I have some myself even, but it doesn't involve questionable motives.
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Hm, it's not a bad thing. Thank god you're not one of those girls who have a bunch of male friends solely because they find the females "dramatic". Anyway, I don't see what's wrong with having mostly male friends. I have more male friends because I relate to guys a lot more than I relate to girls. At the same time though, I need my girlfriends. Guys can't do the shopping and boi talking like girls can
Depends on the situation really! No need for name calling or shaming because it's down to the individuals position. How bout if the shoe on the other foot for example I've a lot of friendships with women it doesn't mean that I am a queer or what not it just means I find it easier to make friends with the opposite sex that being for example like myself a man who has no brothers just sisters find it easier to make friends with women due to the fact I've been brought up around the consistency of my sisters and therefore It's easier making friends with them. So in actuality there's nothing fundamentally wrong about having more friends in the opposite gender!
No special opinion on it. Girls can be really bitchy and nasty and guys tend to be more chill so I get it. Just realize if this trend continues future boyfriends may have issues with you hanging out with your guy "friends" all the time.
Also consider at your age many of the guys even though friendzoned by you probably are interested in you more than you think. It is really hard for a guy and a girl to just be friends usually one of them will have more feelings but not let on to it.
I figure either
1) a handful of these male friends have a secret crush on you
2) at least 1-2 of them are your exes
3) you have hooked up with at least 1-2 of them
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Those aren't disqualifying pointers, just something I would have to weigh out.
I'm not a hypocrite, because I have a lot of female friends.
I'm a girl and I agree but your third point just made my day 😂😂😂
I just don't really get along with other women. The mind games, the constant need to backstab and one up, the polite rudeness, the false courtesy. Women are mental!
I'm a straight thinking logical person. I say exactly what I mean, and get straight to what I need. I'm more like a man than a woman, so I get along with men better.
I feel exactly the same way! I mostly only have guy friends but it is nice to be reminded sometimes that there are females in the world who I could potentially be friends with too!
it really is lol
I honestly prefer to have guy friends, just because there can be less gossip. The only thing I have had an issue with is girls getting jealous that you talk to the guy, because they my like that guy and may try and hurt that friendship.
I hate that shit
me too
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Just kidding. Dunno. I think id be curious to know why.
I new it...
I figured this would be something you would post!
what?
@Prof_Don well, i couldnt resist.
oh good lord.
I'm the same way. I just think people like us get better along with guys, not in a romantic way. I just feel closer to them somehow, and that most of my friends understand me better. All my guy friends have lasted longer than my girlfriends tbh...
I know a lot of girls call us sluts or attention seekers but that's not me at least lol. I don't want their attention, I just wanna be their friend. Guess they are jealous?
could be there jealous. And same with guy friends sticking around longer.
Maybe she just gets along better with guys or just has a lot in common with guys.
I tend to have more close female friends than guy friends at the current moment. Not that I don't get along with guys it's also just happened like that. I tend to be a bit more introverted and spend more time alone and my female friends came by because they always just wanted to talk and hang out.
I find them to be cool... I myself have a lott of girl friends and when i say lot it is on a really big scale. but it all vome downs to what type of guys she chooses as her companion. boys can be really dicks you know right.
oh ok all to well
*ik all to well
Hanging out with a guy is a kind of less drama... You can be yourself and there will not be any king of show off and moreover guys usually don't have the habit of gossiping... But the way you carry out yourself is purely depends on u and ur guy friends and if any of ur guy friend is trying to get over you it spoils the other relationships... Be careful and have fun girl
Girls with mostly male friends are just regular girls who just choose to have guys as friends! There is no problem there. They just prefer spending time with guys, or maybe the girls where they are from are scarce, or girls just aren't what they really like to befriend.
I know some girls find it easier to be friends with guys because they're less drama. I don't think it's a bad thing, when it comes to having a boyfriend it can be difficult having many male friends. Some may feel threatened by it but as long as you let your bf/future boyfriend know where you stand with them, it should end up okay.
Cool, she is often down to earth more so i could care less about her having guy friends. Being friends and being sexually active are two entirely different things.
very naive
@ordinarygentleman well put
@yourmad101338 Very mature actually.
First, a satirical answer: pics.onsizzle.com/...iends-cuz-thereis-5740263.png
Now my honest answer.. is nonexistent. I don't tend to see them as any different.
The situation she is setting up with a ton of guy friends is the very definition of drama! Especially if she already has a boyfriend.
@king_casanova Most of the time it's her guy friends who start scheming. If she's loyal to her man, she knows what's right.
I've been sent that meme once already lol
No. I just checked. There is not a single hot dog in this picture.
oh lord
Mhmm.
You DID see what I put under the meme, right?
yeah?
Goodie.
Just making sure you're not just seeing the meme and not reading anything else.
there's probly some at least subconscious flirting going on.
Its also probly a slightly different environment when ever my female flatmates invited me out / I was brought along as a bodyguard.
They talked faster I got more attention than normal yet also less able to relate to a lot of the conversation and they seemed to get a lot more personal. More than I was at the time entirely comfortable talking about.
I guess if you have mostly guy friends you get more attention but less personal conversations?
I don't know why anyone would have a problem with it. Friends are friends. Almost all my friends are women. It doesn't mean anything, it's just about who you happen to get along with
i love having guys around me. they aren't petty and don't do extra. they are really honest. i just love my guy friends
love your profile pic btw!
thanks😇
All depends on the girl and how she is as a person. Because there are girls with a lot of guy friends who are just comfortable around guys. Then there are girls with a lot of guy friends who flirts with every guy. So depends on the girl. Like if it's a 50/50 shot that another one of her guy friends is gonna ask her out today, then she's either supremely hot or she's the 2nd type of girl who flirts with a lot of dudes and thus has a lot of guys around.
It's a major red flag for me. Especially when a girl says, "I prefer having guy friends. I hate being around girls because they are so much drama." Translation: They are attention seekers that other women can't stand to be around. Some are sociopaths that have orbiting beta males they use as apaths to accomplish their agenda. Nothing wrong with having a few platonic friendships. I have some myself even, but it doesn't involve questionable motives.
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