Girls, Are you into dominant confident guys or shy submissive guys?

[Anonymous]

Are you into those cute shy guys or more dominant confident guys?

I'm into dominant confident guys

I'm into shy submissive guys

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Ohh and by the way, submissive shy guy doesn't mean wuss, it just means that we need a leading lady because we're timid but not pushovers.

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+1 y

Well at least we got 11 votes for the beta male.

[Static_Words]

I need a dominant and confident guy simply because I'm quiet and a bit on the shy side. being around confident people makes me more confident and shy guys make me feel flustered and unsure of myself. I need someone who can support me and who I feel I can rely on when I need to

[seryleme]

You sound eleven. Please grow up and accept the reality that men are masculine and women are feminine unless you want a butch, dominatrix, then get over it.

[Asker]

It's funny you say that because dominatrix girls turn me on like no other.

[seryleme]

Then that's just your match and type. Nothing wrong with that at all but if you wanted an ultra feminine, submissive girl then I'd be annoyed lmao. But since you're more of the submissive then it works out. There are tons of girls like that out there but most confident girls like that still like to be dominated once in a while.

[Asker]

Ohh sure i can switch ;)

[seryleme]

Damn boy

[Asker]

What? Lol

[ZaraHarvey]

I would like to know more about guys (and girls and non binericals) before I choose. As long as they are a nice person and I like them, then I say yes ^-^

[Anonymous]

I'm dominant, that's why I prefer shy and submissive guys.

[Asker]

Would let me kiss your feet? I'm into that.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe, lol :)

[Asker]

Ok, i like to kiss, lick and suck them

[Ellie_copter]

I prefer dominant confident guys with a softer side :)

[QueenofCups]

Either is ok, but if I'm on a date with a guy, I at least want him to have enough confidence to take the initiative and kiss me goodnight.

[Asker]

No, he wouldn't take the initiative but he would kiss you goodnight.

[QueenofCups]

That's what I don't like. I want him to be confident enough to kiss me first, then I would kiss him back (assuming I liked him that way).

[Asker]

Then a shy submissive guy is not for you because we need a female leader.

[QueenofCups]

Shy is ok; I've had shy boyfriends before. Submissive is definitely not ok. Sorry, maybe I didn't read your post all the way through.

[Alwaysaddicted87]

I'm definitely more comfortable with a dominant guy but I'm currently with someone who is a little of both. I find that when I'm with someone who is overly shy I usually am shy too or not as dominant. I'm a little of both but I usually need a guy to have some dominant characteristics in order for me to sometimes be dominant too. Then again I never been with an overly shy guy so I can't say for sure, I might be a great match with a really shy guy and maybe that can help me be more dominant.

[LaFemmeFatale]

I don't like submissive guys. The ones who are followers and don't have a strong mind. I prefer dominant and confident ones.

[Asker]

I understand, but what can i do? That's how God made me, weak and unassertive but to each their own i guess, 4 girls voted for shy submissive guys so that means we have our fans, yay! But most seem to prefer the Alpha male.

[LaFemmeFatale]

I am dominant, older sister, raised as a tomboy. In childhood I never understood why some people were weak, like why did they let others win them over. Weak is something I see as pitiful, someone you should protect and It's such a turn off for me ! You can do nothing. I love relying on myself and being on my own, always thought that I was strong and didn't need help, but I was wrong! No matter how strong you are, you always need a rock aside you to rely on in hard times, when I guessed this, I changed my opinion about submissive guys. They can't even defend themselves, how can they stand for me when I need it?

[Asker]

What do you mean submissive guys can't defend themselves? I'm just shy with girls and like to be submissive to them but i'm not a wuss, it's not like i'm gonna let someone push me around, when i say weak i mean i'm not confident to approach someone i like and i'd like a woman that could lead but i'm not gonna be like a pushover if she does something i don't like i let her know.

[LaFemmeFatale]

Nice, but I like if he is submissive with me sometimes, I am just turned off by the idea of him being submissive to others, males or females.

[Asker]

Ohh i see, i get it now but no, i'm not submissive to anyone, i just like to be submissive to a woman which would be my girlfriend or wife and it's only because i like and want it, it's not like i don't have a choice, i can make decisions, i could stop being submissive to her if i wanted to.

[sjoes006]

I'm into guys that don't post the USA Flag as their avatar.

[Asker]

What's wrong with doing that?

[ErenandSpirit]

Both are great in the bedroom and it can make it more fun and exciting if you're a switch.

[Asker]

I agree, it's good to switch it keeps things fun and fresh.

[Madisonluvs]

I definitely prefer dominant men. But I wouldn't mind trying to be dominant myself once in awhile

[Asker]

I'm too much of a wuss to ask a girl out :(

[Madisonluvs]

Don't be. It's easy.

[Asker]

Ok, thanks, i just hope she helps me.

[TsundereMatrix]

I normally go for the dominant ones but I like to switch every now and then :p

[Shilpa2000]

I am dominant so I think I would get along with a submissive guy !!

[COCOCHANEL]

shy who can switch into dominant during sex

[Asker]

I can do that but i enjoy more being sub but yeah i can dominate girls too.

[neilsmart]

guys should be dominant

[Asker]

Because we have the cock and balls?

[seryleme]

You're the one who does so yah, you go into the girl. Biology, bruv.

[Asker]

@seryleme This is why i don't believe in God.

[Machiavelli]

Dominant doesn't mean asshole.

[Asker]

It's really close though.

[Machiavelli]

No it is not.

[Asker]

Ok, and submissive doesn't mean wuss.

[Machiavelli]

Yes but I don't want a sub man.

[Asker]

Ok, you prefer dominant.

[Machiavelli]

Yes but with a touch of a soft side. Not a gangster, not someone abusive. He must know how to support and be there for me. Too many boys not getting the training they need, still so much is expected of girls.

[Asker]

I think we´re equals, we must help each other.

[Kitten967]

Shy guys that are dominant in the bedroom

[Asker]

I indentify myself as a sub but that doesn't mean i can't be dominant in the bedroom however it's important to point out that i don't enjoy being dominant as much as enjoy being submissive, you know i can dominate you but it doesn't turn me on like being your bitch does lol

[Kitten967]

Lol yeah I understand that

[existing_not_living]

Dominant confident guys.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Dominant and confident. Get at me.

[solitarybee]

Dominant confident guys that are macho lol

[Asker]

Lol no sissies for you.

[solitarybee]

Oh no

[Asker]

xD I'm joking, we're not sissies well at least not me but i know what you mean, you'd rather have a leader that takes control.

[ice_cream]

both

[emerald77]

I like both.

[Anonymous]

I like confident guys

[MiaJay]

Confident please

[Asker]

You like Alpha males i see.

[rgb008]

Dominant

[Anonymous]

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