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I hate my body so much. How can I build my self image? (Page 3)
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Awwh! I feel bad for you. I have the EXACT SAME BODY. The only difference is , I don't have a flat tummy ;) Don't worry! First of all, if a guy dumps you for having small boobs, he's a DICK. If you really want a good pushup bra, the Emma by aerie is AMAZING. Wear that, with a V-neck, they look freaking AMAZING. Like BAM. And GUYS LOVE BUTTS. Really, most of the guys I know are ass guys. Are boobs nice? They may be, but they can sag, and a lot of guys are even turned on my NIPPLES. I know wtf, I was confused too. Wear a pair of yoga pants and a thong. It looks so good, on your butt! I promise! You should show off your legs too with heels. Muscular legs can be so hot on a girl, as long as they're shaved. :)
What you need is self confidence. I look just like you and I think I am the hottest thing on the planet sometimes :D
we all wish we had the perfect body like the girls on TV OK let me tell you how they get it plastic surgery .. I am 4 10 when I was real young I was so skinny I felt like you wish I had alittle more of every thing now that I am 30 and at 138p I wish I was skinny again if those guys are not looking at you then they are not the right ones for you may be serf the net for diffrent work outs just keep trying to switching it around till you find the right one that work..
One more thing though, people say an ego is a bad thing. But me and my guy friend have huge egos and do us it means that we don't give f*uck what anyone else thinks and that anyone who doesn't like us can go suck a lemon. We love everything about ourselves and wouldn't change for anything. An ego is not a bad thing. Remember that.
*sigh* Look in the mirror everyday and find what you like about yourself and focus on that. Not liking how you look will get you no where especially since you can't change it naturally. Be a good person, know yourself, love yourself and that's all you really need.
:(
I'm sorry.. (It's depressing reading these kind of stories..)
To gain weight, have you tried going on a high-carb diet (bread-pasta-cereals)?
If your boobs bother you that much, maybe consider a boob-job when your older?...I've heard you can sponsor boobs, pay them by the month. There are EVEN non-surgical procedures where you get injencted & your breasts get bigger...
Good luck ;)
Who cares what people think? You are who you are, and if people don't like you because of your body, then you don't need those friends. Learn to accept yourself.
I'm 5'3, size 0, small hips, and small boobs, but I don't care because I'm unique. I don't have to look like a Barbie just to feel good about myself
there isn't an easy way. you have to work out and try to tone up and do particular exercises to make the areas you want to be thing, thin. eating right, drinking lots of water and setting reasonable time and effort into coordination time to work out at the gym are assets for you right now. try being positive in thinking you will get to where you want to go.
you can drop a pix in here for us to rate. but your describtion does not sound awkful. is normal for your age to be worried about having complex. us guys do also worry about our **** size at a certain age, don't worry it will pass with time. I personally I look more at the personality
the problem with you is not your body. its your low self esteem, low self confidience, and insecurity. your body is not as bad as it may seem. love yourself for who you are and read books about self esteem, confidience, and insecurity.
otherwise maybe its the clothes you wear, try something that makes your body look absolutely gorgeous. every girl has an asset that drives a boy crazy in a positive way!
PLEASE DONT DO THIS TO YOURSELF!
im the same age as you and I'm a recovering bulimic. I suffered from the same thing about my body image. I still don't wear a bikini, or will get undressed in front of a guy. I used to cry when I would try on clothes in a dressing room. I'm 5'1 and 110 pounds(NOW). at the time I was 125, Dboobs, but ilooked a little chunky. I got down to 80lbs and lost everything I had. Now my boobs are saggy than ever and a size smaller. EMBRACE who you are and what kind of body YOU HAVE, because you ARE BEAUTIFUl. And a lot of guys don't like big boobs to be honest. from what it sounds like you have a pretty nice body.
f*** what others think it doesn't matter
just stay healthy.
follow this quote I stole off dr.seuss :P
"those who mind don't matter , and those who matter, don't mind"
basically if someone really cares about you they wouldn't worry about your image even if half the world hates how you look. so just be happy with yourself because you have more good qualities than bad, I guarantee it ;D
and stop trying to pllease those who don't even matter (:
sorry I'm uh kinda blunt
Hey they censored out my F word D:<
suggestion? start riding bicycle! You will get great butt :) a lot of guy's like small breasted women, they stay perky longer :D,
be patient,Your still growing,in ten years You will cause traffic accidents simple by walking down the sidewalk :D
Just think of people who have had their limbs amputated.Or people who are oaralyzed for life.Or people with real deformities...I hope you're confidence is building because none of these are plaguing you,and you have your health.Be grateful.:)
Im 5'4 ,hourglass , blond . iv been told I'm gorgeous but all I see is fat thiaghs fat butt and fat hips . so you might want to be taller and hourglass but id do anything to b thin - all girls want to be what theyre not. we just have to learn to live with what weve been given.
I don't know... Hour glass is the most beloved body shape there is, so I don't think you should worry.
All I can say is drink a lotta milk, your boobs will grow larger and u'll also get a bit taller in just a few months...try it, that's all I got for ya.
Lol
Really, so what can I eat or drink to make my ass bigger if am almost 25 and not growing anymore lol I want kim kardashians ass please
everybody is beautiful in thier own way.
thier are many evercises that help you strengthen you side abbs *cant think of exact muscle name. sorry*. thier are ton of but evercises that can make it more firm.lol. if you like to dance then that is a perfect way to get the feminine body you deserve.dont try to gain wieght try to gain muscle.lay up your little boobs, like wearing baby doll tops
-hope this helps!
wear heels..thats how I got over my height issue AND I feel super sexy all the time. also, smile for like 2 minutes whenever you feel bad, you'll start to feel good again :)
you osund 'cute' - like natalie portman
If you're toning your legs and not your butt, you're not doing the right exercises. Google some.
Want a way to feel better about yourself? Okay. Picture this. You have big boobs, a big round butt, and long legs. You also way 200 pounds. Then look at yourself in the mirror.
Feel better? Thought so.
F***ER. I meant weigh*
What are you talking about girl that discription sounds awesome...if your still insecure date some black guys
what does black guys have to do with it
Don't feel that way about yourself, and don't let the media fool you into thinking all women should have large breasts, small hips and a small butt. The truth is what turns off one man makes another man drool! I adore women with small breasts and a 'boyish' look. You are 17, so give it time and you will find there are plenty of men with the same preference as my own.