Girls, Would you date a guy with big belly? what are the advantages and disadvantages of dating such guy?

[lovemyindia]

Do you fantasy different sort of person for different purpose? Like for cuddling -guy with belly , etc

[meekayla]

First of all from that pic that is not a fat stomach it is a little chunky but cute! I date guys from 100-30 pounds I refer a stomach around the pic above honestly lasttwo big dudes I thought they were gonna break my legs make em touch my face I am very flexable for my size lol... but big girls rather date chunky and skinny mean sex is easier honestly from experience and from exfriends experiences... whenit's a skinny chick she can "fit" all sizes sex is easier with her... not always better haha.. anyways I don't have a type I've dated fat, chunky, obese, skinny and almost anorexic... I've dated tall, average and short guys; nerdy, smart, stupid, shallow, girly, straight and bisexual dudes... some girls say they date/screw big dudes but that's just to save face so people don't think they are shallow pathetic bitches that only care about looks alone don't care about brains, heart and personality atall.. other women are being honest when thy say yes.. biger guys are more of the romantic and cuddly type from what I've learnt over the years they do more for the girls and more caring.. they cherish women more often happy to hav someone usually have low self esteem issues like bigger girls so they are usually more shy and scared of rejection... these are from my life I can't agree or disagree with anyone else everyone is different I prefer chunky, skinny and "dad bellied" men though..

[meekayla]

ment 300 not 30 ooppss lol my bad

[meekayla]

bigger then me is to much I am a little on the big/chunky side... anorexic is to skinny feel like he's gonna break easily and like i'm screwing a skeleton with skin on it yuki lol

[lovemyindia]

Lmao

[lovemyindia]

Thanks for the reply

[meekayla]

anorexic is like screwing a skeleton with skin yuki, a big guy can have a big member but cuz of his stomach the female can not experience it completely it does get very fat but that's not enough for most girls they want some length too. you say ya got abbs never dated a dude with abbs it's hot unless it's to much like I see not an inch of fat pure muscle it's like to stiff hard I rather softer and squishier a guy with abbs and some love handles with an actual ass and is a gret man not just nice bod would be awesome to date never got one though lol... I rather a dude with some booty not looking like the dad from king of the hill lmfao... great* I can't go back and fix it for some reason my pc is a pain in the butt

[lovemyindia]

Okay you shared a lot , thank you!

[lovemyindia]

Would you mind if I follow you, your opinions are really funny to read.

[meekayla]

depends what you mean by funny... funy haha or funny how stupid they are to you? like are you laughing with me or at me here? lol

[lovemyindia]

No lol actually it was interesting to read , it was honest opinion for sure, but now I don't want to follow.

[meekayla]

whatever bro never asked ya to follow me hun... nobody has to follow me and vis versa got no problem with you changing your mind...

[meekayla]

so what changed your mind in like one minute? haha

[lovemyindia]

I was just checking how worse you could go but you are really dear

[lovemyindia]

I like teasing like this its irritating but I enjoy it

[meekayla]

youe my type of guy I like banter as long as neither takes it to far and turns it into a fight lol.. no problem. I am honest, opinionated, sarcastic at times but a am honestly really shy in real life and nice to everyone unless they did something bad to me or a loved one! rock on bro

[lovemyindia]

Bro?

[meekayla]

blue names are boys and girl names are girls on this sight correct? so you're a boy right? lol... you're not my boyfriend or hubby so I called you bro, dude and hun like I do most men I know or talk to unless I know there name/nick names of course hehe

[meekayla]

girl names are pink I ment dang it lmfao

[lovemyindia]

Okay you can call me bro, Anyways I don't have any sister. my name is avishek, Indian names are like this only

[meekayla]

oh ok cool

[StellaGreenEyes]

My last boyfriend was larger and I loved it. He’s also the largest (height/weight) man I’ve ever dated.

Super cuddly, always warm (I’m always cold), and I could “borrow” his clothes since they would fit over my boobs (which does NOT happen with skinnier men EVER). He was also very tall, so a gentle giant sort. He was the kindest and most considerate person I’ve ever dated. And the most selfless in bed.

Also, he was a hell of a lot nicer person then some other, more “fit” men I dated.

The only pitfall was that he hated how he looked so much. It really upset me that it bothered him so much, especially because, except for his health, I didn’t care about his weight at all.

[lovemyindia]

https://goo.gl/images/7Nc6g5

[Anonymous]

I actually prefer bigger guys (specifically dad bods) and here's some reasons why: (and no, I don't think they're universal - and obviously, I still value personality more)

1. ) They're very cuddly
2. ) Usually more reletable and laid back
3. ) I feel safe around them
4. ) They're usually more sympathetic
5. ) I feel like I can be more like myself around them

Are these traits found in other men? Absolutely - but I just have a thing for a dad bod.

[lovemyindia]

You really have some good reasons

[caramel-gal]

I don't find a guy with a big belly attractive at all whatsoever. This isn't a good sign of healthy man. Although, if I were with someone who didn't have a belly when I first met him and he begins to get a belly during the years we've been together I don't mind that. But just a little gut not an extremely protruding one. I wouldn't think a guy would have the physical ability to be intimate enough for my liking. But would make a great cuddle up guy, that's about it.

[freakyzeaky]

Take it from me, a big belly can work against a guy in the bedroom. Certain positions become more difficult and some even impossible if he is fat enough. A big belly is much different than the "dad bod" or a little bit of a gut.

Big women have similar issues, especially flexibility.

[ProductivePenguin]

I️ would date a guy with a a belly not fat but some belly is good for me. It’s cute and sexy

[ChronicThinker]

No. I'm not personally attracted to overweight guys. I understand almost everyone has a little bit of fat but there is a fair limit to everything.

[Junebug_]

If I am into his personality, then yes.

I don't know much about advantages, as I don't think about body type of the person I'm crushing on all that much, but I have heard that guys with a bigger stomach last longer in bed!

[lovemyindia]

Actually there is no correlation

[Junebug_]

Good thing it was a light hearted joke, then, amiright?

[lovemyindia]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't, because it's one of the few things I'm not attracted to. I've dated men who were shorter than me, "ugly" by traditional standards, and I regret absolutely nothing because their personalities were attractive. However obesity is not something I can get behind. I'm not attracted to it, and I also believe men who ARE overweight deserve to find someone who is equally attracted to them as they are to their partner. As a result I wouldn't make a good match for such a person.

[ferma]

I dont like it but dating depends more in personality than “a big belly” and it is a good pillow 😅 lol

[lovemyindia]

Yeah you can also puncture it by needle.

[ConfusedAF34]

I mean I guess it all depends on the guy himself. I’m more into people who workout a lot because I like to workout a lot

[lovemyindia]

Yeah , after few month of work out he can turn into desirable

[ConfusedAF34]

Totally

[KrisPW]

Depends on the guy, some awesome guys are fat and some nasty guys are fat. Belly alone would not make my decision for me.

[lovemyindia]

All guy with belly would be happy to read these replies lol

[bloodyrevenge]

I have. Looks aren't that important as long as they dont look like a potato. If a guy is nice and funny and there's a good connection a belly isn't gonna matter... But if he is obese to the point it causes health problems then id be concerned.

[Chickens_moo]

I can't say I would be attracted to him... he'd have to have a personality I prefer and even then... i prefer not... of course love is love and it's possible

[southerngirl88]

No, I couldn't do it. He doesn't have to have perfect flat abs, but if he doesn't take care of himself that's super unattractive to me.

[fauna642]

I'm fine with a bit of chub, but not an actual protruding stomach. Just a turn off for me personally.

[Rainie_]

I wouldn't, I've seen the health issues it has brought to my dad including very bad back problems.
Nor am I attracted to a big belly anyway.

[Anonymous]

no advantages i wouldn't or id get him on a diet if i do

[lovemyindia]

Okay

[PinkLotusLove]

if he's kind, honest, etc of course. No problem with a belly. I only fantasize of my "type" though

[Belorum]

My boyfriend has a belly (he isn't fat though) and I actually like it 😅 nice for cuddling 😁

[ambiek]

Yes, I actually prefer a bit of softness honestly. I not only love cuddling a lot more, but actually find it a bit attractive...

[potatoisme]

If he looks like he's on his second or third month of pregnancy it's fine. But "7th-9th month pregnant with twins" belly is a no no for me

[sadsith]

Yeah totally, as long as he's funny and sweet, personality can make guys sexier

[Lyddie]

It's better to love someone one for them not what they look like!

[anon08]

Kinda an immature pov..

[Lyddie]

@anon08

? I would rather date the ugliest but nicest guy in the world rather than a hot player who hurts me. I think it's terrible to question people based on looks sorry.

[anon08]

That whole outlook makes you look incredibly fake. Admit it or not, its human nature to judge people at face value. The pc approach will get you friends, but thats all.

[Lyddie]

@anon08
I'm not fake I've just been through a bunch of shit that eventually drilled that into my head that as people we need to at least try our hardest not to

[Anonymous]

Yeah, cuz I’m fat and it’s be hypocritical not to. That’s really the main reason. Being fit looks and feels better, and leads to better sex. Speaking from experience...

[bente2]

NO. I will date anyone (body wise) that isn’t chubby/fat/skinny. This would fall under chubby.