How to teach your new SO how to kiss you right?

[Horizons14]

Second date we kiss for first time. He proceeds to open his mouth as wide as he can; I felt like he was trying to swallow my face like a snake. I was turned off by this initially but I like him so I put in effort to control the kissing. Towards the end we finally got an enjoyable sync of our kisses and he sort of toned it down and seemed to enjoy my kissing because he moaned a little and later told me he isn’t used to kissing someone who is good at kissing. I need guidance on how to get him to adjust to my level of kissing without hurting his feelings.

[Anonymous]

1. Ask him close the eyes slowly when he comes closer
2. Ask him to gradually tilt his head a bit when he comes closer.
3. Ask him to come closer in a manner that you couldn't see his nose and he couldn'tsee yours making sure that his face is not tilted too much and his forehead comes closer to yours.
4. Don't​ open the mouth before you touch each other's lips with passion and enthusiasm. Try to feel each other's breaths and heartbeats.
5. As you open your mouth a bit ank him to slowly start sucking your lower lips.
6. While he sucks your lower lips, he should swipe your lips with his tongue at intervals.
7. Try exchanging lips if it gives you more pleasure and I am not going to tell how to use the hands.
Just make it sexier and enjoy.
Best of luck.

I am weak at English so I couldn't describe it as I wanted.

[Tuomaaash]

Just say what you like in kissing and ask him how he likes to kiss. You don´t need to say that he sucks at it atm, but just let him know what you prefer. Always worked for me at least. Every person is used to kissing a certain way, maybe because of what his/her ex liked, so he can´t change it unless he knows your preferrences :)

[XRabbitHeartX]

I think this is a case of practice makes perfect. The more you do it and show him through example how to do it right, the quicker he will adjust. If he starts opening his mouth again too wide then pull away a bit and whisper that he can close his mouth a bit more but then immediately kiss again so as not to make it awkward for him.

[lexythelou22]

It seems you handled it right. After awhile he'll automatically sync with you.

[QuentinMarques]

Hi, it's always a tricky one. Hard to find a good way to say it, though you definitely have to tell him.
If he's smart, he probably saw something was wrong and went to the internet in order to make it right. If he hasn't, help him smoothly: you kiss him, and if he does it the wrong way you say "shhhht, calm down", touching im and slowing your kiss. What I mean is the best way to tell him is actually to show him tenderly.

[Dim1213]

My advice is to talk with him. My ex did the same thing and pressed way to hard. I just told her the ones I liked best and what I liked and asked for some kinds of kisses. After a while she got the hints and really improved in how she kissed. Though still sometimes she would try to eat my face cause she enjoyed it.

[907doc]

Have an honest conversation with him, just be kind. Maybe it's because he likes it a certain way and you can maybe find a middle ground, maybe he's never had someone tell them how they really like it and he would be more than happy to accommodate 😉

[andreasderjuengere]

The beauty of life is its diversity. You are not comfortable with his kisses. Is he with yours? Just kiss more often and you two will find a geometric consensus.

[MrMilti]

Its all trial&error.
I like to just keep practicing until it is perfect, no matter how long it takes 😊

[livingtrust]

lmao! sounds like you've already succeeded. just carry on the way you are

[Sauron2099]

Ask him if he wants to be a better kisser and work with that.

[Naxwi]

A good kissing sesh is all I needed. He'll learn after some time.

[Raajk1995]

Just keep kissing when ever you find he is going to start like yoi said stop him and tell it's not good go soft and show some kissing videos.

[SirRexington]

Just keep kissing him. He'll pick it up eventually.

[Laggy]

You guide him, and he needs to listen. "He isn't used to someone good at kissing" means that he won't be offended if you give him tips.

[DanOh2018]

😂 lol uhh I dunno but it made me think of feeding my old pet lizard 🦎

[buga1savage]

I never actually kissed a girl like that in my life

[TonyShades]

You stop him and tell him to let you kiss him how you love being kissed... It always work for me

[Anonymous]

Yeah he has no experience, some women like soft kisses, others likes deep passionate kisses, he just has to follow your lead

[legendaryintrovert]

Nope. Google knows everything.

[SketchForger]

He'll learn... He might not be used to it.

[hotdoggy]

Ummm show him YouTube vids

[LastNightmare]

like you need to ask him to get tips from us

[Dredg]

Sit him down and walk him through it.