Do girls look desperate if they text first? (Page 8)

[breakone9r]

Depends on the guy. Just be you. If the dude don't like girls that do that, he's the one with the problem, and that's a good sign to move on instead of wasting your time with the loser.

[day_dreamer_68]

No not at all. But again it depends upon the way you speak. You can start a communication then wait for guy to respond and depend upon his replies you can decide next.

[gekkejeroen]

No definetly not some guys are really insecure and have trouble to start a conversation. So in my point of view its really normal to do it and more girls should do it

[kingofknights]

simple answer... No. I think mist guys would appreciate it.

[RahulKY97]

Nope... Its good to know people like you exist... Does not look you are desperate... So keep it up

[Tsusaki]

Yea my girlfriend doesn't do that and it arises questions in my head like if she is even interested or does she think about me or am i the one who has to always start coversation because i always do... yet with her guy bestfriend she would text first...

[libertyz]

I'm introverted. Whys does desperation have to be involved because you like someone?

[james_mark]

No do it girl! we want more girls to text first! haha

[king34]

i mean if i text first all the time i feel desperate too so u just gotta alternate fool

[Kevinnnn]

I don't think so.
Only when you text him all the time and he doesn't answer.

[lordrakster]

No? why would txting 1st be desperate. Don't wait, if you have time? text away!

[mT2359]

Br natural. Whatever a guy thinks about you is not your lookout.

[mT2359]

Be natural

[Capetoider]

If I were the guy you're texting I would think: awesome girl. I'm kinda shy and really dense...

[Saphu]

Does it really matter who texts first? :) feeling matters İ think)

[Bojit]

No it just means they are less annoying to deal with. I see that it indicates confidence.

[evilrainbow]

No they don’t. Sometimes girls shud also give a try

[Abiram26]

Nah, not desperate to me. I'd like that for sure (and I'm introverted) :)

[TheOpportunist]

I feel yoy

[sexualeducation]

Ridiculous, to anyone who thinks that way... mature.

[birdmonkey74]

No, they don't.

[sexualeducation]

Exactly what I'm saying.

[britpop]

No they shouldn't bit I think it's perceived that way

[nearly]

not at all. I have no idea why striking a conversation is frowned upon.

[RainbowDash_]

No it doesn’t make you look desperate and I agree with Solaris1987_

[tempos]

I think its cool when girls start and its allsoo my type😊

[gym4ever]

lol i hope my crush text me, probably would get stroke

[KurdishPower]

Just go up to her and tell her already. 100% rejection and you’ll get broken but you’ll grow back stronger

[gym4ever]

@KurdishPower way too scared, im moved to austria before 2 years and i dont understand 100% perfectly german so that thing stop me but anyway would get stroke if i talk to her

[skolmn]

Only if they text a nude pic. Other than that it doesn't look desperate.

[shashashanks]

In my opinion, no... not at all...

It actually attracts me as she is confident, courageous and straightforward.

[georger1]

I think the fact that you give a first message is a normal thing, we are all humans no matter if we are female or male. Besides, I find this sweet😁

[kokolomoj]

Not at all. I could even say that's retarded opinion.
I think those girls are more confident and realistic.

[Hector7314]

I think it's great, my ex and many others pursueded me and a few were really good women... So yes why not..

[colin77]

noting wrong if u text first it is sexy and it shows u are mature plus u like th guy but im certain situations u cud wait alittle while

[colin77]

i find u attractive u cud text me anytime

[AWESOME_KEV]

They said it all. You text him first after he probably showed interest just shows him you actually are interested

[ledfoot1964]

if both are interested in each other then it should not matter who texts first. but if you text its not as personal like a phone call is

[pdkansee]

Some of us like to see a girl take the initiative and make the first move or to start the conversation off.

[Danielsousa912]

Agreed

[Rwbur3]

No, you dont look desperate at all. I like it when a girl initiates a conversation. I think most guys do

[H8myloife]

Depends on what you begin your conversation with. I don't think it is an act of being desperate. Just go with your heart.

[cuddle69master]

Not at all me personally I think it is an incredible turn on when a girl knows what she wants and goes after it

[ladycrimson]

No. Do guys look desperate if they text first? No

[yodaiam]

Of course they do. The trick of the game is not to be the one who texts first. You want to establish the upper hand and the only way you do that is if you get them to text you back without having to text them first. You don't want them to ever know you're into them, cuz that gives them the upper hand.

[Frepklep]

If its about upper hand you'd better quit right away, relations ain't bout power but building up

[yodaiam]

People are actually big upping me. Men and women... if I quit right now... it'll be for other reasons

[ladycrimson]

It's supposed to be a relationship not a competition... if you're wanting the upper hand then I won't be interested mate.

[Frepklep]

^exactly

[yodaiam]

You guys are just upset over losing the upper hand

[siddvader333]

Not at all! I feel like. most guys love a girl who puts herself out there and will definitely appreciate it

[aboxofdonuts]

No, some of us are a bit dense and may need the girl to text first.
This does NOT make a girl seem desperate at all.

[jedkawil]

If a girl never chooses to text me first we probably won't work

[kanetay5]

Never.. Completely a turn on especially for the guy..

[ImGabriel]

Make the guy text first. If he doesn't he's not that interested in pursuing you.

[yaons]

No, would be nice if they did text first for a change.

[dannyjett]

Not at all, there are no rules. Go ahead and text first

[spacerX]

I would like it if a girl texts me first. It does not show that a girl is desperate.

[Glen68]

It's appreciated when a woman is direct and doesn't play games

[lsaac]

absolutely not. it will make the guy feel comfortable talking to you. :)

[whize1]

No honestly it's one of the most reassuring things they can do.

[PrinceNeo]

Hell no if anything it shows that you actually are interested

[PrinceNeo]

I'm betting the chick that disliked this is a girl who thinks that men should be the one to text first

[Sixgun77]

Not at all. People of both genders should text first of they're interested in someone.

[dominic_drago]

Yeah, they do. But so do guys when they text first. You be the ones to look desperate for a change.

[ThatGreekBoy]

No I don't believe so I think it shows interest and I find it cute when a girls really into you

[ItzPeter97]

No not at all, it shows they have an interest in him/her

[vashsoltek]

Someone has to make the first move why not it be you?

[Osama_cy]

if a girl texted me first I like her more I feel her love haha

[Handie_Man]

Hell no its not. It shows you want something, not desperate.

[Aliiiooo273]

I think it depends. What’d she text? How many times did she text?

[CORGICOLA]

no, not at all. If you wanna start a conversation then go for it

[Nahid1234]

No and i never met a girl that texts me first actually.

[Lisa-Zita]

yes, u should never text a guy u like 1st, u should always wait until he text u, than u will know for sure that he really likes u :-)

[Sfioui]

If you like him no problem, my ex was the first to text I liked her too but didn't know what to say at this point

[Fitness-Fanatic]

No. It's a sign of interest, not desperation.

[nikknitin]

I agree