@ciitruskiwi JEEEZ don't be so triggered. By the way I reported you for using abusive language at me. Good thing you are a mod, I'm reporting you to you.
Everyone can we please calm down and talk about their rationally? For heaven's sake. Although she is right. Sure could be worded better but at the end of the day she still has a point. You have no right to say that it's our nature to cook. Both men and women have to share that responsibility. And it's not just up to us women to take care of the household
Many many exceptions. Infact in my entire family like my uncle and aunt and my grandparents the guys are the cooks. Always. They enjoy cooking and that's why they do it.
Did you seriously just say that? Like really? Look, we're just trying to make you understand that no, it is not a woman's job to cook and that anyone can cook. I mean just look at Gordon Ramsay. The guy is a legend. And no, she isn't cooking for you. @Starfish123 stay on my side cause you know that I'm right.😊
Yes out of 7 billion people on this planet her family is the only exception 🙄. Do you even know what you're saying? For cooking to be in a woman's nature then we wouldn't need to LEARN how to cook. It would already be programmed into us but like every other skill it needs to be learned and some women don't care to learn it.
@Stellastarling I changed mind.. I'm not gonna delete my account. I want the Giftcard but i guarantee you, next year, you are cooking and you love cooking.
And I am going to tell you something as well. Only I decide if I want to cook or not cook. If I don't want to, then I won't. And I don't really enjoy cooking and so it's not something that I see myself doing even though it is a valuable asset to have. Also changing your mind is well.. just weak. Don't say things if you can't back them up.
If he’s asking Brussels curious than that is obviously fine! But if he is asking because he is sexist and thinks all girls are supposed to cook than that is rude
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No. Half the time when people get offended, they're coming up with some complicated meaning that was never stated. This seems like one of those times.
It doesn’t offend me. I’d rather he ask than just assume I can cook just because I have tits and a vagina.
I grew up with a dad who loves to cook and a mom who really sucks at it.
My boyfriend loves to cook, and I actually enjoy washing dishes.
I don't see why this question is offensive. It is important that he knows that I don't even know how to cook an egg.
It's a very valid question and should be fooled up by 'can you?' Since it's equally important to find out if you're dating a man or a boy.
That small percent that think it's clearly sexist... they're the ones that's sucked the fun out of everything they can.
After update: ... and we all learned something new about the opposite sex today.
MAKE. ME. MY. GOD. DAMN. SANDWICH!
... I'm not going to say it again... just go and do what you were born to do. Like I was for DYING IN WARS!!!
Not really offended but i never planned to be the “chef” of the house anyways. My boyfriend and i dont cook but we’d like to learn togethr
nah, but that response makes sense. roles work both ways.
so if a guy asks if you can cook, would that be your response?
if he's my boyfriend/potential partner, no. if he's just some random guy I would be confused as to why he would ask that.
👍😅 I even could build a house so anyone would appear a bit stupid with this response
what if it was a friend? or an acquaintance?
I don't have guy friends.
ok just hypothetically then? if you had a guy friend ask you that, how would you respond?
I would just say yes I guess
Nah. I am proud of my boiled egg skills, I'll happily discuss them!
Dont you just sit there and watch the egg boil. Thats like me saying look at how skillfully i let the paint dry
It depends on if we are just asking about things to get to know each other or if it’s like “can you cook? Well good go make me some fucking pasta” 😂
My 5yr old can make pata how is your gravy? Mmmmm... that's cooking
I can cook and supply electricity to a house being built.
Seems like a valid question for either party in a relationship. You can't eat out or order delivery every day and night...
A man asking a woman if she can cook is equivalent to a woman asking a guy if he has a job. Both are valid questions lol
Its not offensive at all.
If you are a women who is offended by this question, I will just remove the word "can" from the sentence.
That's the spirit
Nope cause I’m a damn good cook. I’m proud to tell people lol.
It's not offensive. A weird way to start a conversation but not offensive.
Women these days are easily offended.. they're now offended by their nature, they're supposed to cook but offended by it. Thanks feminism
Dude, we're not "supposed " to cook. It's just a skill. Just like if we can cook then you can clean. It works like that. Or vice versa.
Now THAT is offensive. Fuck off with this gender role crap. Its not our nature to cook. You probably don't even follow your own gender roles so stfu.
@ciitruskiwi JEEEZ don't be so triggered. By the way I reported you for using abusive language at me. Good thing you are a mod, I'm reporting you to you.
Everyone can we please calm down and talk about their rationally? For heaven's sake.
Although she is right. Sure could be worded better but at the end of the day she still has a point. You have no right to say that it's our nature to cook. Both men and women have to share that responsibility. And it's not just up to us women to take care of the household
@Stellastarling I bet the person who cooked your dinner last night was your mom. Well because she's the woman, so she likes to cook for her children.
No, it was my father. He cooks in our family. My mother doesn't cook at all. Almost never.
And even if she did cook that wouldn't change anything at all. There are plenty of father's and men who cook as well.
@Stellastarling oh okay. Well this is awkward... I suppose like they say. There's always an exception to the rule.
Bro you're just offended because @Stellastarling is right 😂
Many many exceptions. Infact in my entire family like my uncle and aunt and my grandparents the guys are the cooks. Always. They enjoy cooking and that's why they do it.
@Starfish123 what. Even you bro? Everyone is against me. Be on my side. I'll have the angry mod cook for us. 😀
Did you seriously just say that? Like really? Look, we're just trying to make you understand that no, it is not a woman's job to cook and that anyone can cook. I mean just look at Gordon Ramsay. The guy is a legend. And no, she isn't cooking for you. @Starfish123 stay on my side cause you know that I'm right.😊
You are reporting me to the admins not me and go ahead. You can swear freely on this site. Its not the first time I've done it.
@Stellastarling Your family is the only exception. I bet my gag account on it. If im proven wrong I'll delete my account.
@Stellastarling yup she's right. I'm not cooking for you 😂
Well then delete it. I already have people who I know who have parents in where the father cooks.
Yes out of 7 billion people on this planet her family is the only exception 🙄. Do you even know what you're saying? For cooking to be in a woman's nature then we wouldn't need to LEARN how to cook. It would already be programmed into us but like every other skill it needs to be learned and some women don't care to learn it.
Well my comment was removed @Stellasterling but, know that I am on your side 😁
Precisely. Like me, I have no clue how to cook. And I'm okay with that. At least for the moment. It's a skill, not a birth right.
@Starfish123 aww.. thank you.
@Stellastarling I changed mind.. I'm not gonna delete my account. I want the Giftcard but i guarantee you, next year, you are cooking and you love cooking.
@Starfish123 it's the angry mod that deleted your account.
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You don't know that. And what the hell is a mod?
And I am going to tell you something as well. Only I decide if I want to cook or not cook. If I don't want to, then I won't. And I don't really enjoy cooking and so it's not something that I see myself doing even though it is a valuable asset to have. Also changing your mind is well.. just weak. Don't say things if you can't back them up.
Preach Stella
@Starfish123 a moderator. And he's just messing with your mind. Why would she delete a comment that supports our cause?
@Starfish123 I didn't delete any comments. No point in deleting the comments of someone who is on our side. 🙂
Exactly my point.
What's his face is lying to the world. What a prick
Come let's all go eat some pizza or something and ignore him shall we?
I'm down! 🍕🍕🍕
I agree, pizza's better lol
@Starfish123 don't call me a prick. I called you bro and you turn your back against me. Just like one of those anime betrayals I watch. 😖
Awesome. Let's get an extra large one and share. Sorry bro, but you aren't getting any.
@Stellastarling it's okay. I'm used to being excluded because I like my pizza with pineapple
I just did call you a prick and you'll never be my bro if you treat women like shit
@Starfish123 I don't like you anymore
Never mind. We've made our point now and there is honestly no reason for us to continue this anymore. We're done.
Good. I never liked you in the first place 😂😂😂
Agreed. @Stellasterling
@Starfish123 just kidding I still like you
Gaaayyyyyy 😂
@Starfish123 I may look gay but I'm not. I meant I still like you as a bro.
I'm done. This is my last reply here.
So not the point anymore. Just stop.
Ah finally.
If he’s asking Brussels curious than that is obviously fine! But if he is asking because he is sexist and thinks all girls are supposed to cook than that is rude
I can cook, and it is not offensive to me because both me and my boyfriend can cook so no need for us to ask can you cook over and over.
Cooking is a skill so why would someone be offended? Oh these fragile people "Handle with caution"
Not offensive. Funny AF, can you build a house lmfao 😂