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Why do girls show lots of cleavage and then get pissed when guys look? (Page 2)
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I like the attention I get when my boobs are a bit out. But that doesn't mean obviously stare at my tits 🙄. Be a little sneaky. You say boys are taught to look, well girls are taught to be ashamed of their selves for that sort of thing so I don't blame her
They want attention. Like holy shitake mushrooms! That is a lot of skin in that picture. Not even my boyfriend sees all of that.
up they did a good job choosing it for this question. Proves my point right?
u might not be well familier with your boyfriend...
@CrazyThinker007 Because I choose to be discreet with my body and dress modestly, I must not be familiar with him? That is just not logical.
well sometimes u don't need logics. observations tells u more..
Oh yeah? Like what.
like how u say I love u... Either with emotions or not. eye contact. etc.. how much u worry about ur partner etc. .
True that. But we're talking about me and MY boyfriend. And he doesn't need to see everything. I know him just fine. Thank you.
i think he need to see every thing... ur statement is bit autocratic.
anyway... enjoy.
And he thinks otherwise. Believe me.
ok..
Mishthefish is right unless I wear a t shirt there’s cleavage. I should be able to wear a tank top in 100 degree heat and not get stared at constantly. Glances happen but staring come on. We were taught as children that’s rude yet as adults some forget
tbh, i dont think its unreasonable for guys to look. I mean its kinda weird when they stare for a super long time, but when girls wear super revealing shirts, its kinda inevitable.
Sneaking a glance should be fine, but 20 min nonstop staring is too far xD
They are basically doing this to themselves...
Yeah, i mean i can respect a womens wish for a guy not to stare while having a conversation, but if the goods are out there i will sneak a peek
Lolol
I know right? “My eyes are up here” *at the same time is showing entire boobs*
I’m straight and even id look at them
You would look at boobs... If exposed..
Why?😂
@guyuser2 just something that calls attention
Girls with big boobs can’t help it ,, any and every top shows cleavage
Ya but it's about class not about mass
They like the attention they just don't want to be labeled. Now girls who flaunt. Know they have assets to show but they are classy A. F. So it works
Na they are just classy posers
I … actually am not sure. I even accidentally stare, and it doesn't even entice me.
If women don't like that kind of reaction, then they shouldn't be wearing hot, sexy, attractive clothing like that.
If they want to continue on wearing that,... then that's exactly the kind of reaction they are going to get from guys.
Plain & simple.
Mine are huge, so they show whether I show cleavage or not lol. I don't really care if guys look as long as they don't touch.
As long is a casual look not an uncomfortable stare and not touching and no comments about it.
You are missing the point. They want the top 15-20% of guy to look, the rest is just nasty creeps staring at them 👍👏
As are most dudes who ask girls out that are not her type.
*top 1-2% of guys
Makes sense 👌
Yawn. . . I am willing to bet most women don't get pissed if they are intentionally showing cleavage. My ex had incredibly large breasts. And she was hardly the type to angry at men who stared. We joked about it often.
Attention seekers who want you to be accused of being creepy if you're not attractive and cute if you are attractive. It's a passive aggressive behaviour. You dont see guys with their dicks out walking around, EVERY girl would look.
they're not showing it for you. maybe their tits are just sweaty.
Lol, gross but funny.
@GetzRekt and accurate.
and oh cmon 2 guys who disliked! its not like girls are just gonna drop to their knees and suck your dick all the time!
I think it depends mostly on how long you look at them. If you flat out gaw at them in front of her for several seconds, you might get a bad response.
It could depend if its for a certain person too I guess.
She is wearing stuff because SHE thinks she looks cute, she doesn't want someone to say that for her since she didn't want it, if she thinks she looks cute then she's gonna wear it. These boys need to learn some decency because I don't think anyone was taught to look, I certainly wasn't. This whole thing matters with make-up as well.
Well there is cute and there is showing your chest off.
You aren't them so why do you get a say in what they wear that makes them feel cute
What's wrong with men finding her just as cute as she finds herself?
I get a say cause she is in public and I have an opinion. Would you call a bikini on a hot girl cute?
The thing is. You don't get a say. You don't own her. You aren't some ruler who decides things. She wears what she wants and if you don't like it or you don't like having a say in what she wears, go protest at a city hall or something
I get a say in how I react and when I talk to her. Man what are you a feminaxi?
O she dresses like a hooker at school go complain to the principle.
I'm really curious now & actually that's the whole root of issues, tell me, Who 'taught' you guys to look?
We're naturally drawn to beauty. Problem?
We're visual creatures. :P
Biology. How do you think a guy approaches a woman? He notices displays, she shows off certain parts that are sexualized and he takes that as a que. What I don't get is why you would do it in the first place and then pretend to not want the attention because its very easy not to show cleavage, men do it literally every day so their is absolutely no reason to show it unless you want some one to see it.
"Behaviours" are a part of social conditioning, they are learned, stop justifying it with 'biology', the asker mentioned "men are taught to stare" so I want to know who taught him & who teaches men & that he's supposed to answer.
The media silly it teaches us do much crap that is not normal.
My idiot friend acts like an anime character. Whenever something happens she over reacts like a boob.
Media also teaches to respect women, why only women, respect people, that men & women are equal, that you're supposed to treat women the way you want your daughter/sis to be treated, & why only them, the way you want yourself to be treated, it also teaches to be kind to animals, etc etc, why not learn all that? Why being selective? That's for a reason, right? People learn what they want to learn, so don't blame it like "I was taught", say it like "I learnt that & so that's my issue when I see reality different than what I assumed based on what I selected to learn".
Wow what are you watching girl. Cause Disney tells you to be awful to your sister and brother. Also with respecting women it makes men act like sissy nice guys who put the woman before themselves. Because of that men dont act manly and women always win when there is a contest. Cause the guys want the woman's favor.
Also you do not want guys testing girls like theey are thier daughters man that would be so clingy and creepy.
You're absolutely right. But then Miley Cyrus dancing on stage and jerking off with a giant dildo isn't much of a positive role model.
What? Learned? That is the most absurd thing I have ever heard in my life. We see behaviors that occur in infants that are too young to learn anything, behaviors that stretch across the primate families and are found in our closest relatives (chimps). One strand of our DNA is a meter long (collectively over 93,000,000 miles if you count all our DNA in every cell), and your going to claim that its just there, and has no impact on behavior even though we know that behaviors are found within genders, within species, within families (again like primates), many occurring in infancy and your going to say its all learned? That we have brain structural differences that have been well recorded, and hormones which we have known influences behaviors since the 1800s (the first experiment of which removed the testicals of roosters at which point they had less pronounced male behavior then when they where transplanted back returned to its normal male behavior) and none of that affects behavior?
Your living in a fantasy world. I mean women check out and ogle men and grope men all the time, we just don't say anything because women get a free pass in what ever they do (that's why statistically women are far more likely to be abusive, are equally likely to rape, more likely to harm children, yet get shorter and less harsh sentences on the rare occasion that they are sentenced at all). So this idea that men are the purpetrators of this and women are innocent victims is just absurd and laughable.
@hellionthesagereborn Sensible comments that exposes sexist/feminist hypocrisy. Women like that should do better in a nunnery, where they can dance in the nude safely away from the prying eyes of men. 😂😂😂
I feel like they get pissed because they feel like they can't wear what they want without being harassed about it like I personally feel we should be able to wear whatever we want without being stared at and shit I don't know I know it makes me uncomfortable sometimes like sometimes I just want to dress like that for myself because I'm feeling confident and I shouldn't have to worry about guys staring at my tits
So hot guys should be able to go shirtless and not have girls stare also then. But it does not happen either.
If being stared at is being harassed then I don't know what society's coming too. As a guy, if I ace my shirt off (or even if people look at or complement my arms when I'm wearing one) I'm like 'hell yeah,' I know I look good. I'm not being harassed, people are acknowledging that I'm attractive.
Now what if an ugly girl was eyeing you. Getting close and looking? Would you be harassed or would she need to say something or touch you for it to be harrased?
Maybe you will be harassed when she forces you to have sex at knife point.
But I agree we should be able to go shirtless and not have girls stare but they harass us with thier eyes and words.
Touching me would be crossing the line of social acceptability but I wouldn't consider it harassment lmao
If you find being looked at as harassment (especially as a man) then you have really thin skin
They want attention, but don't liked being looked at like a slut. It just odd, because they don't understand if you dress like one you must be one:)
They dont understand perception of others.