Does this make me a bad person, to never catch feelings for someone? (Page 2)

[ZanyInternetName]

Doesn't sound like a bad person but like your run of the mill autists and/or /b/tard. Actually, that does sound pretty bad.

[shinensta]

I don't think that anything is wrong with you. You are so young still you may just not have met the right person for you yet.

[Ellie-V]

Nope. As long as you’re honest with your partner, you are in the clear. You’re not bad for not being emotionally available.

[depeche2015]

you're still young, you're bound to catch feelings for someone and fall in love. most people these days don't find love until their mid 20's or 30's.

[greeneggo]

There could be something wrong with you but it doesn't make you a bad person.

What do you enjoy doing?

Do you like kissing?

Do you have any enjoyment hanging out with a bf/gf? Like joking around or laughing with them?

[Anonymous]

You are most likely a psychopath, not in the sense that you are insane, but on that, as the word actually means, you cannot feel emotion and attachment in the same fashion that most humans would.

You could also have an attachment disorder, possibly caused by emotional or another form of abuse.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

You're an Aromantic, I think they make a pretty big deal about how different they are in some myTake in this site I don't know never read it.

[MindTime]

I think you just haven't felt a deeper connection with one yet. I think if you're honest about how you feel with your boyfriends, that's the important thing.

[Blackbrowny]

Dont worry its gonna happen some day... took a while for me too.

[SlimThickJeezus]

I wouldn't say there's anything wrong with you because everyone defines love differently but it seems like you don't know the difference between it and lust. Best of luck working through it

[BJHR1983]

I was fairly similar, didn't believe in love, believed sex was for pleasure and procreation. When I did eventually fall in love at age 29 it was an amazing surprise. Enjoy your youth, it will happen

[zeronura]

Well being emotionally inert is kinda normal, but it doesn't make someone a bad person per say.
People who just put up a facade just to get in bed with people are much worse in my opinion.

[Bear41]

Well no it doesn't. You can create feelings that you simply don't have. I have fallen and been hurt by it in the past but lately I haven't had feelings for anyone.

[karthikjeevan]

Yup if ur in a relationship den having y do u have sex with other guys?
Same happened in my life too like it happened unexpectedly🤦

[karthikjeevan]

Never lose a person who loves u badly!!! It's a big mistake.
If u dont wana be in a relationship jus tell him this is me never keep deep feelings on me..
Both off u will never gave a problem or any sad endings like breakups!!!

[virendra1234]

U should decide what kind of relationship u want.
For love u must have feeling.
But for casual relationship it doesn't require.
So don't confuse casual with love. it will be all fine.
U Wil get feeling when u get some one u love

[Jake2190]

More information needed. Not Enough to pinpoint cause. Sry. Glad to hear you like to be owned in bed. That's a good girl.

[PetrovaFire92]

It sounds like she doesn't have any feelings... like sociopath...🙄

[TomasLyy]

"To never catch feelings" Are you British lmao?
I could never take a British being rude seriously you guys are just too polite. Don't worry about it

[HereIbe]

JUST BE HONEST! Really, that's it. Be honest that you just want a regular fuck partner so you can both bareback without STD risk. If that's who you are, be honest about it, and you'll be just fine.

[philly509]

Ok have you had like really good sex like you are bagging to stop cause you can't orgasm any more. Do you have a high sex drive caz i think the guy that can give you that is the guy that will catch your eye

[Bluedream13]

Makes you bad that you date for sex only. Almost everyone does tho at least ur honest