Why do girls intentionally not speak to the guy they're interested in/crushing on? (Page 2)

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It's one of the things that really gives them away. A lot of females have this ridiculous thing in their heads where they can't or actually WON'T talk to the guy they're crushing on or attracted to. Some I know in real life have even admitted that they themselves do this, and I myself have been a 'victim' of it at times, you could say. Later on I figure out that she's the only one in the group who won't speak to me because she actually has a thing for me. Some females will try to say that if a woman isn't talking to the guy then it really does mean she's not interested, but it doesn't add up if you all in the group know each other and talk and are friendly, so why isn't she the same way with you? And why does she bother to watch you when she thinks you don't know it? You know what's going on more than she thinks you do. I just find this to be really ridiculous and something women should've grown out of in highschool but I'm noticing this going on with ones my own age! NOTE: This is a REPOST because the original question was somehow only set to letting just guys answer which I did not do.

Reenayt · Answer

It depens if I want to be his girlfriend or not. But most of the time I talk to the guy I am intrested in. If not I will never find out if they like me or not

blubblubblub · Answer

i just don't wanna come of as too eager and obsessive, cos i feel like they can already tell im paying extra attention to them so i try to play it cool and act like idc

Maribells · Answer

I've told guys I've liked them before but not after ignoring a little bit. Because I'm deciding if I should telll him or not, if it's a good idea, what if it back fires, I'm not ready yet and hundreds of other overthinking ideas.

weasley8 · Answer

I don’t because I’m ridiculously shy and know that I will forget how to speak English as soon as we make eye contact. But I don’t think that’s the case with most people.

Leeda · Answer

I talk to everyone... even when I have a crush... even when I am a girl... they are just afraid they will embarass themselves or they are too shy and nervous or both

melanieeeB · Answer

They fear rejecting and humiliation, also I personally believe insecurity is a big part of it

Darknut · Answer

This same thing happened to me! She stopped talking and blocked me but later on say like a year later askes me things about stuff I talked about then.

dylanrhodes · Answer

She's interested. Talk to her. You can't go wrong just hanging out with her, unless she bends over and you trip and break your boner on the ground.

BleachLovesMe · Answer

We are just being shy, and sometimes afraid of getting rejected.

depeche2015 · Answer

i did. he pushed me away and ignored me. i gave all i could to him as well.

LadyJade007 · Answer

Becuz we get shy and might embarrass ourselves in front of our crushes. If we become talkative to them, they might think that we’re annoying and clingy. And some girls aren’t like that. Some have confidence to talk to their crushes cuz everyone is different

Anonymous · Answer

For me personally its because I have mad anxiety especially around people I like and I'm afraid if I talk to them I'll say something really embarrassing and weird. So I avoid putting myself in that situation.

bubble_tea · Answer

I do that intentionally, because I know I shouldn't fall for him. I already feel an attraction, I don't need a crush too.

Ailaw22 · Answer

Apparently they feel the same things fear of rejection , embarrassment but they have option not to act , whereas in our case put your insecurity sideways and gameup that's the only option if you feel same

StickStickity13 · Answer

Let them self sabotage themselves, it's not our problem.

RuthAnn1781 · Answer

So they don't seem desperate I guess. It's pretty dumb, but whatever

naijagurl · Answer

I get super nervous when I’m around the guy I like and when I get nervous, I say the stupidest things. I think a lot of girls prefer to just avoid the guys they like for a while out of fear of embarrassment if they misspeak.

CLW1992 · Answer

I'm guilty of this. For me, it's because I'm just insecure. I'm used to guys going for my friends instead of me so I dont put myself out there because I feel that its safer not to

Eclipse101 · Answer

This is a good question. I have to agree. Girls just don't approach guys for some reasons. I can only tell for myself. For me, I am a bit afraid of rejection and too shy.

Shagun15 · Answer

I think you must be talking about Indian Girls. Generally, we do not express our love because of few reasons 1) Fear to lose family, 2) Fear thay the guy will just want to satisfy his needs and will left her at the time when she will be in love deeply with the guy and lastly 3) Girls think that it will create a neative image in the mind of her partner. Basically, in India girls think for the world before their wishes.

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