Why do girls intentionally not speak to the guy they're interested in/crushing on? (Page 2)

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It's one of the things that really gives them away. A lot of females have this ridiculous thing in their heads where they can't or actually WON'T talk to the guy they're crushing on or attracted to. Some I know in real life have even admitted that they themselves do this, and I myself have been a 'victim' of it at times, you could say. Later on I figure out that she's the only one in the group who won't speak to me because she actually has a thing for me. Some females will try to say that if a woman isn't talking to the guy then it really does mean she's not interested, but it doesn't add up if you all in the group know each other and talk and are friendly, so why isn't she the same way with you? And why does she bother to watch you when she thinks you don't know it? You know what's going on more than she thinks you do. I just find this to be really ridiculous and something women should've grown out of in highschool but I'm noticing this going on with ones my own age! NOTE: This is a REPOST because the original question was somehow only set to letting just guys answer which I did not do.

Silver_Knight · Answer

They may be nervous that they may goof up. They may be afraid that they’ll be rejected. They may be wondering what us guys would say.

karahiri · Answer

might be because we don't want our feelings to be so transparent.

Abbyprecious · Answer

I have done this it's an ego kinda thing but I don't ignore the guy completely. I feel like if guys know you like them they act as if u ain't shit but deep down they like the fact that u crushing on them.

Anonymous · Answer

Im a shy asf girl, i am scared of screwing up and am awkward...

dianeroase · Answer

Some guys act like they don't care so females are shy n hold back feelings

JustMeea · Answer

Actually im the shy type but i will try on social media or so! But again over thinking got me so hard sometimes that im just scared..

lydiahtml · Answer

Hahahhaahahhahshsa that's a lie. 😂😂😂 Bitch I try to talk to my crushes as much as I can. But for other girls, I think they're either shy, or don't want to chance it being obvious.

Celq532 · Answer

Lol it's not that hard to understand some of these girls can be sacred and not have the confidence. Not everyone is the same. Not that hard to figure out.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Because they want to be chased, not do the chasing themselves, per evolutionary biology. Same as why we want to kiss/cuddle/fuck every single pretty/hot girl we see, all the time, everywhere we go.

ericclayton · Answer

They are a lot shyer, a lot less confident, and usually expect the man to pick up on their body language and make the first move.

qwesto · Answer

Stop it ladies cause I dumb on picking up the signs... Take a chance

Kaylee12 · Answer

Maybe cuz they’re nervous to do something that will embarrass them or show you that they like you

Jan_Classic · Answer

If she's not talking to her crush she's just shy. It's cool in case her crush does not give 2 fks

kmay12 · Answer

Some girls would rather keep quiet than embarrass themselves in front of the guy they like by saying the wrong thing. Also some girls dont have a lot of self confidence like other people do.

Derrick_hovic · Answer

Women feel is the duty of the man to make the first move, and truly it is, women who make the first move mostly end up with a guy that doesn't feel the same cos it makes them feel cheap and easy...

Burgerboy21 · Answer

They expect you to be the approacher? Or they're shy?

blue0989 · Answer

Fear of embarrassment. Plain and simple. I dont want to say anything stupid and ruin my chances

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

Probably cause they're shy and they think that they'll say something stupid...

Audacus · Answer

This is something I would have pulled in middle school

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Is this just your way of convincing yourself the problem isn't you? I've never had that problem before... Id be more inclined to think they don't talk to someone because they don't like them

TomasLyy · Answer

I dont think when women shun you or ignore you it means they like you my guy lmao

Emmdk · Answer

Because I'm scared I'll embarrass myself or act like a fool 😂

DamnMan · Answer

Honestly trying to figure out the female mindset is not worth it.  If she isn’t talking to you then you have no reason to care.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Either I feel shy around him. He doesn't talk to me. I haven't found what to say.

Lgmswolf024 · Answer

Because we're shy, but I'm much more comfortable with my crush now

pizzaman123 · Answer

U r 31 but if it was me and I was a female I would do this I would bump into him say imsorry and act like u got hurt orshow him a leg or something else cuz u r a female at 31?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, they are too excited and moist to talk with us.

geminiboner · Answer

Get mad dude I used to do it all the time some people say I'd conference and was maybe a little too direct at times but we talk we don't talk maybe we believe we're not worthy who knows who cares.

JenniferAllen · Answer

Every person is different. Everyone can not talk freely. Some people are desperate. some are social

LegateLanius · Answer

I dunno. I've been devoid of women wanting anything to do with me for the most part.

MiaIsSad · Answer

I do it sometimes but its due to shyness. I always want to but I'm scared I'll stutter and make a fool of myself

dontgofalling · Answer

Well men do that too buddy, if she won't talk, you talk

aialex · Answer

I don't know. I'm wondering the same thing.

BronzedAdonis · Answer

playing hard to get, too lazy/proud to make the 1st move

what_is_life_really · Answer

I don't know I mean it only makes it more obvious

sissyboy234 · Answer

I don't think this is universally true. Some girls are very forwars

HereIbe · Answer

Because they're stupid, of course.

Ellie-V · Answer

It’s called being shy.

TuMeManques · Answer

For me it's because I was deathly shy!!!

godamn · Answer

Cuz they act tough to get

Anonymous · Answer

Shyness I think more than anything else.

Anonymous · Answer

I have plenty of times. He ignores me.

ultimega · Answer

Worried about being rejected

marilynmansonssextoy · Answer

They're nervous xx ~ Mrs Manson

winterfox10 · Answer

To avoid looking foolish.

Bornetwobee · Answer

Social anxiety 😞

Jackieboi · Answer

Guys do it too, just as often

GayHowellMeme · Answer

They don’t need to. Men should speak to them first

Anonymous · Answer

Im a chatterbox!

TheNephilim · Answer

Afraid of rejection

JellyDonutguy96 · Answer

lord only knows

chad996 · Answer

They want men chasing THEM

Ridah1273 · Answer

U re right

Tyrantden · Answer

I only know it's a turn off when true.

airylnovatech · Answer

They're shy.

Rashad · Answer

Because they are shy

shaheenamir · Answer

Thanks

Ionlyeatramen · Answer

YES.

ninjafemme · Answer

probably shy

Nicole812 · Answer

Embarrassed

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