Girls, would you like it if your man buys you expensive jewelry?

[msg812]

Would you like it, if your man buys you an expensive jewellry or do you like more humble gifts?

I'd like it

I wouldn't

Updates

+1 y

I forgot adding "for you" at the end of the question. I meant "Girls, would you like it if your man buys you expensive jewelry for you?"

[jellyroo]

If someone I loved genuinely offered me jewelry, I'd cherish it regardless. That said, I'd prefer something personal. Flowers and jewlery are the stereotypical gifts, which personally don't work that well for me.

[Pinky_what_why]

tbh I don't want an expensive gift I want a gift that will show me u care and u listen to me u don't need an expensive gift to do that but hey that's me

[Nxtawm]

I'd be happy with it BUT there are certain factors that go into this. First, I have to have been dating them for a while. I'd find it very uncomfortable if in the first few dates or few months of dating, that he's already busting out the expensive jewelry. That and I just don't feel very comfortable with gifts in the first place, like flowers are fine but expensive jewelry is different. And it can't be a lot either, only a couple things here and there.

Honestly I'd be happier if I got to have a awesome experience in a date and make wonderful memories with them. I'd be grateful for expensive jewelry but simple jewelry with memories are better. It's more about the thought and less about the cost. Unless you're some rich guy, expensive jewelry is only for special occasions in my case like maybe an anniversary or proposal or birthday.

[Prettygurl12]

The only expensive jewelry I wanted was my wedding set. Which kind of shows that he listens to me since I picked it out lmao

I don't wear jewelry other than my wedding set and the other ring he got me for Christmas.

[msg812]

I bet you were a very beautiful bride at your wedding day;)

[Prettygurl12]

I certainly hope so lmao

[msg812]

Isn't woman in your profile pic you?

[Prettygurl12]

Yes, that's me.

[msg812]

Then, you look like a very beautiful bride who carries her bridal perfectly by means of her tall and great body :)

[thisbutterfly81]

I don’t want to say I wouldn’t but I don’t want to say I’d like it. I don’t need it but if he did I would appreciate and love the item. I’m not into jewelry tho but I’d wear it every chance I got. I just like to invest in experiences rather than items.

[princessfromjupiter]

I tend to lose all my jewelry after a while, so while I don’t wear “fashion jewelry” made from cheap metals it doesn’t have to be from Tiffany’s either, that would be like a waste on someone like me 😂

[msg812]

what if you didn't tend to lose your jewelries?

[princessfromjupiter]

I probably still wouldn’t like it unless we were married because it would mean that I’d have to buy him something expensive when the opportunity comes up too.

[msg812]

then, if your future husband buys you an expensive jewellry, you will like it. right?:)

[princessfromjupiter]

Yeah but i'd still stress over what to buy him to make up for it

[princessfromjupiter]

though a husband or wife would probably be the only person I'd be comfortable actually owing something to

[msg812]

I don't think someone should feel owing to his/her husand/wife, when s/he buys something for him/her

[princessfromjupiter]

I do.

[Leimarie]

Yes, if we have been together for a long time, but no if we were just getting acquainted. I don’t want a man to feel like he has to spend a lot on me just to buy my love and attention.

[Leimarie]

Just adding I would hope that whatever the gift was would be well within his budget. I don’t want a man to go broke or in debt over me.

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

I'd like it but only if we'd be dating... at least 6 months or it was a birthday or Christmas. I really do love well made, beautiful jewellery but for the most part my mantra is "If a $30 and $10,000 piece of jewellery look the same but the $30 might not last as long, just buy 3 in case it breaks and spend the rest on something else"

[sunsweet]

Its usually a waste of money, but I like the thought of getting a few in my life. The fact that someone saved up for you is very sweet, it's like when I got my boyfriend a 2,000 art tablet. I was an "I love you this much gesture." I dont expect these things though, I'm too practical.

[sunflower569]

It’s tough to say. For a big anniversary it’s a safe gift. It also depends on how long you’ve been together. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and he got me a diamond necklace. Jewelry means commitment. If you aren’t looking to stay together for a long time/forever, buying nice jewelry will send the wrong signals. I like doing things together rather than gifts in general.

[JoyKJ7]

I don’t really need it. If it’s an engagement ring ok or a simple bracelet but some tacky over blinged thing? Please don’t, I don’t wanna seem ungrateful by never wearing it

[sassygirl13]

I keep all gifts. I wear it more often if it's expensive so I won't feel like he wasted his money but I tend to use all gifts.

[Itsonlyme2]

It's the thought that counts and the little things that matters honestly for me yes I notice the little gestures

[TheHillsRAlive]

I save it for our kids. My husbands Mom is always giving me her heirlooms for our kids... I think I would like to be able to do the same for my kids and their spouses

[CarpetDenim]

I mean of course I’d be appreciative and I’d like any kind of gift I receive from him, but I would also be a little mad he spent so much money on me.

[Clo917]

I don’t wear jewelry so no, I’d rather spend the money on something we can both enjoy that’ll create memories.

[Taylor_C]

I would wear it to gala nights and various posh occasions.

[petitefitbody]

I would appreciate it. But not for everyday tho, it is okay for special occasion like bdays etc.

[Shimy]

I'd appreciate it of course, but I don't need expensive gifts. He could just buy me sushis or chocolate and make me the happiest girl

[Kenni]

It's not unpleasant even though it'd make me uncomfortable , but I'd rather he didn't do that. I want him to save up for himself and his future

[inmensus]

I chose "I wouldn't" but I guess I'd appreciate it. I just don't like expensive things, especially not jewelry. It's a waste of money, and unnecessary.

[LMNOP123]

Doesn't matter. If he does cool. If he doesn't that's cool too.

[naijagurl]

I would definitely appreciate it but there are plenty of cheaper things that I’d prefer. I’ve never been too big on expensive jewelry. As long as it looks nice and not tacky, I’ll wear it.

[spunkygiraffe]

I would think it was a sweet gift, but I wouldn't wear it, I would be worried about damaging it or losing it!

[EarthFairy7]

I hate expensive things but if someone got it for me I'd be grateful

[Trista31]

I don't want expensive gifts. I want useful gifts that require more thought.

[Soccerlover01]

I’d like it and be grateful but it isn’t necessary to me
I like the simple and little things
It doesn’t have to be expensive to make me happy

[alice55]

I'd like it, I like expensive stuff so

[msg812]

You are a high maintenance girl :)

[alice55]

Not really I rarely buy expensive stuff but I do like them, I can live without them even if i do enjoy them ^-^

[msg812]

I love the last thing that you put at the end of your sentence. I imagine a very cute anime girl, whenever I see it :)

[alice55]

Thank you, it's really nice, I like it too, it been years I used it ^-^

[msg812]

Do you like watching anime?

[alice55]

I like it yes :)

[msg812]

I think that is the reason why you like it:))

[alice55]

Surely ^-^

[msg812]

Awwww how cute ^-^

[alice55]

Thanks ^-^

[lunaEclipsexx]

I don't like people spending money on me. My limit is a bar of chocolate. I don't know why.

[Lexachip]

Not a fan of expensive jewelry. Not worth it.

[kcahill_]

Fricken duh!

[msg812]

Does that mean "obviously"?

[kcahill_]

Yes lol

[msg812]

OK English is not my native, sorry.

[kcahill_]

It’s ok! :)

[TacosRAwesome]

I dont mind it but I'm not really into jewellery.