Does she like me and if so how do I ask her to hang out with me alone?

[Anonymous]

So there is this one girl in one,in one of my lectures. I talked to her once briefly in class and that was it. So a few weeks ago a buddy of mine formed a study group for our exam and she was in it. So right from when we meet that day we, got into a conversation. Her best friend was also there but instead she got into a conversation with me from the start, and through out the time we also got into other discussions on ideas and political view and we are very similar. So this guy in my study group gets a call from his mom, and this girl is friends with him for a while, so she was teasing him by saying stop partying and start studying, so his parents will hear it. I am kind of guy who speaks my mind, so I said " I hate when people do that" and went on to say, a friend of mine who is a girl once made inappropriate comments when I was talking to my girl friend and it eventually lead to our break up. So she went on to say that might make her jealous too. But than she came back to the topic and asked me how long ago this happened? and she followed by asking if I was seeing any one know? Too which I responded no, and said I am focusing on school. So this lead me to believe that she might like me.The next day we meet up to study again and to of us came early so we went for lunch. So that time she, mentioned she could not get any studying done last night, because she was texting this one guy who she is seeing (in a very casual tone). but during the lunch she was very engaged in the conversation, where as I was being slightly aloof intentionality. So yesterday I saw her in school and I asked if she was free after class today so we can hang out and she said she has a class right after ours, so I asked her if she was free next week after class which she said she was (in a very relaxed way). Today I did not go to class because I was sick. So I asked her on chat what happened and she was like yes I noticed you were not there. Than we went on to talk about music and other stuff we enjoy. towards end of the convo I asked her if were still on for Tuesday and she said "u can have lunch with us we got a break so your welcome to eat with us". I was hoping it would be just us.When said we, I think she referred to a friend of her who she always hangs out with after that class. So I need advice on 2 things could she be interested in me (considering she is seeing some one else), if so how can I ask her to hang out with me with out her friends around.

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I also asked one of her guy friends, about her and he said that he thinks she is starting to see some one, but if I liked her I should go for her.

[mlink824]

if she just starrted seeing this guys, you should indeed go for it. Its better though to go for her while her feelings aren't as strong for this guy. But from whaat you described.. It seems as though she may not be as interested as you think. I think she is just being nice and sees you as a friend in what not but lunch is definite friend zone. And you need her number. get her number so you can text/call her and see if she contacts you back the next day. If she does contact you, that means that she may have a slightttt interest. But the fact that you don't have her number and it has already been a few weeks... you need to get on that ! if you already do, don't even mind that :) but you also don't want to come on as too interested either. If she says she's busy, respect it.. don't keep on asking her for a day to hang out. You want to wait a few days after she declined your offer to make a new one.. You want to be that guy that she thinks is a catch.. one that is hard to get in a way. Girls love mystery's, especially a mysterious guy. After you get the hook, or the "im interested in you" from her, you can be whatever you want to be. But in the beginning, you gotttaa play hard to get

[Asker]

I have a number, and I texted her for Christmas, and she respond back, but that was it, I did not carry it on. Should I decline going for lunch with her friends? What do you think my next move should be?

[mlink824]

no you should go to lunch ! any hanging out with her will do you good. But if it is with her friends, maybe you should bring along a friend? Maybe go alone and then ask her to do something later or that night when your alone with her. At this stage though, it is better to be flirty and funny rather than more of the serious trying to get you type stage. The best would try to do something with her beforee lunch maybe, like call her up and ask her if she wants to do somthing with you tonight

[mlink824]

or maybe this weekend. Then at lunch you guys will have more to talk about and what not. If she says like no or yes and then bails, I would start getting a little more low key cause you don't want to make it seem like to her yor too interested. She can probably tell that you are so its only going to be a matter of time to see if she says something. If not, I would just play it down low for a while unitll she makes or brings up conversation to you

[sweetdelight]

by asking you if you are seeing anyone, she's flirting with u. so I would say yes, she's probably interested in u