Why do people willingly put themselves in difficult situations and then complain? (Page 2)

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For those of you who know, I have a narcissist series where I talk about growing up with a narcissist and dealing with abuse by my mother. Which, I intend to finish eventually. For reasons I won't be specific about, I had to get into contact with my narcissistic mother. I saw her today and she spent the entire time bitching about how awful her life is because she continues to raise my 30-something-year-old brother who refuses to work. She won't kick him out, won't force him to get a job, won't make him do ANYTHING for himself, yet she tries to not only complain to me about it but also tries to imply she's in a bad financial situation since she had to support me AS A CHILD. I pretty much ended it there, but it does beg the question to me why some people (narcissist or not) put themselves in a situation and then bitch about it.

genericname85 · Answer

cause complaining is easier than actually doing something, i guess.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Maybe we're all narcissistic and we're all unaware and blissfully blinded by our own assholerly.

SarahsSummer · Answer

People love the blame game

Anonymous · Answer

Women love doing this, they enjoy having something to complain about constantly

jimmy2 · Answer

Well in this case its family. She needs to learn tough love. I feel for you but just move on

monkeynutts · Answer

Life is pure punishment for some.

MarioXx · Answer

They're called hypochondriacs. Look it up.

Lovelygirl420 · Answer

You seem more narcissistic than mom

ariadneR · Answer

nothing better to do, and its sad and pathetic tbh

apple24 · Answer

your MOM IS A CRAZY BITCH.

Poormanscomedian · Answer

You in Canada? can't remember

Golden-Thread · Answer

No idea, always try to act they r saint.

WhereAmI · Answer

It’s her baby boy! 🐥🐥🐥

valualty · Answer

Do now think later tendencies

Glen68 · Answer

They just like playing the victim

dy8alexUk · Answer

Not a clue

Anonymous · Answer

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