Why do so many average women waste their prime years on the c*ck riding carousel being pumped &dumped by high quality guys?

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

[ManOnFire]

It's a common problem, yeah. For some reason so many females tie sexual excitement and false ideas of manliness to bad ass behavior, while viewing men who are not that way as less masculine, less fun, or even thinking he isn't good in bed. And, yeah, they do later on start wanting that decent man after they've been used up enough by badasses.

I guess the thing is, is that it's always gonna take them having to be used up to realize that badness doesn't make a man be a man. And that you don't deserve to have a good man after you scorned them.

[Anonymous]

Females have the mentality of children, so when they are young they never think about the consequences of their actions, and they never look past the moment. ("Girls just wanna have fun") Society also doesn't hold them accountable for their actions or choices.
So until they hit the wall where society doesn't bow to them for being "pretty"... they never think about long term or future.
Then when they do hit the wall they look for the first desperate cuck they can find to be their moral janitor and get them through the rest of life.

[datgirl]

Why is that such a big deal? Guys do the same exact thing. They fuck around and party and after they are done with that phase they go searching for a nice little lady to settle down with. Yet only women are criticized for it? No. That makes zero sense so stop complaining.

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

Hey that's what women want. Women don't want no 25 year old virgin.

[datgirl]

Yea, so? Women are allowed preferences. Don't be better cause you ain't getting any.

[datgirl]

Bitter*

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

I'm getting plenty. Don't by bitter because men have their own preferences that you rarely meet.

[datgirl]

Yea in your dreams buddy😘

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

In your dreams doll🥒

[ManOnFire]

@datgirl I think the difference is that when those guys are ready to settle down, they're just ready to settle down, regardless of who or what a woman is. Guys generally don't get to a place of wanting to settle down but whining about how they "can't find a good woman." That's what women do, and these women who spent a lot of years sleeping with badasses come to a place of wanting to settle down and have the "good men" that they scorned before and now complain about not being able to find. And honestly don't deserve them after all that.

That's the difference.

[datgirl]

@ManOnFire i dont see the difference... young men chase after the hot, promiscuous, party animals and ignore the sweet smart girls. Then when they're done with that phase they don't like those party animals anymore cause they're not serious about commitment or faithful so they go chasing after the girls they ignored when they were younger.

[ManOnFire]

@datgirl I think plenty of those guys like the smart, sweet girls too and would enjoy having sex with them just as much as with the party girl. But often times those guys don't try anything with the smart, sweet girls because they think she won't be into him. But you never - or rarely - have a situation where those guys suddenly decided they wanted the good girls after enough of the bad girls. Men have played with bad girls, but they also do like good girls. Women - no, sorry, I mean girls - like playing with badasses while they think good guys are no fun or won't be sexually exciting.

Again, that is the difference.

[datgirl]

@ManOnFire i have to disagree. I used to be one of those cute shy girls, but was ignored for the popular hot girls and its not because they thought i was too good for them. After i began maturing physically guys started chasing after me. It goes to show that lots of men are just as shallow if not more. And I've had guys tell me that they are done with fucking around and partying and now they want good girls. So i have no idea what you're going off of.

[datgirl]

And its funny too cause even though i got hotter and was "good girl" i wasn't promiscuous/loose like those party girls so i still got left in the dust for those girls.

[ManOnFire]

@datgirl You didn't get left behind because you weren't a party girl, it was because you were shy. Men generally are not attracted to shy, quiet women. You said they started going after you when your body changed. That's normal. You being a good girl didn't or wouldn't stop them. It was probably your shyness, which often comes off as snobbery in women.

I don't think men aren't shallow, but I definitely don't think they're more shallow than women. I think it's the opposite. Men can have your usual shallow appetites or mindsets about women or sex, but women tend to take theirs to a worse level.

[datgirl]

@ManOnFire both men and women can be shallow. Some more than others. The end.

[ManOnFire]

@datgirl Lol. That's fine.

[Mh1999]

Mostly a Western country problem we don't have that kind of problem in Lebanon

[Daniela1982]

You are full of shit. Or are Lebanon, OR.

[Mh1999]

@Daniela1982 i am sorry if i offended you

[Uncut]

@Daniela1982 Ouch.

[Daniela1982]

You didn't and I apologize for my behavior.

[Anonymous]

Because they're dumb. Their prime years are the best years to find a high quality guy to settle down with and have a family, if that's what they want. That's when they're at their most attractive and most fertile.

Any man who wants many children is going to choose a younger woman over an older woman when he has that choice because duh, the younger she is the more fertile she is, the longer there is until she isn't, the more children she can have, the less complications there will be when it comes to pregnancy and birth.

However they tend to have this dumb idea that they're smart if they wait until they're close to 30 or older. The trouble is the an attractive 30-35 year old guy with his shit together can get younger women, and he usually will.

Those players will usually settle down in their 30s with a younger woman also. Women would probably like to believe that those guys lose out when they're older, that they end up alone and miserable, but a guy who knows how to get laid regularly and how to pull women will still be able to do so at that age in a way a woman can't.

That leaves them with the nice guys. In the nice guy article, notice how she says that she "wasn't ready for him before". Why wasn't she ready? Because the other guys were just more attractive (not just physically but personalitywise too). Now she "settles" for the nice guy.

You often hear men complain that once they get married the sex dries up. Many men joke about it all the time. Why do you think that is? She just isn't as sexually excited by him as she was those other guys, because she settled with him.

Compared to those other guys he has weak character, and she begins to boss him around. The trouble with nice guys is that they're "yes men", they do anything a woman wants. These are the guys who refer to their wives as "the boss".

This is why she was never that attracted to him in the first place. She begins to resent him eventually, as she bosses him around more and more. Nags him to death. Loses attraction for him. He resents her because she bosses him around and they barely have sex anymore. Maybe they stay together because they think that's normal, or one of them cheats, or they divorce.

Young women don't see it coming, they live in a dream world. Their thoughts are ruled by their feelings, they're not that good at planning long term or looking at these things without letting their emotional way of thinking get in the way.

It's pointless to complain about all of this as a guy. Women will always do this. All that you can change is your own behaviour.

Mainly you want to avoid being the nice guy she settles down with. Just don't seriously date a girl who has gone through that phase and is now "done with hook-ups".

Some women get mad at the player vs slut double standard, at least one girl who commented did. There's a difference between men and women in the kinds of people we find attractive.

For men, when we think less of a woman, we'll just pump and dump her. When we think more of a woman we'll marry her. In general we don't have casual sex with girls we find MORE attractive, and then marry someone we find less attractive. We always think more highly of the girl we marry basically.

For women who do this it's almost the opposite. They have casual sex with guys they find more attractive, and marry guys they find less attractive. That's why she wasn't ready for the nice guy, that's why she ignored him and wouldn't date him - she didn't find him that attractive. The guy this kind of woman marries is a step down from the other guys, as much as she talks about what assholes they were and how done she is. The only reason she's "done with them" is because she's mad they wouldn't commit when she wanted them to.

So don't date those girls if you're a "nice guy". Better yet, become more like those other guys if you can.

[Thatsamazing]

Because they have a biological clock that makes them go slowly insane and if they haven't gotten fucked by lots of guys by the time they're 26 or 27 or so, they know their looks and fertility start to whittle away quicker than guys' do so they figure they have to get it in while they can. I can understand that mindset making someone a little crazy and sluttish; maybe it would us too, if we were built the same way. I'm not defending it, I'm just saying.

I don't envy them that, anyway.

[DianaWest]

ah, if only women gave half as much of a fuck as men think we do.

[Grobmate]

I have no idea. But it would be interesting to understand the psychology of it all. There are also those who have a mid-life crisis and try to live as if single and in their 20s again despite the loving partner and children they disregard in the process.

[Ultimate_Gohan]

Damn soo much truth in one question.. Its over 9000

[CarpetDenim]

They aren’t being pumped and dumped by high quality guys, they’re being pumped and dumped by the absolute lowest quality, douchiest, manwhores a girl can get, and simultaneously ignoring the high-quality, sweet, committed, and respectful men.

[Isten]

TL/DR: you want to fuck around but as soon as you want to settle down, you won't accept a woman who had the same lifestyle as you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

Women don't accept a man who hasn't fucked around, she thinks "what's wrong with him" lol.

[Isten]

Lol, nope, that can't be further from the truth.

[Thatsamazing]

I must have missed the part where males and females are the same, since... we're not.

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

@Thatsamazing agreed women tend to fuck a small pool of guys.

[Isten]

We are not the same, but that doesn't mean women have to be angels 24/7 and guys can get away with being douchbags.

[Thatsamazing]

Guys having a lot of sex with many different girls doesn't make them "douchebags." I don't know why you would make that equivalency.

[Isten]

Then why are women having sex with a lot of partners so bad?
Hypocrisy at its best dude.

Or am I missing something? *cough* "nice guy" *cough*

[Thatsamazing]

... Because males and females aren't the same. I must have missed the part where we are. Since... we're not.

Humans are animals. There's no changing it.

[Thatsamazing]

Hypocrisy doesn't play into it. Think what you like.

[Isten]

Looks like it truly wasn't worth reading your opinion. *yawn*
Not everything you believe in is in fact a fact, sorry not sorry. Not everyone thinks and acts like you, or how you would imagine them to.
Girls can just as well reject guys who sleep around.

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

He's right people are generally hypocrites and men and women have different preferences and requirements of the people they marry.

[Thatsamazing]

Sure, they CAN. Their literal ability to do so is neither here nor there. I don't know why you're even mentioning that. Uh, "sorry not sorry," or whatever. Nicely done not actually addressing what I said, since it's clear that I'm right and you just don't want me to be. Humans are animals, males and females don't treat each other the same way, it's been that way since the dawn of man, oh well blame God or evolution or whatever. Not guys. We didn't do anything to make us, or you, the way you are.

[CarpetDenim]

Some men are insanely bitter over how many women are going lesbian and at the same time try so hard to justify their douchebag-y manslut behavior as something that’s natural and that they can’t help doing and shouldn’t be expected to change, even though all it would take to not sleep around like a whore are a little common decency and impulse control. 🤔🤔🤔

[Thatsamazing]

@CarpetDenim I dunno what homosexuality has to do with this?

[ericclayton]

@Thatsamazing @CarpetDenim Yeah, I'm intrigued on how that fits into the equation.

[AudreyB88]

This question appears to be a rant, and not much evidence is given.
Also, Why do you care about their lives?

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

It's really mote of a question. I know a few women in their 30s with the clock ticking down.

[AudreyB88]

They may not want to settle down and have children. It's really not that difficult to comprehend.

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

Most do and thats what kills them inside. But they aren't willing to settle for a guy in their league.

[CoffeeWC]

Women don't age as well as men. The consequences of a lifestyle like that are worse for women. But a lot of young women who live like this don't really care about repercussions. They want to live in the moment.

[Anonymous]

Because good men don't think women are products for them to use. If most "nice guys" turn out to be just as shallow and uncaring why not go for attractive bad boys or whatever you wanna call them instead? At least they let you go when you get tired of their shit lol. "Nice guys" wanna keep you around as their mommy

[Lance1965]

It all ties in with their obsession with their self-entitlement issues. "Some" think they can do whatever they want till they realize their time is running short and then they wake up to themselves.

[MackToday]

The lie of cultural Marxism and brain washing from a very young age got to them. This is what globalists have done to people.

[genericname85]

Cause you can't do that anymore after your prime years.

[kelvinmed]

So much hate for women here. I feel sad for you and the other guys here

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

Truth is hateful to you?

[kelvinmed]

It may be truthful for you because of the way you look at it but you're only looking at it with hate for women. All of this stuff you're saying is all assumed b. s.

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

Truth is not hate.

[kelvinmed]

Nah You got it twisted

[Daniela1982]

What high quality guys? Show me one.

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

Like myself lol.

[Daniela1982]

A pic or it didn't happen.

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

You send me pics and I will send you some.

[shi-shi]

Oh come off it, you don't actually think you're a high quality male do you?

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

@shi-shi I know I am. Look up high quality male and you will see a picture of me lol

[shi-shi]

What, a fat white skinhead who drunkenly yells at the football on telly? 🤔

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

@shi-shi I'm neither fat nor a skinhead, I assure you that I have a full head of luxurious blonde hair.
Drunkenly yelling at the football on telly, yeah that does sound like me lol

[shi-shi]

Nah, beer belly hanging out the bottom of your football shirt and grimy nicotine stains all over your hands and teeth

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

@shi-shi I dont smoke and I'm in really good shape.

[shi-shi]

I don't believe you 😁

[TURK-CONQUEROR]

@shi-shi baby you don't have to.🥒

[shi-shi]

Don't 🤢🤮

[adolescentswede]

Most likely because it feels good in the moment.

[Secret6620]

OMG geez🤦🤷

[Anonymous]

True.