Do you actually believe that the quietest girls are usually the kinkiest? Have you ever met one who really didn't look like she'd be that freaky?
I don't believe that although I've some dated a couple who surprised me that way (in ways I didn't like since I'm not a kinky person). I think that's maybe a bias because it's far more surprising when someone who appears very shy or innocent turns out this way, so we remember it more distinctly. But I would suspect the majority of the ones who are quiet aren't freaks in the bedroom.
To me it's like the stereotype that the small quiet guy is the most dangerous guy in a physical fight. I think that's biased by martial arts films and the occasional crazy mild-mannered guy who pulls out a samurai sword in a subway or something when confronted. I don't think it's necessarily the case that the majority of such guys are so dangerous in a physical confrontation, it's just so surprising and memorable when we see one since he so strongly defies the usual expectations.
Most Helpful Opinions
-
I really don't know... But it might make sense that when shy girls start to open to someone for the first guy... They might go a bit intense because its something new for them.
But sadly, if things go wrong, like a breakup... Those girls might seriously suffer and maybe even hurt themselves.
So yes, they might go easily more extreme.
Some guy said that about me but I'm not really shy or quiet so I guess this really means "women who don't seem like freaks to me always seem to be freakier than women who dress like theyre ready or have a wilder lifestyle." I have less experience with men and am a little insecure/shy about dating and men but I'm not actually shy as a person overall.
Thats my understanding anyway. People tell me I look innocent all the time. Not really sure why. My friends basically tell me its my "sweet" or "innocent" looking face, which I can't control and someone said my style of dressing looks more innocent because I wear a lot of dresses and skirts (? lol)
In any case, I am pretty kinky/freaky despite very little actual experience. So it's true in my case.
-
Not always, but yeah, most of us are ;)
I love how most guys assume I am a prude or boring because I'm timid, quiet, or don't discuss sex. Yet my boyfriend calls me a perv because he knows how I really am, lol. I only let someone I am dating see that side of me. Just because quiet people don't go around discussing their sex life, it doesn't mean they're not kinky.
What Girls & Guys Said
2
Opinion
18Opinion
-
It can depend on the environment. If it is an event with a mix of strangers and friends girls will be cautious but with some close friends, especially other girls they will let the kink out!
I have been to venues where kinky is fully accepted then all bets are off. I don't think you can make a generalization.
But if your the quiet type and also kinky... well that answers for you! HMU? -
This wonderland fit me i am realy shy and ny voice is realy... silent if i talk in public in privat areas i am a "waterfall" when talking claim some of my friends
-
nah I'd say it's the opposite, the quietest girl I've been with was probably the tamest. It was pretty disappointing cause I hear it a lot that quiet girls are kinky, but that's just not true.
-
This is one area where you definitely can't judge a book by its cover.
However, if they read books they're probably GREAT in the sack.
Libraries, guys. Just go there and even pretend to read an interesting book. -
Very true. I ran into the librarian of my college one night out at a club. Not only did she shed that librarian image, but did with all the flair of a former porn queen turn junkie. She was a true pig- girl
-
Oh absolutely. Just because she's not running off at the mouth doesn't mean she doesn't have a rich and interesting interior life and lots of kinks
-
I think most girls have desires they don’t tell SO, since asking them doesn’t catch nuance of desire
-
depends on why she's quiet, but from my experience it lines ups
-
It’s definitely not always true.
I’d say it’s pretty random -
well the quietest "shyest" girl I ever knew, turned out to also be into hardcore dominatrix stuff, specifically ballbusting, and had a website devoted to her kinky stuff, complete with her own nude pics and videos, so yes I believe that. lol
-
Not always I slept with a really loud latino girl and she was probably the second kinkiest the white neighbor was my kinkiest
-
This is 100% true, it’s the book worm and nerdy girls that are super freaks 😂
-
As a quiet girl myself, no I do not believe that
-
never had sex with a shy girl so I don't know
-
This is not true. They could be innocent actually.
-
I don't wonder one way or the other about that.
-
It never fails, NEVER!
-
I totally have
-
Same is true with men
-
I don't
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions