Ah, got it, thanks for clarifying. Have you ever had your car broken into? I think I would feel like that. Like the world isn't as safe as my brain tries to fool me into thinking it is. I think I would feel surprised and violated in a way.
I'd look into the allegations and make my own judgement
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And all of a sudden you dropped him like a turd in a toilet. Yet I'm sure you think you're not judgmental. Did you get the full story or did you just jumped to conclusions?
Supposedly some credible evidence came forward that he harassed women over the years and even raped a couple of them. The company he worked for fired him immediately and he was banned from the gaming forums. Nobody who has any inside info is willing to talk about it.
If he was fired there is a chance there's decent evidence. Firing someone without evidence for inappropriate conduct opens up a company to lawsuits and most don't do that. Most will just reassign people unless there's clear prove.
As for the forum I'm not sure which one but most require proof of conduct before they do anything and to ban someone suggests they have proof. Most gamers are men. I doubt they'd risk it getting around that they banned someone without evidence.
At the very least I would be extremely cautious with your own personal safety. If it's gone this far there's a good chance it will go farther.
You don't need the drama or the chance of risking your personal safety.
I would not go around spreading rumors. But if someone asks why you've distanced yourself be honest.
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Nothing. Anyone can make an accusation. Is there compelling evidence? If not, I do not even consider it credible.
If it was false allegations, I'd be supportive, if on the other hand it was true I'd break contact... 9 times out of 10 though it's false.
I will support him and stand with him till my last breath, MeToo is the shining symbol of toxic female behavior, not toxic male behavior!
So you prefer if women stayed quiet about being raped?
I prefer women only speak up regarding these things when they have evidence to back their claim
Most of them do? You do realize false claims only make up for like 2% of sexual assault allegations. Why are you so concerned with that?
Bullshit! The methods such studies use to come up with these figures are a total joke!
You’re right! It’s probably WAY LOWER since most victims stay silent.
If you don't have evidence than stay silent!
You need a better grasp on reality and life.
You need to learn that laws are above you!
Then don’t commit rape?
Your kind shouldn't as well
I didn’t mention a particular sex.
@horriblesheikh "your kind?" Jesus...
Your question is vague. What do you mean by, "What would you do?" Are you asking if you should date him? I mean, what is there TO do?
How would you feel about this person after hearing that? I guess more "How would you feel?" than "What would you do?"
Ah, got it, thanks for clarifying. Have you ever had your car broken into? I think I would feel like that. Like the world isn't as safe as my brain tries to fool me into thinking it is. I think I would feel surprised and violated in a way.
That's exactly how I feel.
Wdym? Did he sexually assault someone or the other way?
He’s been accused of sexual assault
Is there real proofs he did something? And by real proof, I mean something else than a woman saying he did it.
"Dude, trust me" isn't a proof.
I'd look into the allegations and make my own judgement
And all of a sudden you dropped him like a turd in a toilet. Yet I'm sure you think you're not judgmental. Did you get the full story or did you just jumped to conclusions?
What does that even mean? Does it means he was accused of rape? If yes ask him what he thinks about it.
Want to see what’s really up, I don’t trust statements anymore, I wanna see evidence or proof.
Revenge backstab and gosip happens.. I would test the waters.. Look for red flags... Not sure..
Make sure he learned his lesson. Any second strikes should be recorded.
Please excuse my ignorance but I have no clue what MeTooed. Is
Accused or proven to have been misogynistic or too assertive sexually to women.
Thank you
I would support him because I believe the presumption of innocence
I'd want to see actual evidence, not just he-said, she-said.
can you elaborate? i do not recongnize the term Metooed
What does that even mean?
Accused of getting away with (sexual) abuse/aasualt in the past.
WTH I don't know sounds 👎
Sounds like a train or a toe thing🤔
LOL...
He got a foot in his ass? A toe?
I was pretty dang close
Proof or it didn't happen.
What’s this crap you made up?
Not me. Something I heard.
It doesn’t make sense
Supposedly some credible evidence came forward that he harassed women over the years and even raped a couple of them. The company he worked for fired him immediately and he was banned from the gaming forums. Nobody who has any inside info is willing to talk about it.
Well then I would definitely stay away from him. Women being sexually assaulted is common, you know that right?
Yes. I know that. It’s happened to me. That’s why this freaks me out.
If he was fired there is a chance there's decent evidence. Firing someone without evidence for inappropriate conduct opens up a company to lawsuits and most don't do that. Most will just reassign people unless there's clear prove.
As for the forum I'm not sure which one but most require proof of conduct before they do anything and to ban someone suggests they have proof. Most gamers are men. I doubt they'd risk it getting around that they banned someone without evidence.
At the very least I would be extremely cautious with your own personal safety. If it's gone this far there's a good chance it will go farther.
You don't need the drama or the chance of risking your personal safety.
I would not go around spreading rumors. But if someone asks why you've distanced yourself be honest.
@ClearerAtN1ght thank you. I really appreciate the advice.