You should STOP trying to "date" or "talk to" guys on apps, and learn that you should always date LOCALLY and meet people in person. What did you really think was going to come of a non-local "relationship" anyway? Just end things with this guy and forget him.
And going forward, remember that the POINT of a relationship is to spend time TOGETHER, in the same room, face-to-face. That means you need to date LOCAL guys. Yes, I realize that it SEEMS like you have better options if you go after guys on apps and don't care where they are, but this exact situation shows you one of MANY reasons why this isn't actually the case. But even if he was single, and a "great guy", and had no secrets and told no lies, he'd still be far away and you'd still hardly ever see him - so what's the point?
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Block him n talk to me lol well no technically I wouldn’t say it’s cheating. But obviously he’s hiding that part of his life from you for a reason just as I’m sure he’s hiding you from his wife if he really is married. I think I’d ask him. Which chances are he’s going to deny or he’s going to say well I didn’t want to lose you as a friend if you knew I was in a relationship already. You have to think that if you actually did find out the truth about him, what were his intentions w you as to why he didn’t say anything? Plus that’s no way to start of a new relationship w a big lie like that.
FYI, you do have evidence to show her. Him flirting and claiming to be single is the evidence. Please send it to her.
block him and send his snap ID to his wife if you know her social media account
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It's not cheating (yet), but maybe he planned to. You should definitely unfriend him rather than giving him some opportunity to try to talk his way out of his deception.
Confront him about it and ask him why he lied to you or just delete him and block him , He Already lied to you so why would you want to stay friends with a liar? It’s your call on what you do ,
Before you go jumping the gun, you are putting two and two together in the belief you have four. But you aren't 100% sure.
If you need someone to tell you the right thing in this situation. Then you're hosed already. It's pretty much instinctual if you're a decent human being.
Tell his wife, show her the evidence, then block the fucker.
You need to tell his wife
You could just not talk to him anymore...
Who are you to him? Nobody.
yikes
Block him
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