This is generally more important to women then guys. Some guys will find that attractive though. I can admire it, however as far as being attracted to her, it doesn't really play that much of a part in it. But I'm not much of a communicator either in general, with anyone lol. I don't enjoy long conversations. Example a long political conversation (or short lol) would bore me to death!
No, i meanif we're talking about people with fetishes then that might be the case. But for normal honest good guys (yes they exist), it really doesn't Matter them, we like the personality and honesty of the girl and looks come second,
Yes! I like girls that are intelligent and hard working because I like being around people that like to learn as much as I do. I guess in school my behavior is more like a typical girl. Hardworking, nice, wants to do good in school. I mean so hope I’m nice! Anyway yes I do find them more attractive! :)
I prefer psychological intelligence over ordinary intelligence. A girl who understands her human condition often has a better sense of humor and easier to get along with.
Absolutely. To me anyway. I much prefer one who can challenge me (and vice versa) on multiple levels, including intellect. And Intellect is almost always visible at first sight.
I love intelligent conversations like I'm one of those people who loves in air quotes big words so yeah and not just like economic trends but in anything you're passionate about Just don't start a conversation saying so what's your believes on this and that it comes off a little too weird just start off with small talk and work your way up cause I love a good vocabulary
absolutly... i enjoy also intelligent conversations with a lady... already wrote on one of the posts here... had a lady, i was talking to her 16 hours per day hahaha about everything... stupid stuff, joking then intellectual... pure enjoyment
To me intellect is at the top of the list. I've dated gorgeous women whom couldn't follow a conversation, and my initial attraction to them wained, likewise I've been with very smart women and my attraction grew exponentially!
If she's dull the characters on The Big Bang Theory, not really. The show isn't that bad by the way, but you get the point! Have a personality, not just be the smart girl.
Intelligence and beauty are two different things. If your intelligence also expresses itself in your appearance then, hell yes you'd be more attractive.
More attractive than what? I value compatibility more than intelligence. She can be the smartest girl in the whole wide world, but if we're not compatible, then what does her intelligence matter?
Depends if she is like 145 IQ then im like fuck this im out I dunno quantum physics But if she is like my 120 then sure im down to talk about different stuff But if she is below like 100 thats a hard no for me
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This is generally more important to women then guys. Some guys will find that attractive though. I can admire it, however as far as being attracted to her, it doesn't really play that much of a part in it. But I'm not much of a communicator either in general, with anyone lol. I don't enjoy long conversations. Example a long political conversation (or short lol) would bore me to death!
No, i meanif we're talking about people with fetishes then that might be the case.
But for normal honest good guys (yes they exist), it really doesn't Matter them, we like the personality and honesty of the girl and looks come second,
Yes! I like girls that are intelligent and hard working because I like being around people that like to learn as much as I do. I guess in school my behavior is more like a typical girl. Hardworking, nice, wants to do good in school. I mean so hope I’m nice! Anyway yes I do find them more attractive! :)
I prefer psychological intelligence over ordinary intelligence. A girl who understands her human condition often has a better sense of humor and easier to get along with.
Absolutely. To me anyway.
I much prefer one who can challenge me (and vice versa) on multiple levels, including intellect. And Intellect is almost always visible at first sight.
I love intelligent conversations like I'm one of those people who loves in air quotes big words so yeah and not just like economic trends but in anything you're passionate about Just don't start a conversation saying so what's your believes on this and that it comes off a little too weird just start off with small talk and work your way up cause I love a good vocabulary
absolutly... i enjoy also intelligent conversations with a lady... already wrote on one of the posts here... had a lady, i was talking to her 16 hours per day hahaha about everything... stupid stuff, joking then intellectual... pure enjoyment
I absolutely like for a girl to have good intellect, but she needs to have good intuition and a great personality as well.
I enjoy deep conversations, and I definitely want to marry a girl that enjoys deep conversations as well. :)
To me intellect is at the top of the list. I've dated gorgeous women whom couldn't follow a conversation, and my initial attraction to them wained, likewise I've been with very smart women and my attraction grew exponentially!
Sounds like you have a balance there, yes surely you'd be attractive ☺
Yes they are. Especially if they are intelligent enough to know how to make themselves look more attractive.
If she's dull the characters on The Big Bang Theory, not really. The show isn't that bad by the way, but you get the point! Have a personality, not just be the smart girl.
You sound like my girlfriend. Her intelligence is one of many reasons I love her. ❤
Intelligence is the biggest determinant of attraction, IMHO
Intelligence and beauty are two different things. If your intelligence also expresses itself in your appearance then, hell yes you'd be more attractive.
Men afraid to women who had better intelligent than him self.
So better search, more intelligent men than you. If not, you need act a bit more reserved.
I am not intimidated by intelligent women, I expect a reasonably good level of intelligence from men and women.
More attractive than what? I value compatibility more than intelligence. She can be the smartest girl in the whole wide world, but if we're not compatible, then what does her intelligence matter?
Be happy with who you are. Don't seek validation from men. For that insecurity will drive them away and attract narcissist, abusers, and players.
Depends if she is like 145 IQ then im like fuck this im out I dunno quantum physics
But if she is like my 120 then sure im down to talk about different stuff
But if she is below like 100 thats a hard no for me