Why do women wear obviously sexually-implied/intentioned clothing and then lash out when they receive unwanted attention, labels, and behavior? (Page 2)

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Labels can mean “whore,” “slut,” “hoe,” etc.  Behavior can be anything from catcalling to unwanted/unwarranted/inappropriate touching  I’m not saying clothing is a complete and accurate synopsis of one’s personality in all its totality, but it is an indicator of certain insights, interests, and behaviors of a person that someone can reasonably predict. We all make judgements about people all the time from a variety of cues and traits they give off and possess. A person’s clothing does say something about a person and depending on what they’re specifically wearing it can say quite a lot about them without you having to meet or talk them in any significant manner.  For example, a man wearing an all black t-shirt with the swastika/nazi symbol, in red, in the center of the t-shirt says quite a bit about this person without much else. It would be incredibly confusing if you decided to come up to this man and question him on why he’s wearing the t-shirt he’s wearing and he gives you such an answer that is in direct conflict or opposition to what the swastika/nazi symbol means. You find yourself thinking incredibly different about them once you figure out why he’s wearing the t-shirt he’s wearing, but nonetheless caused some confusion.  For the topic at hand, imagine a woman is at a club and she’s wearing very revealing and sexually-implied/intentioned clothing.  To paint a more vivid picture, imagine she has large breasts and what she’s wearing is a very thin, practically see-through bra or top. You can clearly see her nipples, despite being poorly covered up. She’s also wearing very short and tight shorts that look almost like underwear.  What do you think all of this says about this person? Would you be right to think of this woman in certain manners due to her clothing? What would insights on her character be? Do you think she is looking for certain attention?

Anonymous · Answer

I strongly believe that people should be allowed to wear any clothes that they feel comfortable and good about themselves in. No one has a right to comment on what they are wearing or believe that their clothing shows their consent.

CamilaP · Answer

because we can wear whatever we want and don't have to put up with men's sexual frustrations

R_ūshī · Answer

Because you can be sexy yet have dignity and be respected.

TheFlak38 · Answer

They enjoy every second of it. They enjoy both positive and negative attention. If they didn't get any attention at all they would swallow tons of anti-depressant pills every day and simulate the end of the world.

Bananaman177 · Answer

They show off their tits and ass to hundreds of guys but they are specifically showing them off to one guy in particular, and if you're not him, how dare you!

HoratioCaine · Answer

why do men assume a girl is flirting when she's just being polite? same thing dude

Anonymous · Answer

It's from attention from guys they dont want. The only reason they dress like that is to attract that guy they want. If it's coming from a ugly ass dude, she gonna get insecure and lash out. Some people just hate the attention of people looking at em

Taylor_C · Answer

A woman wearing revealing (as you call it) clothes doesn't give you the right to assume anything nor call her anything.

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of the time the clothing is NOT sexually-implied. It is just the male's dirty one-tracked mind working overtime as usual.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

I wear dresses and I get cat called. The only thing showing is my knee. 😂 Wtf.

Clayaya · Answer

This is an idiotic question tainted with entitlement

Dingsbums · Answer

Well I don’t care about outfits but some girls literally suck on their finger and stuff in a dating profile and wonder why guys only want to have sex and nothing serious lol

genericname85 · Answer

Cause frankly, they're idiots. They don't understand that they can't target certain guys attention. They will attract all guys attention, including those they're not interested in.

Browneye57 · Answer

It really depends on how good looking you are, or if you're obviously rich. Then they're all for it.  Come on man, you've got it figured out, but still mincing over their FEELINGS.

bolverk · Answer

I have no Idea, but I'm literally twice your age and I still do not have a handle on this, even having four sisters has shed no light on why they do this.

Sweetnessxoxo · Answer

I don’t know because I don’t do that. Maybe they just wear stuff like that to be more confident i on the other hand do not feel confident in skimpy clothes and I don’t like all the stares and stuff

rjroy3 · Answer

They are implicitly calling you a beta male and say not to breathe in their Direction.

Ninjazzed · Answer

Still, it doesn’t give you the right to touch her body regardless of what she wears? Tf kind of logic do y’all men have?

DWornock · Answer

They want attention so they dress accordingly. However, they only want attention from hot guys. They are offended by attention from guys they don't find attractive. It is like, "How dare he..."

Twalli · Answer

From what I understand women wear that type of clothing to get attention from guys they find attractive. They don't seem to realize that it can garner attention from all guys.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

"We dress that way for ourselves, not for men," say the feminists. "Our bodies are our own. We can show them off as we p! ease. Don't look at us! Don't tell us anything!"

Shellyworld · Answer

They like their style and don’t want other people judging them.

oldermale · Answer

Women like to feel comfortable and sexy when dressed up, they don't deserve guys catcalling etc, they don't do it for attention like that.

yash77 · Answer

Question is wrong. why women put sexually implied clothes but dont want to be called by sexually implied named? Now its logical and easy to understand.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Well, women that wear very revealing clothing is for certain always a little whore; now in saying that anyone can think whatever they want but they have no business touching that woman though.

ChiTown33 · Answer

You know why this bit by Chapelle gets such a laugh. Because it's so true. Lol

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Why do so many guys assume that the way a woman dresses implies that she is interested in them?

Anonymous · Answer

So many of the females justifying this, pretty funny.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't have a clue. But I will tell you this- I don't have to worry about some old guy hitting on me. I dress sporty and comfy and they only like high heels and tight clothing.

Usernamesrdumb · Answer

Attention, validation, and power. And men are dumb enough to give it to them.

stormbreaker06 · Answer

because women are stupid. they don't know what they want.

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

Because they're getting the attention of the guys they don't want. It's ok if she's attracted to the guy.

Gedaria · Answer

True, but who are you to judge what others wear. Their dress may be for someone else ….

UncleJessieRabbit · Answer

Because either ignorance or being subconsciously.  It's like a cognitive dissonance.

Plitty-Tank · Answer

Sometimes women are not concerned and just like showing their body.

Anonymous · Answer

Child mentality. They are only “strong and independent” until they have to take responsibility for their actions, words, and choices.

Jltakk · Answer

They want the social norms, but rant against it because there has to be a cause to fight.

asmeasilleverbe · Answer

She knows exactly what she wants. She gets the attention craved. End of story

Yep12345678 · Answer

That's easy. Because women are a walking contradiction.

Kayla45 · Answer

Because some women like the attention

cumbath · Answer

Because you’re supposed to mind your own business.

AngelLily · Answer

I would think she has low values.

Rangers · Answer

Simple, they want attention

Thatsamazing · Answer

What does "lash out" mean, exactly.

Darknut · Answer

Its like they want the attention but don't?

EnglundUberAlles · Answer

Slut shaming? Really?

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Because most women are retarded children. 🤣

Siavash_1990 · Answer

They want to "be wanted"

Loveranimalhere · Answer

maybe because they all dumb ass

robocop666 · Answer

they dont want sleazy behaviour thats all

Anonymous · Answer

Nice try on justifying bad behavior from men

1828avaava1828 · Answer

I don’t lash out

termanator · Answer

Stupidity I suppose

Anonymous · Answer

I donthave idea

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