See... If he can provide her enough money... She needs to stop stripping.. If that is one term of relationship.. Otherwise he needs to end thing between them..
I mean, he can't force her to, he just gave her a choice, no? At least he communicated well that he only wants the relationship if she is no longer a stripper. If she didn't agree with that, then that would've been fine, just no more relationship.
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Yeah. I just think she should have communicated to him that it’s something she wants to do instead of now how she’s struggling because if it.
It really isn’t hard to figure out. It all depends on how much he means to her. If he isn’t valuable enough to her to give it up for him then no she shouldn’t. I would want her to quit though
He know what he is into. He should be clever enough to calculate 1+1. Still for myself speaking, I won't even date a stripper as I turn jealous and lonely, not even an ex-stripper.
I would want my girlfriend to stop stripping, but since I believe it isn't really fair to ask her to stop stripping just for me, I wouldn't date a stripper at all.
I'd never force a girl to stop for me. But I wouldn't date any girl doing that. I don't share my girl with anyone, and that's all there is to it. If she wants to keep doing it, it's her choice, but that will be without me.
If he met you as a stripper then he needs to accept that... or not date you... nobody has the right to change who you are... it's your decision not his... if you continue to date him under these conditions you will have a unhealthy resentment
@Miristheiss well it is a personal choice perhaps he just liked her personality and overlooked her proffesion he might have looked to the inside and ignored the outside of what she does
He can't force her to not do it but she can't force her to stay with her if she does so whether she "should" or not depends on whether or not she thinks the impact it will have on their relationship is worth it.
I can see why he wouldn't like it. Honestly I wouldn't like it if it happened to me too. But if he knew in the beginning, then He shouldn't have gotten emotionally involved. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
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See... If he can provide her enough money...
She needs to stop stripping..
If that is one term of relationship..
Otherwise he needs to end thing between them..
He knew she was a stripper before they got together. Why is he dating her if it bothers him so much?
I mean, he can't force her to, he just gave her a choice, no? At least he communicated well that he only wants the relationship if she is no longer a stripper. If she didn't agree with that, then that would've been fine, just no more relationship.
Yeah. I just think she should have communicated to him that it’s something she wants to do instead of now how she’s struggling because if it.
Relationships is all about compromising though ^^
Ugh he knew she was dancing before getting together. She should dump him and go back to making that money
women strippers are just asking for trouble from men ! they will get raped and worse but that is their problem ! thanks
I don't really think so.
Who cares what her occupation is, as long as she brings money?
Her boyfriend doesn't understand a thing.
It really isn’t hard to figure out. It all depends on how much he means to her. If he isn’t valuable enough to her to give it up for him then no she shouldn’t. I would want her to quit though
He know what he is into. He should be clever enough to calculate 1+1. Still for myself speaking, I won't even date a stripper as I turn jealous and lonely, not even an ex-stripper.
I would want my girlfriend to stop stripping, but since I believe it isn't really fair to ask her to stop stripping just for me, I wouldn't date a stripper at all.
I'd never force a girl to stop for me. But I wouldn't date any girl doing that. I don't share my girl with anyone, and that's all there is to it. If she wants to keep doing it, it's her choice, but that will be without me.
If he met you as a stripper then he needs to accept that... or not date you... nobody has the right to change who you are... it's your decision not his... if you continue to date him under these conditions you will have a unhealthy resentment
She should dump the boyfriend and go back to dancing.
I wouldn't date anyone that strips honestly it's a waste of time if I was him I'd find someone else instead. I don't care if nobody agrees so 💯💁
If he had a problem with it, he shouldn’t have started dating a stripper. He sounds controlling
He sounds controlling because he wants a girl who is faithfull and respects herself OK then
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Yes, hence do not date strippers.
@Miristheiss well it is a personal choice perhaps he just liked her personality and overlooked her proffesion he might have looked to the inside and ignored the outside of what she does
No, if she's happy doing it and making good money, then no.
However, if he's uncomfortable with it, he should tell her, however doesn't mean she's obligated to quit, it just may mean they're incompatible.
He can't force her to not do it but she can't force her to stay with her if she does so whether she "should" or not depends on whether or not she thinks the impact it will have on their relationship is worth it.
Nah if he doesn't like it he shouldn't have got with her
As for me, I'm a Christian; Christians don't date strippees.
Strippers*
I can see why he wouldn't like it. Honestly I wouldn't like it if it happened to me too. But if he knew in the beginning, then He shouldn't have gotten emotionally involved. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
I agree with you. Don't date a stripper if you can't handle it.
Of course, if she doesn't like her part time job, she should get a different job.
If he loves her he wouldn't change her
But I get where he's coming from too