Hi guys! So my best friend (lets call her T) of about 7 years hooked up with the guy she knew i had a massive crush on (Let’s call him B). Basically me and (B) had a fling for a few months until he told me he didn’t want a relationship, and didn’t want to lead me on anymore. I was real sad about it for a while. I told (T) about what he said to me and she knew how sad i was over it.
After that, me and (T) stopped talking for about 3 months. I recently texted her and asked what happened with us. She then proceeds to call me crying saying how sorry she is, because her and (B) had been hooking up multiple times throughout the months we weren’t talking. I said it’s okay because i didn’t know what else to say.
I talked about this situation with a mutual friend, explaining how i felt and stuff. A few days later i get a spam of texts from (T) saying not to talk about this with other people and she’s done hearing about it & it’s over with... should i ditch this friend or no?
After that, me and (T) stopped talking for about 3 months. I recently texted her and asked what happened with us. She then proceeds to call me crying saying how sorry she is, because her and (B) had been hooking up multiple times throughout the months we weren’t talking. I said it’s okay because i didn’t know what else to say.
I talked about this situation with a mutual friend, explaining how i felt and stuff. A few days later i get a spam of texts from (T) saying not to talk about this with other people and she’s done hearing about it & it’s over with... should i ditch this friend or no?
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