LADIES: Is she stalking me on Instagram, with her friends account or something?

Question

There was a girl (Angie) I met when I was 19 that I fell in love with. She rejected me, went separate ways, no contact. We are both 26 now.

Since then, I’ve become successful and “locally famous” in my city.

Me and that girl literally have ONE mutual acquaintance on FB/IG, who I didn’t even know that well. Since 2 months ago, that mutual acquaintance has been watching my IG stories, and I can tell she checks out my profile a lot because she appears right at the very top of the list (there’s definitely a correlation there, I have thousands on viewers and the top ones are ALWAYS the women who I know are into me.)

My question is: is it really the “mutual acquaintance” that is stalking me on IG? Or is it more likely that this is connected to the original
girl Angie I met when I was 19?

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

It's more and likely her. The acquaintance have nothing to do with it. It's more likely that girl that rejected you. The point is you can't be obsessed with people like that, and you have to fully understand that she had was going on in her life and she may have spared you from what's in it. Sometimes rejection for those reasons are not always negative. But to protect us from things we shouldn't be involved with. But you can bet she only wants to come looking for you because you have something. And now she feels like she regretted rejecting you when you were younger. People like that you have to seriously guard your heart from. Because she's looking for something out of you. Is she had no logical reason for why she rejected you when you were younger, you can bet she has no logical reason as to why she's cyber stalking you on Instagram

Kimdracula9 · Accepted Answer

Can't really tell. I personally have stalked people I like on my own profile. I dont care if they see I watch their stories. As long as I don't accidentally like something from 137 weeks ago I feel safe on my own profile. However, if your profile is private and she doesn't follow you or you guys are in bad speaking terms it is possible that its actually her on the friends profile. I've had friends give me their passwords so I could look through a guys stuff :/ Well anyways, also speaking as a weirdo who follows acquaintances, I do look at all their stories every single time they post one, doesn't mean I like them though lol

jestergent · Accepted Answer

If you are doing that well, don't give her a chance. They need to be there for you when your nothing before you became something. There are great women gems out there. You'll know what you are looking for and don't say it. Saying "this opinion" should answer the question.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Another catfish I see.

Nxtawm · Answer

It's rlly hard to tell honestly, kinda 50/50 chance it could be either. Although you said you and the acquaintance don't interact much, you also haven't interacted much with Angie for like 7 years now.