Why do girls get offended at small things? I spanked her and she gave me a lecture?

[Anonymous]

I was feeling really good yesterday so I spanked by friend's ass and she got mad and gave me a lecture for 30 minutes. seriously 30 minutes

Like it's not even that big of a deal and it's not like I will listen anyway. She gets mad everytime and I do it anyway so no point in getting offended about it.

why can't she just chill a bit

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+1 y

It was just a light slap on the ass.

[On_the_other_hand]

I had a girlfriend that hated that. No I have one that enjoys it. People need to realize people are different. She may have bad memories or she just doesn't like it. You should watch that Friends episode when Chandler didn't like his ass getting slapped.

its obvious that you slapping her ass means something different to her than it does to you. I like a girl who likes it bc it means she is living in the moment and doesn't take things so seriously. My girlfriend tries to jump out at me when I'm leaving the bathroom, I like it because I know she is feeling care free and living in the moment too.

[Gedaria]

It would seem it is to her. But she talked to you for 30, mins. She could have run off crying. So she still likes you. I have done that but she thumped me on the arm, and then laughed about it...

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Lol, you have no clue how to interact with women at all.

She's right in lecturing you. You do not touch another person without their consent. Ever. Man or woman.

You certainly don't spank someone because you are having a good day. That's not how life works.

[Anonymous]

Why would you slap her on the ass... light or otherwise? I'd be pissed if any of my mates did that to me... if they were feeling good, they can slap their own ass

[Asker]

I have a habit , we are pretty close.

her ass was right in front of me so I couldn't resist

[Asker]

she gets offended everytime but goes back to normal the next day , so I don't think she takes it that seriously

[Opinion Owner]

Close or not... boundaries much?
But if you are annoyed at her for lecturing you, why dont you talk about it with her.. then at least you'll know why she does things and can voice that you are annoyed that she reacts so often

[Asker]

I have.
she says she likes me as a person and friend and when I am serious but doesn't like the easygoing attitude sometimes.

I can't help it so...

[Opinion Owner]

Well if she isn't happy with it then you shouldn't do it... and if you slap her ass you are in the wrong especially as she has said she doesn't like it

[angeliquedevereux2]

You couldn't help it? Piss off.

[Asker]

@angeliquedevereux2 okay xD

[angeliquedevereux2]

So if she grabbed your balls, how would you react? That's sexual assault, if she doesn't want to get touched then do not fucking touch her.

[Asker]

I would be okay if she did

what's the big deal about it. It's not like I am doing it 20 times a day. Its once in a while thing

[angeliquedevereux2]

If she's not comfortable with it, you don't do it. If she doesn't give consent, it is assault. To you it's a funny joke, but to her it could be bringing back repressed memories of abuse and fear. Do not fucking touch her. No t once and while. Not ever.

[Asker]

I have already touched her like 100 times and I will do it again. If she has a problem she can report me or not talk to me.

and what " repressed memories of abuse " ? shed doesn't have any lol

[angeliquedevereux2]

She gave you a bloody lecture to not do it again. You're a fucking pig.

[codyccc]

Just be luck she's not pressing charges