Men, what do you think of women who swear?

[Anonymous]

Hot!

Unattractive

[jadspop]

The same way I feel about men?

Honestly I don't like swearing directly at people... And it's actually one of the few things I can't stand... If a girl I'm with swears at me in an argument... There's a chance were done... And for sure that conversation is done...

But just starting in general? Like getting frustrated at a game or in shock... Or to being hurt... That's fine.. I can't say it's specifically attractive but it can be cute...

Oh.. and that dosent count for venting... If you want to tell me Karen is a bitch then go for it.. as long as I'm not around when you tell Karen she's a bitch to her face... Though depending on the situation I might congratulate you for it... And then slap you on the wrist... Or something like that...

So in general I don't care... As long s your not cursing at someone

[godfatherfan]

I have no issues as long as it isn't excessive. When I am around guys I swear a ton. When I am around women, I rarely curse. It is a respect thing and, really, it was just the way I was raised. I honestly don't even realize I am doing it. So it isn't like I have to struggle to remember, it just doesn't happen. Now, it isn't like I don't swear at all, but very very little.
My ex-wife could teach a master class in swearing. I think that is were all my boys learned all their curse words. But usually it was when she is scared, or really mad.

[hellacray]

I've seen girls swear a lot. I've even seen girls talk like guy thugs.

In excess or saying it just for the sake to seem cool I think it's pretty unattractive.

When you like stub your toe and you cuss sure that's fine. It's just when girls say it too often it becomes kinda annoying. Same thing for guys as well.

It's like a comedian that cusses or drops f bombs every 3 seconds cause they think it will make their crap funny.

It's the joke that makes it funny. The cussing is like an enhancer to make your point.

[Kaneki05]

Well it's normal shrugs. Most people swear. And i find it weird when people limit how they talk. Talking should be a natural thing not some thing you focus on restricting your normal self with. So any girl who just try's hard to not swear would be a put off, fair enough if they naturally don't swear a lot but when a person obsesses on it like if they say one it's the end of the world are weird and fake.
As some sorta saying goes I would trust a person faster who speaks freely compared to someone who has to think about every word out of there mouth. So i would trust someone more who swears than don't tbh. Or a better saying Never trust someone who say's there such a good person they never even swear cause that will be the one who backstabs you more than anyone could.

[Reesep]

I mean anyone swearing in excess is a little annoying. F bombs every other word drives me crazy, but I want some to be free to talk, and there are times you just can't get points across without swearing. The English language is so large, why knock out the words that are the most fun

[VanillaSalt]

Fun fact... when you swear it’s not only not very classy but shows you’ve completely lost your composure. I’m working on not only cutting swearing out but say ow just before I even get hurt lmao.


Strong people don’t get mad and show it. Strong people stay rooted and don’t break. And strong is sexy

[SjE78]

wouldn't say they are hot or unattractive tbf, i would say it depends on their overall personality that attracts me... i mean i grew up in a military family and around the military life... and a little of that rubbed off on me despite not signing up, i still swear like a squaddie... so it wouldn't bother me if i was with a woman who swore or not...

[JackSmy]

It's a form of expression, and Yeah, I have known several, 'ladies' that could make a Sailor blush, with their profanity, when they are REALLY angry at a boyfriend, or maybe a little drunk, and NO OVER, that boyfriend!!
It doesn't bother me, at all, or make me think less of her, just expressing herself, openly, and HOPEFULLY, in a 'safe place'!

[Bananaman177]

Eh, it can go either way.

If you swear creatively and articulately, it's great. It seasons your speech the way salt and pepper season food.

If you swear all the time and just drop F-bombs everywhere instead of saying "um," then it makes you sound stupid and low-class.

This is equally true of both genders.

[WhiteSteve]

The concept of “bad” words is something so ridiculous and arbitrarily arrived at, I just don’t even believe in that. So any word out of someone’s mouth, in a vacuum, does not offend me, it’s only if that word is said in a hateful context and is intended to bring somebody down that it bothers me. But other than that, there’s no such thing as “swearing” in my world.

[Adam1978]

It really depends on how much. A person that swear in every sentence is unattractive. A person that never swear can be seen as oppressed and not expressing their true feelings. So I would say she should swear but rarely have the reason too.

[MCheetah]

I find it unattractive and un-ladylike. I don't like it when men curse either, but at least I can just chalk them up to having been in the military or just being crass or whatever. Women who aren't masculine tomboys who curse is just a turn-off.

[RJJ33666]

I come from a place where swearing is like a second language. If a girl swears then good for her. In my opinion, a woman who can swear is a very open minded person and can really express herself.

[purple379]

I don't have a problem with it.

But more importantly, you should not change yourself for anyone. If someone has a problem with it, move on. There are a thousand that don't. It's not worth your time. If you can't be yourself with someone, what's the point?

[DeviloftheValleys]

depends.

mild too intermediate swearing is not a problem at all, if it gets excessive and compulsive i start to worry a bit for their mental health/development.

creative swearing is always a turnon, though.

[The6ix]

I swear here n there, like if my favourite team loses I might be like "ahhh fuckkk!" or I might call someone on the road a fucking moron. But throughout school doing presentations and debates and working in a banking environment or government environment you can't openly swear. Funny thing is, the profs i've had throughout the years will swear during lectures from time to time.

[hahahmm]

If it’s excessive: low class, low IQ, too much drama, too much free time, childish.


It’s especially bad when directed at a friend.

[codyccc]

I don't care if its done in apropite situations like if you smash your finger with a hammer or are having drinks with your friends at a bar but its not something that's needed at a child's birthday party

[StephenCF]

Occasional slips are fine like how I do it, but constant swearing like they’re illiterates from the ‘hood is a turn-off

[winterfox10]

Meh... I just don't care one way or the other. Vulgarity isn't the sort of thing we should aspire to throw around super casually, but there's no sense in being uncomfortable with it either.

[UliusCeasar]

I prefer honesty over manners, if their thoughts are better conveyed through the use of swearing then they should be free to do so. It would be hypocritical of me to think otherwise considering how much I myself end up swearing on a regular basis.

[_piotr]

I do not like swearing no matter who does it (man or woman).

[nodnol32]

Its normal. Neither a turn off nor a turn on. Most people do swear at some point, some just less than the others.

[SCRUMPSHUDILLIOCIOUS]

Same thing I think of anyone doing it just to make a scene, not necessary if they want attention.

[A1513]

It depends on how often they do it and the setting they do it in. Like if it's during sex it's hot as hell. If she says one at a holiday gathering it can be off putting.

[Walt832]

Only in bed is permitted 😉. Outside the bed don't look cute.

[Dchrls78104]

Bad breath, second hand smoke, rotten teeth, cancer on the tongue: these are every bit as attractive as hearing a girl swear/curse.

[BeyondCuriosity]

Indifferent. Swear words are just words. They don't make much difference to me. A woman who has a problem with others swearing would be a little difficult for me to deal with.

[ElvenMr]

It's definitely not hot to me.
Depends on how often she swears, cuase if just once in a while, that's no problem, but if every other word is a swearing, i don't like that.

[thatnicksuitsme]

I’m ok with it if it’s not too much. Swearing is a normal thing when done normal amounts. I don’t find it attractive tho by any means and it’s only unattractive when it gets too much.

[Dave31989]

There's nothing wrong with it. Please though, if we were to get to be boyfriend girlfriend or whatever, do not do it around my family. I don't do it around my family, nor should you

[bluetoblack99]

Depends on the situation. But women who swear “to be cool” is a huge turn off.