What Do You Think of Young Women Who Post Pictures Like These On Instagram?

[bannacookies]

[dantheman1118]

I'll be honest on this topic. Props to these girls. I'm sure a lot of females disagree with their technique but you can't make everyone happy. Here is the deal. I'm sure they have spent a lot of time and effort to look that way. They know that they are young. They know that look/age won't last forever. Do while you can. People are going to bitch no matter what. If that's what you want to do, do it. If that's the kind of attention you crave or need, get after it. I only read two comments on this and they were the top two. One male and one female. I'm gonna comment on both of them because they were the most helpful.

The guy says they are mostly attention seekers and they crave attention and validation. He says some are insecure and want compliments on how they look. Or they are whores wanting to rob you.

I think it's human nature to want positive feedback in life. You want to feel like something you do in life is appreciated by others. If that's what they are doing is that really that bad? And last thing on this one is whores that want to rob you are much more of a threat when you are not on social media. I feel if that is what you want to do with your life, stay on social media. #Keepwhoresonsocialmedia

The female says she feels sorry for them and they are trying to feel valued in the wrong ways.

First thing is I am trying to figure out why someone would feel sad about this and shake their head the entire time they looked at this post. To me it looks like they are doing exactly what they want to do. It looks like they are a few stories up and the weather is sunny. She is probably getting paid to top it off. Not to mention she probably does her fair share of traveling to other sunny places and good chance that's all paid for. She doesn't have a 9-5 in an office. If that's the case, I want to say she is getting valued in the best ways possible plus probably showered in compliments.

Both of you made that life seem so bad but I think I got to disagree with both of you.

[Phoenix98]

They're mostly attention seekers craving attention and validation. Some of them are insecure and want others to tell them how good looking they are to make themselves feel better and then some are whores, thots looking to scam people out of money or whore themselves off.

[wingattebaby16]

I admire them.

I wish I looked that good to post on instagram.

I believe if you got the body, use it, show it, do whatever you need to get what you want out of Life.

I will probably get blasted, but I believe that if you have a good body, use it to get what you want and need in Life. If that means you hook up with a rich older man that wants to be with a sexy young woman, go for it! Just save the money and gifts he gives you so when he moves on or dies, you have money set aside to live on.

I admit I have been with a lot of older men (10-20 years older than me) that enjoyed having a young girlfriend to hang out with, show off, and I loved sex with them. I learned a lot about Life and am where I am today coz I took that advice and used it.

Let's just say when I am 30yo, i have a trust fund from an old boyfriend where I had improved his pizza business where he made like 5-10 times more than he ever did in his life! When he sold the business, he gave me a portion of the profit, but put it into a trust fund that I cannot touch until I am 30yo. It is about $175,000... it has grown some in 2yrs, but I look forward to NOT having to count on anyone when I turn 30yo!

[Dutchgirl97]

I was shaking my head when I was looking at these. I feel sad for them. I feel like they are trying to feel valued in the wrong ways.

[Daniela1982]

The OP must be downvoting us because she follows these girls on Instagram.

[thecapitalist]

@Daniela1982 totally agree take my upvote

[rajveer11]

I mean, all these pictures seem to be from a celebrity account so while I myself hate the pictures, I think celebrities are given more excuse than others.

[rajveer11]

*other girls doing the same thing

[Jjpayne]

As a guy I enjoy the views but from a woman's perspective, I've seen a guy say craving attention and that sounds about right. It can simply be showing off her body or her trying to get likes or followers. In fact, I'm pretty sure it's a good way to get followers when you post pictures like that.

But overall, pictures like that are simply popcorn. You eat it and it's gone. But pictures of simple girls having fun like this
They are not my pics but they have watermarkers

Those women I would rather see.. Because pictures like the one you showed only last briefly. They are not nearly as interesting as a goofy or fun girl. The girls are attractive but I like girls that are fun and goofy more

[silvermoon84]

Agreed. If I were a guy I would think the pictures of girls being goofy would leave a more lasting and respectable impression

[chapawapa]

Ur such a cutie JJ lol love it

[Jjpayne]

Thank you both ☺

[EclecticEmapath1111]

To be completely honest, I think that these girls are extremely beautiful and sexy. But, I also think that there's this impending desire for some of them to feel important and be more than what they are. Maybe it's because they are so beautiful that girls want to be around them so their social status upgrades and they look good on the surface and gain popularity from hanging out with an instagram model etc. And maybe it's because most men just want them for their bodies because of sex and they feel like nobody sees the person who they really are inside and loves them for that and that can be a really bad feeling, so they take what they can get to feel good about themselves by posting provocative pictures and gaining likes, followings and fans. Some may do that for those reasons but, there's some who want to make money or get discovered and be famous too. Either way, it's really up to them what they want to do with their time and lives. I don't feel jealous and I don't feel scorn when I see these pictures, however I do wonder what's real when I look these women, and I wonder if they would open up about what's really going on inside of them or just pretend that everything is fantastic and they are happy and everyone wants to be them etc. Just to keep up appearances. I guess there's really no way to tell unless I met one of these girls and talked with her openly and honestly. I do wonder what they would say and I do wonder if any of them can actually be that open without any fear of looking bad or vulnerable or something leaking and going viral about it. I believe that many people are far too obsessed with what others think about them that it changes us and our behaviors.

[ragequeen]

I mean there's nothing wrong with it. But it makes it less exciting for the guy when they're in an actual relationship, because his girlfriend is on full display for everyone to see. What does he get to have for himself? It makes me feel amazing that only my boyfriend knows what's underneath, and when I wear tight clothes, people can only imagine what I got. However, if you're single, I can understand because it's normal to want to attract mates. But if you're in a relationship, I don't get it. Mental issues, maybe.

[Cynicaldreamer]

They're attention whores.
They use their body and/or looks to get views and attention. I'm not going to lie, I really abhor women that do crap like that; it's pathetic. Ironically, they are the main ones that complain about creeps or weirdos messaging or harassing them online, yet they're dressed like that.

Now I'm not condoning said behave from guys; however, there are other ways to get views and follows than posting sexy or half naked pictures online.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Even if you are naked nobody has a right to sexually harass you or rape you. I even do not post any pic of me but still get creepy messages from guys. It is enough for such guys if you have vagina.

[laurieluvsit]

If there are girls who want to post them and girls and guys that want to look at them, I see nothing wrong with it.

Obviously, you looked at them

... isn't that what freedom is all about?

[Juxtapose]

Yeah but they don't get freedom from judgement.

[laurieluvsit]

@Juxtapose

Yes, the judger has the freedom to judge but they also have the freedom to not look at things they don't like and that seems to be the choice that makes the most sense :)

[Juxtapose]

I personally think that women getting their egos inflated online is incredibly detrimental to real-life relationships but nothing guys can say or do will really do anything about it unless they get all prudish like they're under Sharia law. (fuck that)

I don't like the way the future is headed. I believe in free love but I just keep seeing more narcissists pop up because they are getting carried in life by their looks and getting false validation online from simps.

Meanwhile guys are kind of forgotten unless they are in the gay community.

[FictionalCharacter]

This started off as celebrities posting nude bathroom selfies, from Kim Kardashian to Rihanna.

But during that time, normal women were just posting before and after weight loss. Nothing sexual.

So makeup artists and fashion designers were posting new business brands, and were paid for posting the products.

Then comes along Kylie Jenner posting almost nude selfies and plastic surgery lip fillers. That young girls were trying to mimic that as well.

But, each of these are different categories. That now women are mixing these up.
And the public eye don’t know what they are seeing or what the intent is of the picture, except is just sexual and nothing serious.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Attention seeking... They need attention and need validation...
But you should be able to get attention without flashing your body all over the internet... That's my opinion to which I'm entitled, so if anyone has an issue with that that's their problem not mine...

[winterfox10]

I don't have any problem with it; they should do whatever they want. But I will say that posting pictures like that forfeits your right to be a feminist. You don't get to post thirst traps up claiming it's an artistic expression, and then be mad when you get objectified. Art is an object. There needs to be understanding about these things. I'm in favor of treating sex workers with respect, but it needs to be understood where the line of objectifying sex as a product begins and ends, and where not treating someone like a person begins and ends.

[cth96190]

What I think is that she is following her biological programming.
Women are hard wired to seek the attention of men, because that is how they attract mates.
This girl is beautiful, so she is using what nature gave her to attract male attention, which validates her and brings her into contact with a lot of men who she would not have encountered otherwise.
In terms of a hard-wired mating strategy, this girl is doing exactly what nature programmed her to do.
If she is making money out of the exercise, then more power to her.
I hope that she has a longer-term economic plan, because being young, beautiful and desired by many men has a brief shelf life.
Most young women do not think that far ahead.
Do I desire her?
Hell yes! She is exquisitely beautiful, as close as any woman gets to perfection.
Any man who does not want to jump her bones is gay.

[Daniela1982]

What a lot of people think, but more women think it then men.

[Daniela1982]

OK, which attention seekers are downvoting us here? You must take pics like that of yourself too and post them. It is what it is - attention seeking.

[kitty71]

Desperate for attention, trashy, whore, not decent. Low self esteem. Believe that only for their body they will get nice people to talk to them for serious stuff. Yeah right!!

[elizamichale1]

That they are confident and bold in their personalities and most importantly they are free to post whatever they choose to

[chrissykerdock]

i can't condemn her she has a great body... she's young and beautiful... definitely someone to look at... i wouldn't mind being intimate with her myself even though i'm straight... i don't feel there's anything wrong with it i mean no one is forcing anyone to look at her... and she's bringing beauty and happiness to the world afterall.

[MCheetah]

I think most of them are vapid, shallow attention whores seeking validation from random strangers in lieu of having a personality, but hey, they make for good, free fap material and are getting everything they want out of it, so I approve of Instagram for that alone (and don't why anyone would rather pay for an OnlyFans, which is essentially the same thing).

[bluetoblack99]

Attention whores. Yeah they are nice to look at but I never will like or post comments on their pics.

I don’t want to be part of the problem. It’s one thing if you post one pic like this out of 10. Quite another when you do it every single day. Deep down you are very insecure about yourself and need constant reassurance like a drug.

[Hannah_le]

I personally don’t have a issue but the only fans thing does get annoying because they are young but same time it’ll be all over Instagram and people have relationships and etc can cause jealousy but overall I’m fine with it just too much of it or showing /inappropriate acts in public I rlly don’t like cuz even for a video you shouldn’t have to display yourself like that.

[Kurαȷ]

That they make a lot of money working a legitimate job that doesn't generate surplus value by exploiting the labor of other people.

It's easy, but respectable.
At least they aren't sex workers.

[whatdoyouwantt]

Really low actually. That’s the reason I left IG. It’s full of fake pics that are photoshopped as hell, women showing things they shouldn’t, then complain how guys are such fboys. I mean wtf can you expect really. Its funny how everyone’s body looks perfect and their booties but when I went to a beach I saw no good booty. Hows that possible if its so common to have a big booty 😭

[AlienParasite]

I find them boring. In general I find Instagram boring because most of the time it provides not too much information or interesting data. In this case this happens. This girl doesn't provide me anything valuable by sharing this type of content. If you haven't made this question and I saw these photos anywhere else I would naturally ignore her existence.

[ajzervin]

Young in high school no. I will be really pissed off if my daughter has this. Come on guys think about family how would you feel if they post pics like that? Especially tha ones close to you wife and daughters. Plus they the ones that attract the creeps and get nude pics by dudes, and weird comments. Go to a girl that dont post stuff like that and they dont get none of that creepy shit.